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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When meeting, is it common to get to know someone on a name basis (adding their private social media etc)?. Or do you completely separate private life from swinging? Just curious.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

No. I don't add people in diciao media unless we're friends and met a few times

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

First name only, generally. No social media.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it depends on the person. They might not want to share their 'vanilla' (=non swinging) life with anyone they have met through swinging. Everyone is different and will have different reasons, but I wouldn't like my swinging friends looking me up on Facebook, that's too stalkery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally don't. I don't even use my real name when I do meet someone. Not untill we've established a relatonship and I don't add them on social media

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"First name only, generally. No social media. "

Same x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your replies!

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

There is no reason to go beyond first names, and mixing social media and swinging is the very last thing we would ever want to do.

Why would you want someone to be able to broadcast to your family and friends what you have been up to?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

certainly not social media

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

def not no full name just first name , no social media , not even mention a nickname ..

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I don’t meet anymore but if I ever do then I’ll not give my real name and no private information about myself. There are some very unsavoury characters about

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks people x

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By *iger PrincessWoman
over a year ago

Cloud 9

I think it depends how well and how long you have known them, I've got a few swinging friends on my social media but I've known them quite a few years now xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First name only, generally. No social media.

Same x"

This for me too

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"First name only, generally. No social media.

Same x

This for me too"

What if one has an unusual name? Would you give it?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"First name only, generally. No social media.

Same x

This for me too

What if one has an unusual name? Would you give it? "

Don't know. Mine's common as muck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it depends how well and how long you have known them, I've got a few swinging friends on my social media but I've known them quite a few years now xx"

Same

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"First name only, generally. No social media.

Same x

This for me too"

What if one has an unusual name? Would you give it?

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

You would struggle with us as we don’t do any social media (apart from on here).

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon

We don't use our real names, or exact location, as this would immediately give us away on social media etc.

Unless we meet people several times intimately, and get to know them very well, would they get to know details from us.

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London

Well OP I have two phones and give out my play phone number only. That number is linked to my ‘play’ Facebook and Instagram accounts. My profile has my Twitter and Kik names. All OK as nothing is linked back to my vanilla life. I don’t even sync the iPhone but back it up regularly.

If people give me their mobile phone for WhatsApp or to Kik on the day movements then I don’t go adding them on any of the above. If I’m sent a friend request then I assume they wanted that and accept.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"First name only, generally. No social media.

Same x

This for me too

What if one has an unusual name? Would you give it? "

My surname is pretty unique, so not a chance for that. First name is pretty generic.

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By *ig Chris75Man
over a year ago

Sandbach

Never share any names other than first one.

The Facebook thing is a problem if sharing numbers - as it may suddenly start "suggesting friends" as they're in your contacts.... which can be a little disconcerting... I have mine locked down so cant be traced via number.

kik…? lol

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"First name only, generally. No social media.

Same x

This for me too

What if one has an unusual name? Would you give it?

My surname is pretty unique, so not a chance for that. First name is pretty generic. "

See now you’ve let us in on your secret Mr Supercalafrajalisticexpialadocious.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

First name only although one is now friend on social media

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"First name only, generally. No social media. "

My approach too.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Social media - definitely not.

Names I'll happily swap including surname if needed for a hotel booking or at a club - otherwise first name only.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

[Removed by poster at 31/01/19 01:03:57]

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

First names only and no social media, unless over time things look like they are turning into a very solid friendship where trust is exchanged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t meet anymore but if I ever do then I’ll not give my real name and no private information about myself. There are some very unsavoury characters about "

Very sensible of you Vanessa x

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton


"I personally don't. I don't even use my real name when I do meet someone. Not untill we've established a relatonship and I don't add them on social media "

I am the same you never know if the person you meet is going to be a beanhead.

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond


"When meeting, is it common to get to know someone on a name basis (adding their private social media etc)?. Or do you completely separate private life from swinging? Just curious."

I give my first name, it's common enough, and my general area (already on my profile).

But I've been found on FB by someone determined to be friends with me there (based only on my first name and town --he was on a mission).

FB location duly set to London.

While the vast majority of people I've met here are great, the few creepy crawlies are enough to scare me for good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never give out my real name when meeting people from off of here, until that trusted relationship builds..it takes time though.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use my first name, on here when messaging and meeting. Don't use social media at all! Have given out my phone number before, never had a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally seperate for us which is the attraction a bit of pleasure outside of our vanilla life. Male

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