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By *ompyjc OP   Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Simply put been here a while and find it hard to get a response from anyone let alone any futher.

What advice can anyone give.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"Simply put been here a while and find it hard to get a response from anyone let alone any futher.

What advice can anyone give. "

Take some better, clear photos.

Your profile text mentions about being bi but your listed as straight, you might want to change that.

Good luck!

Lou x

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

I forgot to mention, you can’t accommodate and can’t travel which limits your options. Plus, usually it is perceived that men who cannot accommodate are attached. Rightly or wrongly.

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish

Your pictures are rubbish, so is your write up. You can’t accomodate or travel. You say your straight but also bi curious. Take a look at the plethora of other threads on the subject, and look at other successful male profiles op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You make your own luck my friend

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By *ompyjc OP   Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

@devil.

Understand about the photos but seen guys with none still get verified

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By *ompyjc OP   Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

And as for taking more that would just put people off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many of people have said it before but don't waste your life expecting a response. FAB should be a side dish not your main course. It doesn't help that, like me, you're just one of thousands of men on here. The odds will always be stacked against you.

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By *ompyjc OP   Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

True but 1 reply in over a year?

Must jus be me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"True but 1 reply in over a year?

Must jus be me"

If you look at some of the other men's profiles it'll give you a good idea of what you're up against. It's very much a sausage fest on here and unless you're from the deli section you might as well forget it.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"@devil.

Understand about the photos but seen guys with none still get verified "

Don't worry about what everyone else is doing, think about how you can improve. What do you tend to send in your first message?

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By *ompyjc OP   Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"@devil.

Understand about the photos but seen guys with none still get verified

Don't worry about what everyone else is doing, think about how you can improve. What do you tend to send in your first message?"

Tend to introduce myself say hi ask a few questions eyc try not to be rude as i wouldn't like it

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"@devil.

Understand about the photos but seen guys with none still get verified

Don't worry about what everyone else is doing, think about how you can improve. What do you tend to send in your first message?

Tend to introduce myself say hi ask a few questions eyc try not to be rude as i wouldn't like it"

What exactly are you expecting from the site?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Simply put been here a while and find it hard to get a response from anyone let alone any futher.

What advice can anyone give. "

As you’ve not asked for profile advice I can’t give advice on your profile.

Take a look at the more successful males on here and see if you can learn from them.

Good luck.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

All users who receive messages look at the profile of the sender - so the profile is the absolute minimum on Fab to get to a really high standard. There are a lot of forum threads suggesting what may work better, if this seems interesting op.

Good, well lit photos help others to appreciate how much they are attracted to you - someone else mentioned pics and I back them up on this.

Attending socials helps you to meet other people and become better known. As a single man, you are in the majority here, so do what you can to improve things: you just need to be chosen, instead of someone else. There's no magic single answer to getting success but if you progressively work to improve your odds, then it ups your odds for better results.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone


"And as for taking more that would just put people off"

If you expect people to meet you they’d probably appreciate some decent (and realistic) photos first.

It’s a numbers game, what’s going to make you stand out from the other 50000 single men on here?

Lou x

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By *ompyjc OP   Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

To be honest probably not a lot. May as well surrender to the fact that some blokes just get the girls

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"To be honest probably not a lot. May as well surrender to the fact that some blokes just get the girls "
That’s the attitude op, keep positive

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By *ompyjc OP   Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Ill try hun, thanks

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP you've asked for help but rejected any advice you've been offered.

If you can't be arsed to help yourself why should we try to help you?

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By *ompyjc OP   Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I haven't rejected anything, ive read it all will be making some changes and new pictures etc.

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By *ompyjc OP   Man
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Just saying I won't hold out much hope unless the dynamics change here considerably. To many guys above me in that respect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My suggestion has already been said, get out and about to socials, in my opinion what's in your profile and sending messages really make no difference. Getting out and saying hello makes a huge difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm, Can be a sausage fest on here at times, but add a lady or to & its all change!! As for Op; You will not get anywhere on here by profile or messages, unless you get out & make yourself know possibly in a social circuit, i.e; club.. etc.

Goodluck & plenty of it

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"True but 1 reply in over a year?

Must jus be me"

Well, given your negative attitude, it probably is just you.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"To be honest probably not a lot. May as well surrender to the fact that some blokes just get the girls "

Some blokes will. Some ladies will. For the rest of us, we put in the effort and do the work.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

As others said ,you need to sell yourself on your profile.

Cock pics are off putting ,so diff pics would help and more of what you can offer any meet.

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