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By *anieldolt OP   Man
over a year ago

bham

I want to suck a Cock for the first time and I really want to be safe and use protection at least until I know the person better but no one seems okay with using a condom for receiving oral? Am I being silly?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

If a woman wanted to put on a condom to suck my dick, I'd say don't bother, waste of time.

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

No, stick to your guns. I've head someone ask me to wear a condom for it, and happy to oblige

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By *avid ElliottCouple
over a year ago

West Worthing

I can't see a problem, surely if a lady want to suck it that's a bonus x

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

Or try a dental dam

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"Or try a dental dam"

Is that like the Hoover Dam?

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby


"Or try a dental dam

Is that like the Hoover Dam?"

Or the dyson dam

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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol East


" Am I being silly? "

No, it's not silly to think about your own health.

I insist on a condom for penetrative sex but I am more relaxed about oral sex.

I understand the risks of transmission of infection are lower.

I would not recommend it if you have, say, a mouth ulcer or bleeding gums - any sort of fissure in your mouth, really.

Ultimately, it is a personal call for each of us to make.

No-one else is looking after your sexual health - only you can do that.

Hope this helps.

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By *ickygirl41Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow


" Am I being silly?

No, it's not silly to think about your own health.

I insist on a condom for penetrative sex but I am more relaxed about oral sex.

I understand the risks of transmission of infection are lower.

I would not recommend it if you have, say, a mouth ulcer or bleeding gums - any sort of fissure in your mouth, really.

Ultimately, it is a personal call for each of us to make.

No-one else is looking after your sexual health - only you can do that.

Hope this helps."

Absolutely this!

You decide your risk level to suit you, if a potential partner doesn't like it then slide on down the bar to the next one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a girl suck my cock when I was wearing a condom. Felt just as good, no issues at all.

It's your choice so go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the proper definition of safe sex to use a condom for oral. Anything else is 'safer' sex. It's your boundaries and you should stick to them. People sometimes lie about test results and timing. It's not responsible at all!

I'm thinking of one guy who said he liked to fuck bareback but only only got tested once a year it was revealed, for example!!

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By *ill DoeMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

It's why they make flavoured condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's why they make flavoured condoms "

I thought that was to taste nice for us men when we go down between fucks!

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By *ill DoeMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"It's why they make flavoured condoms

I thought that was to taste nice for us men when we go down between fucks! "
that too I'm guessing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's why they make flavoured condoms

I thought that was to taste nice for us men when we go down between fucks! that too I'm guessing "

Of course not saying you all don't already taste delicious, Ladies!

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By *ornyDubMan25Man
over a year ago

Berlin

I would say compensate with a bare, teasing handjob with lube in combination with a covered blowjob...

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By *eddonistikMan
over a year ago

Manchester


"I would say compensate with a bare, teasing handjob with lube in combination with a covered blowjob... "

Can't see the point either way,if my cocks being sucked I like to be swallowed or swap the the cum afterwards. If I'm doing the sucking vice versa. Just me?

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"Its the proper definition of safe sex to use a condom for oral. Anything else is 'safer' sex. It's your boundaries and you should stick to them. People sometimes lie about test results and timing. It's not responsible at all!

I'm thinking of one guy who said he liked to fuck bareback but only only got tested once a year it was revealed, for example!!"

No it's not. The only safe sex is no sex. Sex with condoms still carrys a risk. Be it relatively small. Oral with a condom aint for me. I'd rather go without. Your choice how you play OP.

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"It's why they make flavoured condoms "

Which taste rank!!

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By *ill DoeMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"It's why they make flavoured condoms

Which taste rank!!"
I haven't tried them but I would think it's got to be better than the alternative?

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"It's why they make flavoured condoms

Which taste rank!! I haven't tried them but I would think it's got to be better than the alternative? "

No the alternative which is dont bother is preferable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Am I being silly?

No, it's not silly to think about your own health.

I insist on a condom for penetrative sex but I am more relaxed about oral sex.

I understand the risks of transmission of infection are lower.

I would not recommend it if you have, say, a mouth ulcer or bleeding gums - any sort of fissure in your mouth, really.

Ultimately, it is a personal call for each of us to make.

No-one else is looking after your sexual health - only you can do that.

Hope this helps."

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London


"I want to suck a Cock for the first time and I really want to be safe and use protection at least until I know the person better but no one seems okay with using a condom for receiving oral? Am I being silly? "

No you’re not. Do what works for you. If the other party doesn’t want it then it’s their loss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to suck a Cock for the first time and I really want to be safe and use protection at least until I know the person better but no one seems okay with using a condom for receiving oral? Am I being silly? "

That's perfectly reasonable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use a condom then drink from it afterwards

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Stick to your guns safe allways till you know them and even then safe your choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to suck a Cock for the first time and I really want to be safe and use protection at least until I know the person better but no one seems okay with using a condom for receiving oral? Am I being silly? "

Some will be fine with it some won’t be. Personal preferences. You sound risk avoiding so using one is fine just ask before meeting that other person is on same page. Otherwise be awkward moment lol

Myself I wouldn’t use one for oral giving or receiving. Can’t stand the texture / taste or smell . Some people have declined meets with me on this and Vica versa. No biggie just a numbers game finding people compatible with

Ps may want mouthwash close to hand if your going to kiss inbetween after lol

Enjoy op

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By *exysusangTV/TS
over a year ago

stechford - Birmingham

Personal preference. But they are dangerous if you are deep throating! Nearly gagged once when it came off in my throat

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Horses for courses mate. Its defo not for me whether its licourice,strawberry or plain rubber, i like the flavour of cock...

As a cocksucker,i always turn away guys who request a cover,but i totally respect their choice and i know some people will suck with a condom on.

Enjoy and i hope you love your maiden suck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to suck a Cock for the first time and I really want to be safe and use protection at least until I know the person better but no one seems okay with using a condom for receiving oral? Am I being silly? "
No your very wise you don't know where half these ppl have been x

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By *ung_londonMan
over a year ago

London


"I want to suck a Cock for the first time and I really want to be safe and use protection at least until I know the person better but no one seems okay with using a condom for receiving oral? Am I being silly? "

No not silly at all - the whole point is to find a connection which is right for both parties. If the other guy won’t use a condom to start with he’s not taking on your desires and concerns (which doesn’t make him a bad person, just not the right guy for this encounter). As for everyone on here - what you need to feel safe and secure and OK about a meet is important- which is different for all of us. The tricky thing sometimes is finding the other people with compatible desires! I’m sure you will, though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a woman wanted to put on a condom to suck my dick, I'd say don't bother, waste of time."

Same, obviously I'd respect her choice but let's not waste eachothers time with useless activities

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By *ax_uk_2009Man
over a year ago

Wilmslow


"I want to suck a Cock for the first time and I really want to be safe and use protection at least until I know the person better but no one seems okay with using a condom for receiving oral? Am I being silly? "

I would agree. STDs are equally passed on via oral sex as by intercourse. I have only ever used condoms with ladies I have met. Even with oral when asked.

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By *MabzeroMan
over a year ago

Mid-Ulster


"If a woman wanted to put on a condom to suck my dick, I'd say don't bother, waste of time."

Even if they had herpes?

Not criticising anyone with herpes, we've probably all got it by now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If a woman wanted to put on a condom to suck my dick, I'd say don't bother, waste of time.

Even if they had herpes?

Not criticising anyone with herpes, we've probably all got it by now."

If a person had visible sores which a herpes outbreak usually shows I doubt many would continue the meet

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"If a woman wanted to put on a condom to suck my dick, I'd say don't bother, waste of time."

Same here , and I have done so on more than one occasion . I’d rather have a wank

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By *r Nowt SpecialMan
over a year ago

north west

Each to their own...i like it

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"If a woman wanted to put on a condom to suck my dick, I'd say don't bother, waste of time.

Even if they had herpes?

Not criticising anyone with herpes, we've probably all got it by now."
I wouldn't fuck a woman if she had herpes full stop!

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

dont lower your standards, yes its better uncovered, but a lot of people seem to have no idea that you can catch vd from oral, unless you have absolute belief in someone be safe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to suck a Cock for the first time and I really want to be safe and use protection at least until I know the person better but no one seems okay with using a condom for receiving oral? Am I being silly? "
not at all its your choice.but .its not the same with a condom on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I want to suck a Cock for the first time and I really want to be safe and use protection at least until I know the person better but no one seems okay with using a condom for receiving oral? Am I being silly? "

Do whatever the hell makes you feel comfortable OP. If your partner isn't up for it then they're not the one for you. Have fun x

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"If a woman wanted to put on a condom to suck my dick, I'd say don't bother, waste of time.

Even if they had herpes?

Not criticising anyone with herpes, we've probably all got it by now. I wouldn't fuck a woman if she had herpes full stop! "

...and how would you know?

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"If a woman wanted to put on a condom to suck my dick, I'd say don't bother, waste of time.

Even if they had herpes?

Not criticising anyone with herpes, we've probably all got it by now. I wouldn't fuck a woman if she had herpes full stop!

...and how would you know?"
Well if I could see she had a coldsore or that hsv which requires you to tell somebody by law.

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By *iercedyvonneTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

Apparently the non-latex skyns condoms have no taste so are fine for this.

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By *ralpleasure1Man
over a year ago

Fareham


"I want to suck a Cock for the first time and I really want to be safe and use protection at least until I know the person better but no one seems okay with using a condom for receiving oral? Am I being silly? "

Very wise, currently chatting with someone who seems lovely but has 3 other partner and says they’re ok....how’d they know for certain?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Defo without xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't compromise, you'll find someone you like that will allow it

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By *ust ClareTV/TS
over a year ago

Settlewick!

I'd say it depends what you want to get out of it From the receivers point of view, a condom isn't going to massively reduce their enjoyment, but as a giver,unless you're doing it purely for the other persons pleasure,it seems pretty pointless.You might as well put a condom on a banana or a cucumber and suck that instead, it won't feel any different

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