FabSwingers.com forum: Why delete my messages with no response?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What's going on?

All u women are deleting my messages

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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

Just take it as a polite "no thank you".

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Because your not god's to woman

And they don't owe you a response if they are NOT interested.

Check rules

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Just take it as a polite "no thank you". "

Then block that profile and move on. Whittle your potential matches down to a handful rather than a hundred

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

It's the way here - if it bothers you, it won't change or get better

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

most females get hundreds of messages a day, they cannot all be answered so they delete, take it as a thanks but no thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same reason you dont read or reply to junk mail that comes to your house through the postbox

not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do the same, if someone is too far away and I don't see us ever meeting I delete without opening. Can't reply to every message with a no thanks, I don't have time. The delete is a no thanks. Don't take it personally

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Because they're not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All you women!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"All you women! "

what about us???? lol

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By *inky SpiceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Because otherwise this is what our day looks like:

No thanks, you're not what I'm looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because otherwise this is what our day looks like:

No thanks, you're not what I'm looking for

This cracked me up

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

The long message, plus navigating the whiny, crappy, abusive responses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because otherwise this is what our day looks like:

No thanks, you're not what I'm looking for

Wow exactly 98

*at least feeling privileged that I was no 3

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By *inky SpiceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"Because otherwise this is what our day looks like:

No thanks, you're not what I'm looking for

Wow exactly 98

*at least feeling privileged that I was no 3

That's cos you're speshul

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

"What's going on?

All u women are deleting my messages"

When you receive cold call regarding your unclaimed PPI or accident that wasn't your fault are you obliged to sit and talk to them simply because they're a complete stranger who called you?

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By *inky SpiceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Wow exactly 98

*at least feeling privileged that I was no 3

Plus it's a myth that single women get hundreds of messages a day. We only get 98.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always thought it was because women and couples love the same bland, generic message over and over again from someone who hasn't even read their profile. To help facilitate this they delete the message so that you can resend it again and again. Or have I been misinformed...

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By *ickeyandmouseCouple
over a year ago

nr Alicante

Thick single men do my head in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because otherwise this is what our day looks like:

No thanks, you're not what I'm looking for

Wow exactly 98

*at least feeling privileged that I was no 3

That's cos you're speshul

Thanxs gawjus funny enough I'm just passing through faf

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I always thought it was because women and couples love the same bland, generic message over and over again from someone who hasn't even read their profile. To help facilitate this they delete the message so that you can resend it again and again. Or have I been misinformed...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read the sie rules OP

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

Wow exactly 98

*at least feeling privileged that I was no 3

Plus it's a myth that single women get hundreds of messages a day. We only get 98."

thats six more than we get

lol

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Read the sie rules OP"

Now now! your just being silly suggesting that we all know only a very small number of males READ anything on here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP try only messaging a few women that you really like the sound/look of and who’s criteria you fit. Send a personalised message saying what you like about them. If you send out dozens per day you’re likely to have a low response rate and feel ignored. Put effort into a select few and you’re more likely to get a response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow exactly 98

*at least feeling privileged that I was no 3

Plus it's a myth that single women get hundreds of messages a day. We only get 98.

thats six more than we get

lol"

5 more ..but just delete mine .. It's only a cut n paste faf sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thick single men do my head in."

When you say thick I take it you mean not very clever and not the other thick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also the first thing I, and many women, do is look at the profile first. If there’s nothing on there to entice me I don’t bother reading the message, so check that your profile is reflecting you in the best possible way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's going on?

All u women are deleting my messages"

Did you think Fab was Instashag?

You did, didn't you.

Fabswingers isn't instashag.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

The man asked a question, he didn't say he was entitled to sex or that it is instashag on his post, nor did he ask for his profile to be discussed

To the OP, some people reply and some people don't, if you accept that you will enjoy your time on the site more

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