FabSwingers.com forum: Fab summary

By *ilkchocolate87 OP Man
over a year ago

sw london

- chances of getting laid in London are more if you’re an athletic black male

- timing is everything, you can be a genuine guy, but women’s inbox are Innundated

- Asian men are bottom of the list for 95% of women whether it be personal preference or a preconception.

- looks are 95% of the way to lock down a meet. If you aren’t an average looking male, don’t bother trying as there will be someone better looking than you who will get that meet.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"- chances of getting laid in London are more if you’re an athletic black male

- timing is everything, you can be a genuine guy, but women’s inbox are Innundated

- Asian men are bottom of the list for 95% of women whether it be personal preference or a preconception.

- looks are 95% of the way to lock down a meet. If you aren’t an average looking male, don’t bother trying as there will be someone better looking than you who will get that meet.

This is abit of a defeatist attitude!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"- chances of getting laid in London are more if you’re an athletic black male

- timing is everything, you can be a genuine guy, but women’s inbox are Innundated

- Asian men are bottom of the list for 95% of women whether it be personal preference or a preconception.

- looks are 95% of the way to lock down a meet. If you aren’t an average looking male, don’t bother trying as there will be someone better looking than you who will get that meet.

I consider myself average looking. I'm sure there are plenty of people who are 'Better looking'. Doesn't stop me trying.

If it IS all about the 'Statistics' Then be the exception to the rule.

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP Man
over a year ago

sw london

"- chances of getting laid in London are more if you’re an athletic black male

- timing is everything, you can be a genuine guy, but women’s inbox are Innundated

- Asian men are bottom of the list for 95% of women whether it be personal preference or a preconception.

- looks are 95% of the way to lock down a meet. If you aren’t an average looking male, don’t bother trying as there will be someone better looking than you who will get that meet.

I consider myself average looking. I'm sure there are plenty of people who are 'Better looking'. Doesn't stop me trying.

If it IS all about the 'Statistics' Then be the exception to the rule.

You go brother

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP Man
over a year ago

sw london

"- chances of getting laid in London are more if you’re an athletic black male

- timing is everything, you can be a genuine guy, but women’s inbox are Innundated

- Asian men are bottom of the list for 95% of women whether it be personal preference or a preconception.

- looks are 95% of the way to lock down a meet. If you aren’t an average looking male, don’t bother trying as there will be someone better looking than you who will get that meet.

This is abit of a defeatist attitude! "

I use another site for most of my meets - fab is more if I get ‘lucky’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amazing how you put men's "luck" all down to things outside of men's control . If only men accepted responsibility for their actions then they may be able to change them and have better luck on here.

For me it's all about your profile, how you message me and how you behave. Looks are subjective and negotiable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Words like genuine which men keep telling us constantly are meaningless. Genuine what, anyway?

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP Man
over a year ago

sw london

"Amazing how you put men's "luck" all down to things outside of men's control . If only men accepted responsibility for their actions then they may be able to change them and have better luck on here.

For me it's all about your profile, how you message me and how you behave. Looks are subjective and negotiable "

Categorically disagree. I’ve often had many conversations that have led to a meet until the words ‘shall we arrange a meet’ have led to a no reply or profile being blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would not meet someone who 1) asks me to meet

Or 2) suggests meeting after only message exchange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the way you literally cannot disagree with me... As that is how I operate in here. And maybe that's why you don't have luck because you don't listen to what women want. Even if you don't like it, at least acknowledging it would lead to less disappointment.

Plus you said you need to be a black man. You don't seem to be one, so how comes you're having so many conversations, regardless of where they lead?

Perhaps it's your conversation.

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP Man
over a year ago

sw london

My conversation is completely Fine. In fact, I’m often complimented on my ability to hold a conversation and not ask for someone’s number immediately after a few messages.

As for your opinion on ‘thinking you’re on a pedestal because you’re a woman on a sex site’ you need to Lower your tone - you are embarrassing yourself.

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By *ompyjcMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

And that's how you talk to people.

I see what im doing wrong i should be more rude and full of myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"- chances of getting laid in London are more if you’re an athletic black male

- timing is everything, you can be a genuine guy, but women’s inbox are Innundated

- Asian men are bottom of the list for 95% of women whether it be personal preference or a preconception.

- looks are 95% of the way to lock down a meet. If you aren’t an average looking male, don’t bother trying as there will be someone better looking than you who will get that meet.

This is abit of a defeatist attitude!

I use another site for most of my meets - fab is more if I get ‘lucky’"

What other site :p x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some interesting perspectives.... I think fab really is as simple as you get out what you put in ....

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP Man
over a year ago

sw london

"- chances of getting laid in London are more if you’re an athletic black male

- timing is everything, you can be a genuine guy, but women’s inbox are Innundated

- Asian men are bottom of the list for 95% of women whether it be personal preference or a preconception.

- looks are 95% of the way to lock down a meet. If you aren’t an average looking male, don’t bother trying as there will be someone better looking than you who will get that meet.

This is abit of a defeatist attitude!

I use another site for most of my meets - fab is more if I get ‘lucky’

What other site :p x"

Secret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"- chances of getting laid in London are more if you’re an athletic black male

- timing is everything, you can be a genuine guy, but women’s inbox are Innundated

- Asian men are bottom of the list for 95% of women whether it be personal preference or a preconception.

- looks are 95% of the way to lock down a meet. If you aren’t an average looking male, don’t bother trying as there will be someone better looking than you who will get that meet.

Bullshit. Ive been here a couple of weeks and the most popular guys on here are ugly fuckers. It's all about their attitudes and personalities that gets them pussy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My conversation is completely Fine. In fact, I’m often complimented on my ability to hold a conversation and not ask for someone’s number immediately after a few messages.

As for your opinion on ‘thinking you’re on a pedestal because you’re a woman on a sex site’ you need to Lower your tone - you are embarrassing yourself.

She was not saying she was on a pedestal, because she's female. She was merely pointing out that she should know what women look for more than you do, because she is one. There are many variables as to why some men are more successful than others on here and it's not just about looks. There's also the way they come across. It's not black and white. From the male profiles i've looked at over the years, the ones with very good profile write ups and decent pictures get the most luck, based on their verifications. Not the ones who are very good looking

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"My conversation is completely Fine. In fact, I’m often complimented on my ability to hold a conversation and not ask for someone’s number immediately after a few messages.

As for your opinion on ‘thinking you’re on a pedestal because you’re a woman on a sex site’ you need to Lower your tone - you are embarrassing yourself.

An attitude like that won't get you very far here. Wind it in...

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP Man
over a year ago

sw london

"My conversation is completely Fine. In fact, I’m often complimented on my ability to hold a conversation and not ask for someone’s number immediately after a few messages.

As for your opinion on ‘thinking you’re on a pedestal because you’re a woman on a sex site’ you need to Lower your tone - you are embarrassing yourself.

An attitude like that won't get you very far here. Wind it in..."

I agree with your comment about the woman who posted this.

She really does need to lower herself from the imaginary pedestal she was on

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"My conversation is completely Fine. In fact, I’m often complimented on my ability to hold a conversation and not ask for someone’s number immediately after a few messages.

As for your opinion on ‘thinking you’re on a pedestal because you’re a woman on a sex site’ you need to Lower your tone - you are embarrassing yourself.

An attitude like that won't get you very far here. Wind it in...

I agree with your comment about the woman who posted this.

She really does need to lower herself from the imaginary pedestal she was on"

I was referring to you, OP..

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP Man
over a year ago

sw london

"My conversation is completely Fine. In fact, I’m often complimented on my ability to hold a conversation and not ask for someone’s number immediately after a few messages.

As for your opinion on ‘thinking you’re on a pedestal because you’re a woman on a sex site’ you need to Lower your tone - you are embarrassing yourself.

An attitude like that won't get you very far here. Wind it in...

I agree with your comment about the woman who posted this.

She really does need to lower herself from the imaginary pedestal she was on

I was referring to you, OP.."

Perhaps you see things different to me. I found her response rude and condescending.

It warranted my reply. To think otherwise is preposterous

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"My conversation is completely Fine. In fact, I’m often complimented on my ability to hold a conversation and not ask for someone’s number immediately after a few messages.

As for your opinion on ‘thinking you’re on a pedestal because you’re a woman on a sex site’ you need to Lower your tone - you are embarrassing yourself.

An attitude like that won't get you very far here. Wind it in...

I agree with your comment about the woman who posted this.

She really does need to lower herself from the imaginary pedestal she was on

I was referring to you, OP..

Perhaps you see things different to me. I found her response rude and condescending.

It warranted my reply. To think otherwise is preposterous "

OP, you seem to be complaining about your lack of success on Fab.

Perhaps you need to ask if you are suited to swinging, or if your apparent negativity is putting people off?

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP Man
over a year ago

sw london

"My conversation is completely Fine. In fact, I’m often complimented on my ability to hold a conversation and not ask for someone’s number immediately after a few messages.

As for your opinion on ‘thinking you’re on a pedestal because you’re a woman on a sex site’ you need to Lower your tone - you are embarrassing yourself.

An attitude like that won't get you very far here. Wind it in...

I agree with your comment about the woman who posted this.

She really does need to lower herself from the imaginary pedestal she was on

I was referring to you, OP..

Perhaps you see things different to me. I found her response rude and condescending.

It warranted my reply. To think otherwise is preposterous

OP, you seem to be complaining about your lack of success on Fab.

Perhaps you need to ask if you are suited to swinging, or if your apparent negativity is putting people off?"

My ability to meet from online has served me well. Fab is a different kettle of fish, I feel it’s my duty in manage others expectations.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"My conversation is completely Fine. In fact, I’m often complimented on my ability to hold a conversation and not ask for someone’s number immediately after a few messages.

As for your opinion on ‘thinking you’re on a pedestal because you’re a woman on a sex site’ you need to Lower your tone - you are embarrassing yourself.

An attitude like that won't get you very far here. Wind it in...

I agree with your comment about the woman who posted this.

She really does need to lower herself from the imaginary pedestal she was on

I was referring to you, OP..

Perhaps you see things different to me. I found her response rude and condescending.

It warranted my reply. To think otherwise is preposterous

OP, you seem to be complaining about your lack of success on Fab.

Perhaps you need to ask if you are suited to swinging, or if your apparent negativity is putting people off?

My ability to meet from online has served me well. Fab is a different kettle of fish, I feel it’s my duty in manage others expectations."

Sex sites and swinging are very different. So good luck with that...

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

As for your opinion on ‘thinking you’re on a pedestal because you’re a woman on a sex site’ you need to Lower your tone - you are embarrassing yourself.

There was no need for this last bit.

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP Man
over a year ago

sw london

"My conversation is completely Fine. In fact, I’m often complimented on my ability to hold a conversation and not ask for someone’s number immediately after a few messages.

As for your opinion on ‘thinking you’re on a pedestal because you’re a woman on a sex site’ you need to Lower your tone - you are embarrassing yourself.

An attitude like that won't get you very far here. Wind it in...

I agree with your comment about the woman who posted this.

She really does need to lower herself from the imaginary pedestal she was on

I was referring to you, OP..

Perhaps you see things different to me. I found her response rude and condescending.

It warranted my reply. To think otherwise is preposterous

OP, you seem to be complaining about your lack of success on Fab.

Perhaps you need to ask if you are suited to swinging, or if your apparent negativity is putting people off?

My ability to meet from online has served me well. Fab is a different kettle of fish, I feel it’s my duty in manage others expectations.

Sex sites and swinging are very different. So good luck with that...

I use kink sites more. Where intellectual stimulation is required more so than a nice picture which is what fab is. Despite what you think

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP Man
over a year ago

sw london

As for your opinion on ‘thinking you’re on a pedestal because you’re a woman on a sex site’ you need to Lower your tone - you are embarrassing yourself.

There was no need for this last bit. "

The last bit was the probably the only part of that sentence that was required. If I could put it in bold I would.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"My conversation is completely Fine. In fact, I’m often complimented on my ability to hold a conversation and not ask for someone’s number immediately after a few messages.

As for your opinion on ‘thinking you’re on a pedestal because you’re a woman on a sex site’ you need to Lower your tone - you are embarrassing yourself.

An attitude like that won't get you very far here. Wind it in...

I agree with your comment about the woman who posted this.

She really does need to lower herself from the imaginary pedestal she was on

I was referring to you, OP..

Perhaps you see things different to me. I found her response rude and condescending.

It warranted my reply. To think otherwise is preposterous

OP, you seem to be complaining about your lack of success on Fab.

Perhaps you need to ask if you are suited to swinging, or if your apparent negativity is putting people off?

My ability to meet from online has served me well. Fab is a different kettle of fish, I feel it’s my duty in manage others expectations.

Sex sites and swinging are very different. So good luck with that...

I use kink sites more. Where intellectual stimulation is required more so than a nice picture which is what fab is. Despite what you think "

Maybe you're looking for the wrong women then because alot of women I know on here are after more than just a pretty face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooh.. *Runs off to find the popcorn & snacks* .. Yes, im here to watch..

.. LOL!

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

As for your opinion on ‘thinking you’re on a pedestal because you’re a woman on a sex site’ you need to Lower your tone - you are embarrassing yourself.

There was no need for this last bit.

The last bit was the probably the only part of that sentence that was required. If I could put it in bold I would. "

Id beg to differ, but anyway wearther you intend it ir not at the moment to me at least your comeing across a bit confrontational. Thats not really something most people find an attractive quality. You might not care but I thought Id try to be helpful and point that out.

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By *ilkchocolate87 OP Man
over a year ago

sw london

As for your opinion on ‘thinking you’re on a pedestal because you’re a woman on a sex site’ you need to Lower your tone - you are embarrassing yourself.

There was no need for this last bit.

The last bit was the probably the only part of that sentence that was required. If I could put it in bold I would.

Thank you for your comment sir

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By *arbellsWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

"- chances of getting laid in London are more if you’re an athletic black male

- timing is everything, you can be a genuine guy, but women’s inbox are Innundated

- Asian men are bottom of the list for 95% of women whether it be personal preference or a preconception.

- looks are 95% of the way to lock down a meet. If you aren’t an average looking male, don’t bother trying as there will be someone better looking than you who will get that meet.

I'm curious as to where you got those statistics OP?

I agree to a certain extent on the 2nd point but if people didn't scatter message and actually read profiles we wouldn't have to sort through days of 'hi how are you' messages.

That reply to the lady above was uncalled for. You should be able to put your point across and have a conversation/debate without going for the throat straight of the bat. Referring to this website as a sex site makes me think you are here for a quick hook up which won't looked at kindly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys tend to get aggressive when they message you and you block them because you didn't like their first message.

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By *urhamjayMan
over a year ago

Durham

"This is abit of a defeatist attitude! "

Only one life to live!

I'd say that realism allows one to refocus efforts. You won't get back the time spent messaging people who don't reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My conversation is completely Fine. In fact, I’m often complimented on my ability to hold a conversation and not ask for someone’s number immediately after a few messages.

As for your opinion on ‘thinking you’re on a pedestal because you’re a woman on a sex site’ you need to Lower your tone - you are embarrassing yourself.

An attitude like that won't get you very far here. Wind it in...

I agree with your comment about the woman who posted this.

She really does need to lower herself from the imaginary pedestal she was on

I was referring to you, OP..

Perhaps you see things different to me. I found her response rude and condescending.

It warranted my reply. To think otherwise is preposterous

OP, you seem to be complaining about your lack of success on Fab.

Perhaps you need to ask if you are suited to swinging, or if your apparent negativity is putting people off?

My ability to meet from online has served me well. Fab is a different kettle of fish, I feel it’s my duty in manage others expectations.

Sex sites and swinging are very different. So good luck with that...

I use kink sites more. Where intellectual stimulation is required more so than a nice picture which is what fab is. Despite what you think "

Going by your profile think you are better suited to a kink site as opposed to here, of course that’s only my opinion and have not asked anyone else or done a survey.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

- People really do think they can virtually wave in my face and I'll fuck them

- While this site has some amazing people I've been honoured to meet, it also has some who I wonder how they function in society

- Never say you've heard the lowest of the low, they'll take it as a challenge

- You need to look after yourself first and foremost

- Don't derive worth from this site

- You can rarely be too careful

- It's a lot of work for everyone

- If used correctly, this site can open so many doors of fantasy and pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are women on here who aren't just here for the black men, or to be put on a pedestal, or for a free ride from the men desperate enough to put their hands in their wallets.

Look for those ones and ignore the rest.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"- chances of getting laid in London are more if you’re an athletic black male

- timing is everything, you can be a genuine guy, but women’s inbox are Innundated

- Asian men are bottom of the list for 95% of women whether it be personal preference or a preconception.

- looks are 95% of the way to lock down a meet. If you aren’t an average looking male, don’t bother trying as there will be someone better looking than you who will get that meet.

This guy - a good reason for filters......

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

I’m not sure I agree with it being 95% down to looks.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I will stick up for the OP a bit, the last bit was probably uncalled for and unnecessary but then I felt that the response from the woman was also uncalled in the first place. Anybody can have a difference of opinion that is what makes the human race interesting but saying that just cause she was a woman he should do as he is told was equally off putting to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another addiction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We really only meet single females... personally think that's harder than being a single bloke.. only about half of the women on herd are bi/curious.

We'd consider ourselves average on looks but our personality and humour seems to take us the rest of the way. Attitude is everything.

To an extent OP is correct people do need there expectations adjusting sometimes.

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over a year ago

"We really only meet single females... personally think that's harder than being a single bloke.. only about half of the women on herd are bi/curious.

We'd consider ourselves average on looks but our personality and humour seems to take us the rest of the way. Attitude is everything.

To an extent OP is correct people do need there expectations adjusting sometimes.

Definately above average

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"We really only meet single females... personally think that's harder than being a single bloke.. only about half of the women on herd are bi/curious.

We'd consider ourselves average on looks but our personality and humour seems to take us the rest of the way. Attitude is everything.

To an extent OP is correct people do need there expectations adjusting sometimes.

Do you mean they should lower their standards?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Trouble is, some blokes get really pissy when they get turned down.

Sometimes they blame fussy women.

Sometimes they blame rude women.

Sometimes they blame black guys, or white guys. Or young guys, or gym guys...

What they don't realise is that sometimes their attitude is the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"- chances of getting laid in London are more if you’re an athletic black male

- timing is everything, you can be a genuine guy, but women’s inbox are Innundated

- Asian men are bottom of the list for 95% of women whether it be personal preference or a preconception.

- looks are 95% of the way to lock down a meet. If you aren’t an average looking male, don’t bother trying as there will be someone better looking than you who will get that meet.

This is abit of a defeatist attitude!

I use another site for most of my meets - fab is more if I get ‘lucky’"
I get loads of meets off fab Swingers it’s a great sitev

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire

"Trouble is, some blokes get really pissy when they get turned down.

Sometimes they blame fussy women.

Sometimes they blame rude women.

Sometimes they blame black guys, or white guys. Or young guys, or gym guys...

What they don't realise is that sometimes their attitude is the problem."

Nailed it

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Trouble is, some blokes get really pissy when they get turned down.

Sometimes they blame fussy women.

Sometimes they blame rude women.

Sometimes they blame black guys, or white guys. Or young guys, or gym guys...

What they don't realise is that sometimes their attitude is the problem.

Nailed it

Thank you

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire

"Trouble is, some blokes get really pissy when they get turned down.

Sometimes they blame fussy women.

Sometimes they blame rude women.

Sometimes they blame black guys, or white guys. Or young guys, or gym guys...

What they don't realise is that sometimes their attitude is the problem.

Nailed it

Thank you

You are welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My conversation is completely Fine. In fact, I’m often complimented on my ability to hold a conversation and not ask for someone’s number immediately after a few messages.

As for your opinion on ‘thinking you’re on a pedestal because you’re a woman on a sex site’ you need to Lower your tone - you are embarrassing yourself.

An attitude like that won't get you very far here. Wind it in...

I agree with your comment about the woman who posted this.

She really does need to lower herself from the imaginary pedestal she was on

I was referring to you, OP..

Perhaps you see things different to me. I found her response rude and condescending.

It warranted my reply. To think otherwise is preposterous

OP, you seem to be complaining about your lack of success on Fab.

Perhaps you need to ask if you are suited to swinging, or if your apparent negativity is putting people off?

My ability to meet from online has served me well. Fab is a different kettle of fish, I feel it’s my duty in manage others expectations."

Your duty?

Well done Sir for raising your observations and declaring that Fab doesn't suit your needs.

If Fab is so shite, why stick around?

For what Fab provides and the interactions I have on here, it works perfectly.

I suspect it is your expectations that are not being met. There again if you are having more "luck" on an adult workers site, Fab is a completely different kettle of fish.

Unbelievable though it may sound, women (by virtue of numbers) can pick and choose who they want. Unlike some men, they don't have the "any pole a goal" mentality.

Your success, or lack of, is down to you. Other men are getting meets because they stand out, appeal, or have something about them that clearly you are lacking.

Don't blame demographics, geography or numbers when it is you that isn't knee deep in clunge

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Trouble is, some blokes get really pissy when they get turned down.

Sometimes they blame fussy women.

Sometimes they blame rude women.

Sometimes they blame black guys, or white guys. Or young guys, or gym guys...

What they don't realise is that sometimes their attitude is the problem.

Nailed it

Thank you

You are welcome

Nice chin, by the way..

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire

"Trouble is, some blokes get really pissy when they get turned down.

Sometimes they blame fussy women.

Sometimes they blame rude women.

Sometimes they blame black guys, or white guys. Or young guys, or gym guys...

What they don't realise is that sometimes their attitude is the problem.

Nailed it

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Nice chin, by the way..

Many thanks, lovely lips

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Trouble is, some blokes get really pissy when they get turned down.

Sometimes they blame fussy women.

Sometimes they blame rude women.

Sometimes they blame black guys, or white guys. Or young guys, or gym guys...

What they don't realise is that sometimes their attitude is the problem.

Nailed it

Thank you

You are welcome

Nice chin, by the way..

Many thanks, lovely lips

They're great at kissing

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire

"Trouble is, some blokes get really pissy when they get turned down.

Sometimes they blame fussy women.

Sometimes they blame rude women.

Sometimes they blame black guys, or white guys. Or young guys, or gym guys...

What they don't realise is that sometimes their attitude is the problem.

Nailed it

Thank you

You are welcome

Nice chin, by the way..

Many thanks, lovely lips

They're great at kissing

Good to know, had my suspicions already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*looks in mirror*

bottom of the list i go

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"*looks in mirror*

bottom of the list i go "

You need to try harder than that! You need to stomp around a bit, and and have a tantrum..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be right back...Going to throw my Tv out the window and smash my mirror with my Goodness gracious me Boxset and unscrew some light bulbs to throw at the wall

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Be right back...Going to throw my Tv out the window and smash my mirror with my Goodness gracious me Boxset and unscrew some light bulbs to throw at the wall

That's the spirit! Well done!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Want to meet?

lmfaoo joke joke lol

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Want to meet?

lmfaoo joke joke lol"

Don't worry; you're safe from me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Owwhhh thats a shame id rather live life on the edge and not be safe.....Unless its Sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We really only meet single females... personally think that's harder than being a single bloke.. only about half of the women on herd are bi/curious.

We'd consider ourselves average on looks but our personality and humour seems to take us the rest of the way. Attitude is everything.

To an extent OP is correct people do need there expectations adjusting sometimes.

Definately above average

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We really only meet single females... personally think that's harder than being a single bloke.. only about half of the women on herd are bi/curious.

We'd consider ourselves average on looks but our personality and humour seems to take us the rest of the way. Attitude is everything.

To an extent OP is correct people do need there expectations adjusting sometimes.

Do you mean they should lower their standards?"

No I mean there's only a certain percentage of people who respond to a dick pic with a sky remote or that want 'to meet now' fab involves a bit of patience and perseverance x

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"We really only meet single females... personally think that's harder than being a single bloke.. only about half of the women on herd are bi/curious.

We'd consider ourselves average on looks but our personality and humour seems to take us the rest of the way. Attitude is everything.

To an extent OP is correct people do need there expectations adjusting sometimes.

Do you mean they should lower their standards?

No I mean there's only a certain percentage of people who respond to a dick pic with a sky remote or that want 'to meet now' fab involves a bit of patience and perseverance x"

Ah, very true

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London

"- chances of getting laid in London are more if you’re an athletic black male

- timing is everything, you can be a genuine guy, but women’s inbox are Innundated

- Asian men are bottom of the list for 95% of women whether it be personal preference or a preconception.

- looks are 95% of the way to lock down a meet. If you aren’t an average looking male, don’t bother trying as there will be someone better looking than you who will get that meet. "

OP you missed one:

- chance of a meet is 100 per cent if you wear a tie clip. PAWG’s go weak at the knees when they see ‘em

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire

"We really only meet single females... personally think that's harder than being a single bloke.. only about half of the women on herd are bi/curious.

We'd consider ourselves average on looks but our personality and humour seems to take us the rest of the way. Attitude is everything.

To an extent OP is correct people do need there expectations adjusting sometimes.

Do you mean they should lower their standards?

No I mean there's only a certain percentage of people who respond to a dick pic with a sky remote or that want 'to meet now' fab involves a bit of patience and perseverance x"

Patience and Perseverance indeed

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"- chances of getting laid in London are more if you’re an athletic black male

- timing is everything, you can be a genuine guy, but women’s inbox are Innundated

- Asian men are bottom of the list for 95% of women whether it be personal preference or a preconception.

- looks are 95% of the way to lock down a meet. If you aren’t an average looking male, don’t bother trying as there will be someone better looking than you who will get that meet.

Attitude and character hold more value on here than any physical attribute. There are loads of fit, attractive blokes of every conceivable creed and colour who also have no success... and many average Joe's who are in perpetual demand.

Cal

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By *obbytupperMan
over a year ago

Menston near Ilkley

"- chances of getting laid in London are more if you’re an athletic black male

- timing is everything, you can be a genuine guy, but women’s inbox are Innundated

- Asian men are bottom of the list for 95% of women whether it be personal preference or a preconception.

- looks are 95% of the way to lock down a meet. If you aren’t an average looking male, don’t bother trying as there will be someone better looking than you who will get that meet.

Cal"

Who are you calling average.lol

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