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Can’t wait till the next time!?

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By *loozie and Pedro OP   Couple
over a year ago

Grays

So funny when you look at people’s verifications and in more than half the cases you see “can’t wait to meet up again” or “till next time”! Then way and behold in most cases no further meets between them so so funny

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"So funny when you look at people’s verifications and in more than half the cases you see “can’t wait to meet up again” or “till next time”! Then way and behold in most cases no further meets between them so so funny "

Not everyone posts repeat veris.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

... Like, I've met one guy probably 20 times in the last 12 months, maybe more. Us verifying each other every time would look a little mad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly- if you end up seeing the same person regularly, would you verify them every single time you meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.. Yeah I rarely veri again n have been meeting one guy for over 2 years.. Don't see the point

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"So funny when you look at people’s verifications and in more than half the cases you see “can’t wait to meet up again” or “till next time”! Then way and behold in most cases no further meets between them so so funny

Not everyone posts repeat veris. "

Repeat veris can often come over as lamp post pissing and to me are a big turn off.

I met my FB at a club 2 1/2 years ago and we've been meeting regularly whenever our schedules allow. He has only verified me once and I'm more than happy with that. I don't need dozens of veris from the same person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A repeat veri is fine with me, provides it replaces the old one. Lamppost pissing I like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s the “don’t miss out on him ladies”, or “ladies, if you get the chance, go for it” veris that get me.

I can make my own mind up thanks.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"... Like, I've met one guy probably 20 times in the last 12 months, maybe more. Us verifying each other every time would look a little mad. "

Same here, one is plenty, two maximum. Any more than that and it looks like territory marking.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I give a social veri and occasionally a verification after a further meet or if they’ve not had one for a while.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

Also, maybe they DID really want to meet again at the time it was written, but things changed over time or circumstances didn’t permit it?

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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago

Weirdsville South Coast Dorset


"... Like, I've met one guy probably 20 times in the last 12 months, maybe more. Us verifying each other every time would look a little mad.

Same here, one is plenty, two maximum. Any more than that and it looks like territory marking. "

^^^This! Iv met up many multi times but never left more then 1 veri, actually left 1 guy 2 but about a year apart (he earnt it).

I have guys ask to meet who have multi veris, from 1 person and yes it's really off putting

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

OP you have loads of veris that refer to hopefully seeing you again or catching up soon.

As others have said, once you've verified someone, it's done. No need to keep verifying that they're (still) real.

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

If I met someone like 10 times or more have to verify each time dont see the point

Never verified anyone multiple times no need to unless you want brag about how many meets u have

5 to 10 veri enough to prove u genuine that's what it is for i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone asked me recently if I don't meet anymore because I don't have many verifications. I explained this is because I tend to meet the same guys regularly. They said I'm supposed to send a verification with every meet or I'm a time waster. ....as you can imagine, my reply was short lol

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By *inkyman1964Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent


"So funny when you look at people’s verifications and in more than half the cases you see “can’t wait to meet up again” or “till next time”! Then way and behold in most cases no further meets between them so so funny "

How do you know they haven't met again?

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

Op I have met multiple people socialy I don’t always post repeat veris because I don’t need to.

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

As others have all said I don't do repeat veris, might do one for a social and one for the first full meet but don't see the point of more. Veris are to say people are who and what they say they are, not a complete log of their Fab adventures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We might veri as a social then as a play meet but multiple veris just looks like being needy. Male

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester

Treat with respect gets me, do alot not do this

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"So funny when you look at people’s verifications and in more than half the cases you see “can’t wait to meet up again” or “till next time”! Then way and behold in most cases no further meets between them so so funny "

How do you come to the conclusion that no further meets ever happened or that it wasn't the other party that decided not to meet again?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I could possibly run to three veris in most instances. Met for the first time, they're worth seeing again, and they're still interesting in the long term. Particularly if they get lots of veris and yours get buried.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never understood veris. Surely theyre for certifying someone as genuine not how good they are each time you meet!

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"So funny when you look at people’s verifications and in more than half the cases you see “can’t wait to meet up again” or “till next time”! Then way and behold in most cases no further meets between them so so funny

Not everyone posts repeat veris. "
This they are pretty redundant.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I've never understood veris. Surely theyre for certifying someone as genuine not how good they are each time you meet! "

I also use them as part of my judge of character. If 10 people say similar nice things, it's probably not unreasonable, sort of thing.

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"I've never understood veris. Surely theyre for certifying someone as genuine not how good they are each time you meet!

I also use them as part of my judge of character. If 10 people say similar nice things, it's probably not unreasonable, sort of thing. "
I just bribe people for good veris

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By *ave-and-LouiseCouple
over a year ago

Torquay

We've met the same person more than once and only left the one verification, so I wouldn't read to much in to it. It wasn't because anything was wrong or the second meet wasn't any good, it just didn't feel necessary. D

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By *oldupsnheelsCouple
over a year ago

bideford

We did a veri for a cam chat, then 1 for when we actually met, helped to show they actual did meet and it wasn't all pillow talk. Have to be honest my pet peeve is the veri that describes everything that happened during the meet

It's a bit like a fully nekid picture, yes they can be good but it's fun to leave a little to the imagination to be explored

Mrs P x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone multiple verifies not everyone shows them all not everyone likes stalkers analysing their profile. It all seems a bit creepy to me people wanting to know who everyone meets how often and when.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So funny when you look at people’s verifications and in more than half the cases you see “can’t wait to meet up again” or “till next time”! Then way and behold in most cases no further meets between them so so funny "

I think I’ve even put that myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s the “don’t miss out on him ladies”, or “ladies, if you get the chance, go for it” veris that get me.

I can make my own mind up thanks. "

THE hard sell!

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East

i cannot remember giving or receiving a second verification from anyone. What's the point?

It's not meant to be a diary.

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By *nglishdoodMan
over a year ago

Morristown

I'd never give a second veri. The clue is in the name. It's 'veri' not 'review'

Honestly, once you have one or two I don't see the point of showing them at all. Who I meet is no one's business but mine and the other person/s.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough


"So funny when you look at people’s verifications and in more than half the cases you see “can’t wait to meet up again” or “till next time”! Then way and behold in most cases no further meets between them so so funny "

How do you know? I’ve met lots of people more than once but don’t gave lots of verifications from them all. Such a weird assumption to make.

V x

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