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By *unLuvaz OP   Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

Could fab please put up a option for couples who play separate in the options for what we like and what we are looking for. Plus it would be great in the advance search too please

Would other fabbers like to this happen too?

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By *ischief ManagedCouple
over a year ago

manchester


"Could fab please put up a option for couples who play separate in the options for what we like and what we are looking for. Plus it would be great in the advance search too please

Would other fabbers like to this happen too? "

That would be a good idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are so many options they could add but don't. I think it's so people don't rule out others and become bracketed. It encourages people to search.

Obvious ones (to me)

Stag and Vixen

Hotwife

Oh! And get rid of 'curvy' as it seems to apply to everyone! Ha ha!

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By *unLuvaz OP   Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

I still think it would be a great idea. It's so hard finding couples who play separate. Would make our lives so much easier. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree

Yeah fems can get meets easily but male half of cpls are never believed they can play alone lol

Wee symbol on a profile to say we both play separate would be a good idea

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"I agree

Yeah fems can get meets easily but male half of cpls are never believed they can play alone lol

Wee symbol on a profile to say we both play separate would be a good idea"

Plenty of couples run single profiles too and mention their couple's profile in the text.

Works for many. But the women are in higher demand than the men.

A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just throwing out this out there... but when verified, you are in effect verifying the couple, but really its only the male or female you’ve met. Unless the couple shows that veri, then anyone would assume it’s the couple that has been verified.

I personally now stay away from couples who play alone as part of a couple profile, just from experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Myself and hubby have a cpls profile for when we meet cpls and each have a single profile for when we meet separate. Most guys just assume I'm playing behind his back and don't ask if he's ok with it but when he messages females they assume he's playing away lol Even tho we both state on our separate profiles we are married and the name of our cpls profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm part of a couple who have their profiles and a joint one .we don't refer to each other on our prfiles and surprise surprise Mrs is inundated with messages and I'm not, no shock there, it's just frustrating that married men allowed to play seem cheats when their better halves are hot wives....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree completely..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Plenty of attached people who play as couples also have single profiles for playing separately.

My wife and I generally don't have casual fun as a couple and prefer to play separately including at clubs.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Could fab please put up a option for couples who play separate in the options for what we like and what we are looking for. Plus it would be great in the advance search too please

Would other fabbers like to this happen too? "

There's loads of additions to the search function that would help save considerable time seeking out exactly what you're after, but it ain't gonna happen any time soon.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire


"Just throwing out this out there... but when verified, you are in effect verifying the couple, but really its only the male or female you’ve met. Unless the couple shows that veri, then anyone would assume it’s the couple that has been verified.

"

I have both veris from meeting on my own and as a couple,it's no big problem really and clear on my profile what is on offer.

Only people looking for a couple on here would find us using search though and we don't play as a couple, only socialise as one. That's the problem with my profile really.

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By *orticiaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"Myself and hubby have a cpls profile for when we meet cpls and each have a single profile for when we meet separate. Most guys just assume I'm playing behind his back and don't ask if he's ok with it but when he messages females they assume he's playing away lol Even tho we both state on our separate profiles we are married and the name of our cpls profile."

Maybe you should veri him confirming it’s ok for him to play on his own from your single profile?!

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By *unLuvaz OP   Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

I do feel bad for most of the guys on fab. It's so hard to guys to find a nice woman to chat to an have regular fun with. It's even harder if the guys in a couple but wants to play separate. Your totally right ladies just think he cheating an won't even speak to him. We have found a few good hot sexy people we play separate with regular which is great but it's nice to have a bit of option lol

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By *mileandenjoyMan
over a year ago

Chippenham


"Could fab please put up a option for couples who play separate in the options for what we like and what we are looking for. Plus it would be great in the advance search too please

Would other fabbers like to this happen too? "

Brilliant idea! It can’t be that hard to add more options

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Could fab please put up a option for couples who play separate in the options for what we like and what we are looking for. Plus it would be great in the advance search too please

Would other fabbers like to this happen too? "

Is this not already a preference?

...

Separate Room Swapping...

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By *unLuvaz OP   Couple
over a year ago

cheshire


"Could fab please put up a option for couples who play separate in the options for what we like and what we are looking for. Plus it would be great in the advance search too please

Would other fabbers like to this happen too?

Is this not already a preference?

...

Separate Room Swapping... "

No there is no option for this in advance search.

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre

I am also in this type of relationship, both have single profiles and we have our couples profile. If you want my opinion having more options will not make mr more appealing to women. Fab was and always will be a womans world and thats ok its not a complaint or anything like that 'but' what that means is the male half of the couple , myself included simply joins the huge population of guys on Fab. Now if your not among the top 10% of hot guys whether you play separate or separate meets etc etc no amount of options or filters will change the fact you the female will still recieve most of the messages and he will get 1 or 2 a week. Look at yourself OP and the men you are playing with separately, are the guys 1 half of a couple or are you mainly opting for guys that are from the single guy category of Fab. My guess is you play with very few husbands . Its just the harsh reality of it. What i have done and have permission from Mrs She Devil is widen my options. Ie i can look on Tinder and POF for play mates too. Making it clear im married and only looking for fun . I have had as much success from that as i have on Fab. Even introduced Fab to these women too. If you want hubby to have more fun on Fab then play as a couple and simply do separate room fun on the night. Thats my advice, good luck and i know exactly how you and he feels on this situation. Xx

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Could fab please put up a option for couples who play separate in the options for what we like and what we are looking for. Plus it would be great in the advance search too please

Would other fabbers like to this happen too?

Is this not already a preference?

...

Separate Room Swapping...

No there is no option for this in advance search."

You *can* search for those with "Separate Room Swapping" as an interest under Advanced Search - just go to the "Interested In" field about half way down and select Separate Room Swapping from the drop down list that appears

As for your OP I guess it depends what you mean by "play separate" - if you mean meeting other couples as a couple with separate room swapping - then you have the answer above.

If you mean meeting separately completely - then the singles profiles option is probably your best bet

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By *unLuvaz OP   Couple
over a year ago

cheshire


"I am also in this type of relationship, both have single profiles and we have our couples profile. If you want my opinion having more options will not make mr more appealing to women. Fab was and always will be a womans world and thats ok its not a complaint or anything like that 'but' what that means is the male half of the couple , myself included simply joins the huge population of guys on Fab. Now if your not among the top 10% of hot guys whether you play separate or separate meets etc etc no amount of options or filters will change the fact you the female will still recieve most of the messages and he will get 1 or 2 a week. Look at yourself OP and the men you are playing with separately, are the guys 1 half of a couple or are you mainly opting for guys that are from the single guy category of Fab. My guess is you play with very few husbands . Its just the harsh reality of it. What i have done and have permission from Mrs She Devil is widen my options. Ie i can look on Tinder and POF for play mates too. Making it clear im married and only looking for fun . I have had as much success from that as i have on Fab. Even introduced Fab to these women too. If you want hubby to have more fun on Fab then play as a couple and simply do separate room fun on the night. Thats my advice, good luck and i know exactly how you and he feels on this situation. Xx"

Sorry but just because you have read some of my verifications don't try an judge me. I Sassy have played with many husband's and single men and my man has played with plenty of single ladies and wife's. Not everyone leaves verifications and it's not something we chase either. If they leave one, then they leave one.. simples. All we where asking was fab to put it as an option in the advance search as didn't know you could do it. Too find couples like us who want to play separate rooms.

I hope this clears a few things up for you as I found your message very judgemental.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed


"Could fab please put up a option for couples who play separate in the options for what we like and what we are looking for. Plus it would be great in the advance search too please

Would other fabbers like to this happen too?

Is this not already a preference?

...

Separate Room Swapping...

No there is no option for this in advance search.

You *can* search for those with "Separate Room Swapping" as an interest under Advanced Search - just go to the "Interested In" field about half way down and select Separate Room Swapping from the drop down list that appears

As for your OP I guess it depends what you mean by "play separate" - if you mean meeting other couples as a couple with separate room swapping - then you have the answer above.

If you mean meeting separately completely - then the singles profiles option is probably your best bet "

Cheers I thought I had not imagined it.

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By *unLuvaz OP   Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

We are hosting an event at Xtasia on the 15th march called swingles.. it's for singles and couples who play separate. If any of you are interested just send us a message X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are hosting an event at Xtasia on the 15th march called swingles.. it's for singles and couples who play separate. If any of you are interested just send us a message X"

We would have done but apparently to old, lol

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By *unLuvaz OP   Couple
over a year ago

cheshire


"We are hosting an event at Xtasia on the 15th march called swingles.. it's for singles and couples who play separate. If any of you are interested just send us a message X

We would have done but apparently to old, lol "

Too old? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could fab please put up a option for couples who play separate in the options for what we like and what we are looking for. Plus it would be great in the advance search too please

Would other fabbers like to this happen too? "

Why?

I play, my husband doesn’t. So I have my own profile. Makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would be a great ideaa, nothing sexier than a married women

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By *jleedsCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Great idea we play together and the mrs plays alone to.shes had a fair few meets but when u put up the male looking you never get anything

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Good idea that hats off to you sir

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"I am also in this type of relationship, both have single profiles and we have our couples profile. If you want my opinion having more options will not make mr more appealing to women. Fab was and always will be a womans world and thats ok its not a complaint or anything like that 'but' what that means is the male half of the couple , myself included simply joins the huge population of guys on Fab. Now if your not among the top 10% of hot guys whether you play separate or separate meets etc etc no amount of options or filters will change the fact you the female will still recieve most of the messages and he will get 1 or 2 a week. Look at yourself OP and the men you are playing with separately, are the guys 1 half of a couple or are you mainly opting for guys that are from the single guy category of Fab. My guess is you play with very few husbands . Its just the harsh reality of it. What i have done and have permission from Mrs She Devil is widen my options. Ie i can look on Tinder and POF for play mates too. Making it clear im married and only looking for fun . I have had as much success from that as i have on Fab. Even introduced Fab to these women too. If you want hubby to have more fun on Fab then play as a couple and simply do separate room fun on the night. Thats my advice, good luck and i know exactly how you and he feels on this situation. Xx

Sorry but just because you have read some of my verifications don't try an judge me. I Sassy have played with many husband's and single men and my man has played with plenty of single ladies and wife's. Not everyone leaves verifications and it's not something we chase either. If they leave one, then they leave one.. simples. All we where asking was fab to put it as an option in the advance search as didn't know you could do it. Too find couples like us who want to play separate rooms.

I hope this clears a few things up for you as I found your message very judgemental. "

Strange reply, ??? None of my post is judgemental in the least, yes you simply asked for more filters and all i said was more filters would not increase hubbies chances and explained why i think that. Where is any of my post being judgemental. ? I never even looked at your veris to make any judgement on them . Simply said i agree it can be hard in this type of scenario. I hope this clears up a few more things up for you as i found your message quite rude to someone you have niether met nor had ever spoke with on the forums.

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By *hewifeandiCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

It always seems to be the male that meets alone or is it just me, you very rarely see the female looking to meet alone.

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By *unLuvaz OP   Couple
over a year ago

cheshire


"It always seems to be the male that meets alone or is it just me, you very rarely see the female looking to meet alone.

"

Thats not true at all. The reason you see males of the couple looking more is because woman don't have to advertise it as they have plenty messages of men but you don't get that for the males of woman...

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By *e DevilMan
over a year ago

Blantyre


"It always seems to be the male that meets alone or is it just me, you very rarely see the female looking to meet alone.

Thats not true at all. The reason you see males of the couple looking more is because woman don't have to advertise it as they have plenty messages of men but you don't get that for the males of woman... "

Spot on .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could fab please put up a option for couples who play separate in the options for what we like and what we are looking for. Plus it would be great in the advance search too please

Would other fabbers like to this happen too? "

Great idea!

That's exactly the situation I have.

What do you find is the easiest way of searching??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Myself and hubby have a cpls profile for when we meet cpls and each have a single profile for when we meet separate. Most guys just assume I'm playing behind his back and don't ask if he's ok with it but when he messages females they assume he's playing away lol Even tho we both state on our separate profiles we are married and the name of our cpls profile.

Maybe you should veri him confirming it’s ok for him to play on his own from your single profile?! "

We tried this but fab blocked it due to same wifi

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