FabSwingers.com forum: NASTY SINGLE GUYS/SAYING IM FAKE

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi there

iam so tired of some single guys on this site.

If you dont want to meet them they get abusive with you!!!

Also im getting a lot of guys saying im a fake fem!!!Untrue I have veifications on my p

e.Ive spoken to people on the phone and been on msn to prove im genuine!!!Im sooo tired of some guys saying im fake.when i dont wanna meet them.Im very much real and can prove it

I have NO problm phone chatting and going on cam at all to prove im a fem

I have even gone on fabs chatroom last week plugged my cam in even people could see i was genuine!!!

Also ive uploaded a recent pic verification pic on fabs with me holding a piece of paper with date on it!!

Which this site has accepted.

Im love sex and enjoying shareing pleasure with others.

in the last 2 weeks I have a lot of abuse of single guys.If i dont wanna meet them

Something should be done about these single guys and kick them of the site!!!

Why should us decent genuine fems and cpls have to put up with the abuse and nonsense off some single guys!!!

It spoils is for the genuine single guys on this site!!!

For single guys its hard enough to get emails. meets without some single guys spoiling it for the decent single guys on fabs

I enjoy meeting single guys,cpls,tv/ts

But just lately im starting to get put off by single guys on this site

PLEASE LETS GET THE ABUSIVE GUYS KICKED OFF THIS SITE AND BANNED

i have reported these guys to fabs by the report button!!

Im a decent fem very jolly ut soooo TIRED OF THE ABUSE

Can fabs do something about the recent

abuse off some single guys on here

As its getting worse ive noticed

There is NO need for the constant abuse

If someone says they dont wanna meet

Then the abuse starts!!!

on emails

ive had some really nice meets on fabs with some great single guys,

Im a genuine fem and had some really great meets of this site

Wonder if anyone else is experienceing the same as me.

Ninaxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes ..nuff said !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

I think thats its something that everyone goes through on here at somepoint not just from single guys but all people

Some are not too good at handling rejection it seems so if you have politely told someone you're not interested then maybe block them before the can become abusive to you after all you have told them no and will have no need to message them again

Those that do give you abuse then carry on doing as you are and reporting the profiles,theres not a lot more you can do from your side of things

Its a shame things come to this but sadly it seems to be a common occurence and not just on this site I have to say,you can go on any site and see the same problems.......its just certain types of people who maybe have the wrong idea and wrong expectations of what a swinging site is meant to be

try not to let it spoil your fun too much as you have said there are some great people here as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thanks for the advice "honeypotcouple" i have blocked them now xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

"thanks for the advice "honeypotcouple" i have blocked them now xxx "

If you are getting abuse make sure you report the profile as well as blocking them, every profile has a report button,dont let the few nasties put you off from finding the lovelies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh i have found sum lovely ppl

..thing is he hasnt done the abuse on here we tlked through txt to spk a little more and when i realised he was very rude and nasty ..said didnt want to meet and thats when he sent the very horrid txts so think its abit difficult to report him on here even tho this where we met ? xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh just one more thing he was lovely at first thats y we exchanged numbers ..because wouldnt give it out freely xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I also found it best to block after saying no thanks to someone.

The reason being the person decided to wait over a year and then send emails asking why I decided not to continue with the meet even tho no meet had been planned and I explained that things werent working for me.

When I again told them why I didnt want to meet them again they told me I should not be a tease and other such nice things.

Now if we say no thanks I always block to stop them contacting us again.

That way you never feel you have to explain yourself, because quite simply if you say no then nothing they say will make you change your mind, or they will wait a few months and try again.

Also what makes someone think that if you say no and they argue with you that you will change you mind and agree to meet them??

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"oh just one more thing he was lovely at first thats y we exchanged numbers ..because wouldnt give it out freely xx"

Hun if you are on a contract you can always contact the company and get the number blocked so he cant contact you that way again.

Not sure how it works on pay as you go but Im sure someone here will be able to tell you.

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

soz to read you being hassled.

they are fools.

ps I never get any hassle from guys these days... since I started hunting them down and killing them and burying in woods just outside Dundee... been hassle free xxx

now at 24... looking for my next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I got hassled for burying them under the garden shed!!!

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I got hassled for burying them under the garden shed!!!

Shona

x x x "

lol xxx

its a bugger when ya go to pick some new potatoes for a nice light supper of salmon and new potaotes and ya dig up an arm... puts me off my dinner lol

and usually the wankers wanking arm at that xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pmsl x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thanks for the advice hun my number gets changed on mon so its isnt too bad ..but am on a contract so wud av just got them blocked xxxxxxxxxx

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

If someone (male, female, couple, single, bi, gay, straight, new, old, experienced or otherwise) gives me hassle - I block them. Simple.

I have a personal number, and a "play" number, so I can sleep easy at night without grief

If someone tells me no - that's upto them. If I'm to tell someone no, I try to be considerate and express that we're "looking for different things". If they push beyond that then the I'm not responsible for next answer

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By *iamondladyWoman
over a year ago

titsville

I say no then just block them if their not my type. It the only way to keep the number if messages down as they always seem to keep messaging. Anyway by blocking you save everyone's time.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"I say no then just block them if their not my type. It the only way to keep the number if messages down as they always seem to keep messaging. Anyway by blocking you save everyone's time. "

Holy crap - don't block me! xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i put my hands up and say i'm one of the guys Nina blocked BUT this wasn't during the last 2 weeks, i wasn't abusive but i was suspicious she may have been a fake when she first joined.....though she obviously isn't and is 100% genuine.

But there are always two sides of a story though i do admit alot of guys and girls do get pretty miffed at rejection, but sometimes it isn't just down to such a black and white issue. Sometimes it's not about being rejected that annoys people but it's about being messed around by someone. I wont go into details but rightly or wrongly this is what i deemed had happened to me and is why i got annoyed (but not abusive) and stated i should have been told about certain things from the start.

However, even though i was somewhat hurt i do apologise to Nina and wish her all the best. At the end of the day there is no need to be nasty and drive someone away but people also need to be open right from the start too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ty Gothica

Iam very genuine

You are Genuine tooo

But guys have called me names on their email and its not nice,When i have said No

It seems they cant Handle rejection!!!

I even have just emailed one guy just and just thanked him for his email and wished him luck for the future

Dont understand why people get so upset

when you say no!!!

You cant force someone to meet you

Gothica Goodluck in your search

and hope you have had fun on here

Ninaxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

THIS POST IS NOT DIRECTED AT ANY PARTICULAR INDIVIDUAL.

I've only been here a few weeks and I've read this theme over n over n over again.

WOMEN - You LOVE it ..... it makes you feel important.

Men can't communicate or argue with you if you don't give your time to them.

Get some fucking maturity and some dignity.

I get bloody sick of women who say ....ooooooooo he said this to me ... he said that to me. WTF did YOU say to make so many men abusive?

There's a thread on here somewhere where someone says. Ooooo I know I have had to block 60! Well dippity do -How do you conduct yourself socially? Come to think of it ......as we are all supposed to be adults why do people come in here bleating for attention. Nice double dose of lurrrrve that's why. All the men harrassing you in message and chat - then all the forumites loving you to death .... Gosh you're so sexy!

AND .... I am NOT disputing that it happens. I AM saying that SOME women encourage it .... prolong it ...and love it .. they have the anonimity here to make themselves feel sooooooooo bloody adorable and adored. They think they can belittle a man and then crib if he won't take it lying down. ( The most sensible blokes recognise a nutty, needy women when they meet one n move on without retaliation )

I think the reason I can't fathom it ... is cos my mails go. Granny Fuck me.... I go ... Thanks but no thanks n good luck ..... they say ... Okay hun and thanks for replying. NO One gets abusive and to be honest ...... I like it when they try again sometimes. Men HAVE to be predatory. Only a bloody klutz gives up when he really wants something. Some of them have fab tacticts , great strategies and belting senses of humour ... but then I don't lead anyone on for hours , days , weeks. I repeat it can be stopped right away with the sodding ignore button or by just NOT replying to the mail.

I'd hate to think how half the women here would cope if they had a REAL problem.

I think I need a nice cup of P.G. and Probably a suit of armour. So bite me . it's true and this topic needs a redress. I will stand by EVERYTHING ive said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

granny ...... well said, in some cases a very very valid point xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can verify that Nina is very genuine and one of the top single fems on the site...

It is a pain because as a genuine single male its difficult enough already to get even a message back from some single fems/couples without a-holes ruining the rep of single guys...

Stick with us single guys Nina some of us are worth it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I forgot to say Gothica

No hard feelings lifes tooo short

Ty for saying im genuine

As for the guy saying "Some provoke"

just in the forum

Well some guy emailed me without provocation and called me a muppet and said stop with the fake verifications

Yesterday i had a prvt photoshoot in a guys barn!!!

I put what I say

I did not put this on in a forum to start an argument.I was annoyed and upset by someone accuseing me of not being genuine.Which is not fair!!!

Also said i was stupid

Ninaxxx

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"THIS POST IS NOT DIRECTED AT ANY PARTICULAR INDIVIDUAL.

I've only been here a few weeks and I've read this theme over n over n over again.

WOMEN - You LOVE it ..... it makes you feel important.

Men can't communicate or argue with you if you don't give your time to them.

Get some fucking maturity and some dignity.

I get bloody sick of women who say ....ooooooooo he said this to me ... he said that to me. WTF did YOU say to make so many men abusive?

I'd hate to think how half the women here would cope if they had a REAL problem.

I think I need a nice cup of P.G. and Probably a suit of armour. So bite me . it's true and this topic needs a redress. I will stand by EVERYTHING ive said. "

Well said Granny.

"Age and guile beat youth and a bad haircut every time."

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I would agree with best part of it too Granny.

We don't get abusive E-mails, we do the same as you, answer them straight.

We also know there are men about who don't like rejection, but is it that important?

We are on an adult sex site were people I think should have a thick skin to join.

Unless the mails are abusive then let them go over your head and block, they can't speak to you again.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"I can verify that Nina is very genuine and one of the top single fems on the site...

It is a pain because as a genuine single male its difficult enough already to get even a message back from some single fems/couples without a-holes ruining the rep of single guys...

Stick with us single guys Nina some of us are worth it

Sorry, but adults normally make their own mind up about people, not go with one persons say so.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ty Jackd

Hope you are allright

Nina is ok

It seems that this post is causeing a debate

Ty jack for saying im genuine

My Pic shoot pics are on my profile

I think it was me or was it a hologram of me lol

Hey making a joke of it lol

Lifes toooo short

Just get over it and stop being upset

Just cause someone says "No"

You can still say Hi to someone without meeting them for sex!!!

Iam mature!!!

Im not important far from it im just Nina.Or have designs on myself

Ninaxxx

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Ty Jackd

Hope you are allright

Nina is ok

It seems that this post is causeing a debate

Ty jack for saying im genuine

My Pic shoot pics are on my profile

I think it was me or was it a hologram of me lol

Hey making a joke of it lol

Lifes toooo short

Just get over it and stop being upset

Just cause someone says "No"

You can still say Hi to someone without meeting them for sex!!!

Iam mature!!!

Im not important far from it im just Nina.Or have designs on myself

Ninaxxx"

This sounds almost like a hard sell now.

People can make their own minds up, and if people don't believe you, why are you bothered?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can verify that Nina is very genuine and one of the top single fems on the site...

It is a pain because as a genuine single male its difficult enough already to get even a message back from some single fems/couples without a-holes ruining the rep of single guys...

Stick with us single guys Nina some of us are worth it

Sorry, but adults normally make their own mind up about people, not go with one persons say so."

I at no point was attempting to sway anyones opinion. I know Nina is gen and a great gal... I was adult enough to make my own mind up about her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with Granny Crumpet. I have never had any abuse from anyone on here. I try to answer every message politely and tend to get nothing but respect back.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"I can verify that Nina is very genuine and one of the top single fems on the site...

It is a pain because as a genuine single male its difficult enough already to get even a message back from some single fems/couples without a-holes ruining the rep of single guys...

Stick with us single guys Nina some of us are worth it

Sorry, but adults normally make their own mind up about people, not go with one persons say so.

I at no point was attempting to sway anyones opinion. I know Nina is gen and a great gal... I was adult enough to make my own mind up about her

you missed my point.

I was saying people can make their own minds up about single men. Most adults know that not all single men are the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was just saying that the action of some single guys tarnishes the rep of all single guys in some peoples eyes... as shown by ninas post... thats all

"I can verify that Nina is very genuine and one of the top single fems on the site...

It is a pain because as a genuine single male its difficult enough already to get even a message back from some single fems/couples without a-holes ruining the rep of single guys...

Stick with us single guys Nina some of us are worth it

Sorry, but adults normally make their own mind up about people, not go with one persons say so.

I at no point was attempting to sway anyones opinion. I know Nina is gen and a great gal... I was adult enough to make my own mind up about her

you missed my point.

I was saying people can make their own minds up about single men. Most adults know that not all single men are the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and the same as some assholes give single males a bad name .. some fems and couples give their respected catergories the same...

and often rants in forums are a ' look at me , look at me '... and come stroke my ego...

and when yu look at the volume of verifications ... yu can gather.. well no shrinking violet there lol ... no offence meant to anyone....

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

And why I made the point of if they are adults, it wouldn't tarnish anything as they would make their own mind up

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"and the same as some assholes give single males a bad name .. some fems and couples give their respected catergories the same...

and often rants in forums are a ' look at me , look at me '... and come stroke my ego...

and when yu look at the volume of verifications ... yu can gather.. well no shrinking violet there lol ... no offence meant to anyone.... "

Exactly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"THIS POST IS NOT DIRECTED AT ANY PARTICULAR INDIVIDUAL.

I've only been here a few weeks and I've read this theme over n over n over again.

WOMEN - You LOVE it ..... it makes you feel important.

Men can't communicate or argue with you if you don't give your time to them.

Get some fucking maturity and some dignity.

I get bloody sick of women who say ....ooooooooo he said this to me ... he said that to me. WTF did YOU say to make so many men abusive?

I'd hate to think how half the women here would cope if they had a REAL problem.

I think I need a nice cup of P.G. and Probably a suit of armour. So bite me . it's true and this topic needs a redress. I will stand by EVERYTHING ive said. "

Very well said and a very good observation. I have come across one or two women just like you have described! I do think if women didn't hold all the cards on swinger/sex sites then we wouldn't have all this going on. And how would people feel and act if they had no attention whatsoever?

Nina, as i'm blocked i'll have to correspond via the forums. No bad feelings from me either, shame we couldn't have been friends instead of what happened. I'm enjoying the forums and chats but like 99.9% of men on here don't get any meets......i'll let you know when i do lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes Jackd

seems they wont listen

I have been on swing scene since 1998

I know the ettiqute

And some people dont know

Hence they wonder why they dont get meets.

You dont abuse someone or call them names very chldish just cause you cant get yer own way and guys cant get their leg over etc!!!

They get funny

I have met some great single guys and had a very good time with them

Ty jack for a good eve,Jack is very genuine and sincere!!!

I have manners im not rude and when someone i contact says " No " Ty i dont abuse them or call them names

I respect their wishes etc

Same as people should respect a persons wishes.

Ninaxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Gothica well You will meet someone on fabs and have fun with

Ninaxxx

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By *ichNjudyCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

Blocking someone who is abusive seems quite understandable, but to those on this thread who say....

'if i don't fancy someone i just say no and block them, its the only way to keep the mail down'

we think that attitude is rather appalling to be honest.

If we contact someone and they say 'thanks but no thanks. we always message back just to say thanks for replying and wish them luck in finding what they are looking for.

It's never happened to us (yet), but if at that point we found they had already blocked us purely because they didn't fancy then we would think that extremely rude of them and to be honest would feel very offended!

xxx

ju & rich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Blocking someone who is abusive seems quite understandable, but to those on this thread who say....

'if i don't fancy someone i just say no and block them, its the only way to keep the mail down'

we think that attitude is rather appalling to be honest.

If we contact someone and they say 'thanks but no thanks. we always message back just to say thanks for replying and wish them luck in finding what they are looking for.

xxx

ju & rich"

And this site only has a block all single men option...wheres the block all single women or couples option?

Thanks Nina...meets are hard to come by and way too much competition so just using the site for the forums really

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

exactly Gothica

see Nina aint that bad lol

You will get a meet

Maybe a Gothy girl as your alternative

Wish you luck dude!!!

Ninaxxx

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Christ, now they are best friends, time to arrange a meet....

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Christ, now they are best friends, time to arrange a meet...."

Or a hat for wedding?

See what fab can do, bring people together when they thought all bridges were burnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Christ, now they are best friends, time to arrange a meet....

Or a hat for wedding?

See what fab can do, bring people together when they thought all bridges were burnt

yu 2 still here...... lol I got bored ages ago xxx

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Not by choice I can tell you lol

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By *imnher2Woman
over a year ago

watford

f speaking here i chat with a lot of guys on here and never spoke to 1 yet that was in any way abusive or rude maybe its just me been lucky lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not by choice I can tell you lol"

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Not by choice I can tell you lol"

That sound bad huh, I love being on Fab

Sometimes some threads I would like not to see though

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"f speaking here i chat with a lot of guys on here and never spoke to 1 yet that was in any way abusive or rude maybe its just me been lucky lol

Same as us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not by choice I can tell you lol

That sound bad huh, I love being on Fab

Sometimes some threads I would like not to see though

primary objective achieved tho...... mail box brimming over lol..

off to watch BB ...... cya xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not by choice I can tell you lol

That sound bad huh, I love being on Fab

Sometimes some threads I would like not to see though

primary objective achieved tho...... mail box brimming over lol..

off to watch BB ...... cya xx

I never thought of that

That's it. My whinging post will appear later..... damn .. I only have pic of my feet in white socks.... CAMERAAAAAA !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get bloody sick of women who say ....ooooooooo he said this to me ... he said that to me. WTF did YOU say to make so many men abusive?"

Most of what you said Granny I agree with but the above statement I have to answer.

I always assumed that to get someone abusing you by email, you would first have to say something to cause the abuse.

However this is what happened to me:

Over a year ago my hubby had an operation and with his consent I put up a single fem profile.

I met a few lovely men.

Then I met a guy who after meeting for a coffee I decided not to go any further. I emailed him to let him know this and forgot all about it.

After hubby recovered I deleted my single fem profile.

Said guy contacted me and wanted to know why I had decided not to go further.

I thought wtf I already emailed you and told you plus its over a year ago, but I replied telling him we did not click and I did not want to carry on, I thought this would be the end of it so didnt block him - didnt see the need really. At this point no one had been abusive or nasty.

BUT he then replied to me - via email not on here - saying I was a tease and I should be banned from not only this site but others we are on as well and that he would make it his personal mission to make sure I/we are never allowed on any sites like these?!?!?!

I was soo bloody angry and felt like never meeting anyone ever again, mainly because I didnt feel I had done anything to cause this.

So I decided to block and delete his emails rather than continue arguing with him because it was clearly not going to get anyone anywhere.

Now I would like to know what I did to deserve that??

What had I done to cause him to want to get us chucked off every website we are members off??

Please tell me cause I am genuinly confused by this.

Shona

x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shona,

All I can say is that you did nothing to deserve that sort of treatment.

At the end of the day, it was your choice not to take things further and he must respect it, as most people will out there will do.

To me the man sounds very bitter and childish and shouldn't even be on this site or any other sites as he can't handle rejection without throwing his toys out of the pram or threating people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get bloody sick of women who say ....ooooooooo he said this to me ... he said that to me. WTF did YOU say to make so many men abusive?

Most of what you said Granny I agree with but the above statement I have to answer.

I always assumed that to get someone abusing you by email, you would first have to say something to cause the abuse.

However this is what happened to me:

Over a year ago my hubby had an operation and with his consent I put up a single fem profile.

I met a few lovely men.

Then I met a guy who after meeting for a coffee I decided not to go any further. I emailed him to let him know this and forgot all about it.

After hubby recovered I deleted my single fem profile.

Said guy contacted me and wanted to know why I had decided not to go further.

I was soo bloody angry and felt like never meeting anyone ever again, mainly because I didnt feel I had done anything to cause this.

So I decided to block and delete his emails rather than continue arguing with him because it was clearly not going to get anyone anywhere.

Now I would like to know what I did to deserve that??

What had I done to cause him to want to get us chucked off every website we are members off??

Please tell me cause I am genuinly confused by this.

Shona

x x x "

By the sounds of it Shona - you did nothing wrong x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"THIS POST IS NOT DIRECTED AT ANY PARTICULAR INDIVIDUAL.

I've only been here a few weeks and I've read this theme over n over n over again.

WOMEN - You LOVE it ..... it makes you feel important.

Men can't communicate or argue with you if you don't give your time to them.

Get some fucking maturity and some dignity.

I get bloody sick of women who say ....ooooooooo he said this to me ... he said that to me. WTF did YOU say to make so many men abusive?

I'd hate to think how half the women here would cope if they had a REAL problem.

I think I need a nice cup of P.G. and Probably a suit of armour. So bite me . it's true and this topic needs a redress. I will stand by EVERYTHI

NG ive said. "

I agree with everything you've said, Granny. I've never come across this abuse either. Maybe we're just lucky

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

I agree with everything you've said, Granny. I've never come across this abuse either. Maybe we're just lucky

me neither but I feel I ought to have a rant about it anyways because Im not getting enough attention....even though I am genuine....Honest....But pple dont believe me.....

is it working yet????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey Granny, has anyone ever told you you speak a lot of sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with everything you've said, Granny. I've never come across this abuse either. Maybe we're just lucky

me neither but I feel I ought to have a rant about it anyways because Im not getting enough attention....even though I am genuine....Honest....But pple dont believe me.....

is it working yet????"

pmsl

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By *he Happy ManMan
over a year ago

Merseyside

Don't take it it heart. A lot of women and couples take abuse when they say no (more so the women). Just report every abusive person and then block them.

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By *ouvakMan
over a year ago

clacton on sea

i agree that NO should mean NO and that should be the end of it, if you become pushy in a club after a couple/female/male has said no thanks you are asked kindly to leave and not return, ( though this seems mainly aimed at males on the club issue) at the end of the day we all have differring likes dislikes, thats why we are individuals, hell imagine how much more difficult it would all be if we all liked the same thing !!!!! i've messaged several people in the past and been told " sorry but your not my type/not what we are looking for" i always reply with " thank you for your reply and i hope you find what your are looking for and have fun when you do" polite curt and to the point, i will admit it does T me off a bit when i have messaged someone and i find my message has been deleted without a word of reply, and i think thats far ruder than just being honest with the sender

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi nina. Hope you are not too put off by a few who cant handle rejection. Its my belief that for a fantastic night,then both,or all parties need to connect in more than one way. If one doesnt,get over it n move on lads or lasses,couples too. You wont scare em into bed wi your lack of eticut.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

PLEASE DO NOT USE THE FORUM TO PERSONALLY ATTACK ME

IF YOU WANT TO SAY THINGS THEN EMAIL ME PERSONALLY

ITS COWARDLY TO HIDE BEHIND YOUR PC HAVE THE DECENCY TO EMAIL ME AND SPEAK TO ME ON THE PHONE!!!

DONT ATTACK ME THROUGH THE FORUMS PLEASE!!!

I will gladly give my phone no out to you!!!

ONCE YOU HAVE THE DECENCY TO EMAIL ME PRIVATELY

FOR IT.once you have spoken to me on the phone you will see Nina aint like that

PLEASE DONT JUDGE ME!!!

YOU DONT KNOW ME

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Also Im a very nice person and its very nasty the amount off people that use the forums for a personal attack

see "forum post " Rules

New Forum PostPlease note the forum rules before posting:

Don't badmouth other members or "name and shame": If you have a problem with another member, block them and leave feedback using "Report Profile" link on their profile

Don't post phone numbers

Do not use the forum to try and contact people who have BLOCKED you

Don't promote commercial services or websites: Anyone spamming the forums will be removed from the site

NOW READ WHAT FABS HAVE PUT!!!

DONT BADMOUTH ANOTHER MEMBER

WHICH YOU HAVE ME!!!

please guys DO NOT JUDGE ME

have the decency to at least contact me

If you have a problem with me.Take it up with me NOT GET AT ME THROUGH THE FORUMS PLEASE!!!

DONT USE THE FORUMS AS A WEAPON TO ME AT ME OR OTHER GUYS WHO HAVE AGREED WITH ME

its cowardly very immature

why are people getting upset over things

life is toooo short stop being immature and move on.its only a posting

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Christ, now they are best friends, time to arrange a meet...."

When one throwaay line in the forum results in you getting TWO emails from the OP complaining about my "personal attack" on her and chastising me for "hiding behind my pc" you know for sure you're dealing with, shall we say, a certain kinda person...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Christ, now they are best friends, time to arrange a meet....

calm down just chill what are you upset about at this time on the morn!!!

here we go again a personal attack!!!

get over it its just a forum posting for goodness sake not a "debate" forum

have a coffee and calm down please

what are you so het up about !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a message in my in box from the OP. All because I commented that I had not had any problems. This person is now reported and blocked.

PLEASE DO NOT USE THE FORUM TO PERSONALLY ATTACK ME

IF YOU WANT TO SAY THINGS THEN EMAIL ME PERSONALLY

ITS COWARDLY TO HIDE BEHIND YOUR PC HAVE THE DECENCY TO EMAIL ME AND SPEAK TO ME ON THE PHONE!!!

DONT ATTACK ME THROUGH THE FORUMS PLEASE!!!

I will gladly give my phone no out to you!!!

ONCE YOU HAVE THE DECENCY TO EMAIL ME PRIVATELY

FOR IT.once you have spoken to me on the phone you will see Nina aint like that

PLEASE DONT JUDGE ME!!!

YOU DONT KNOW ME

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

please stop getting upset its 07.47 in the morn

have a coffee

it seems its ok to have a go at me in the forum

when i personally email to tell you to email me for my personal no

then you go through forums and have a dig!!!

whats to get upset about jeez some people

yawn

get over it today is a fresh day

and sun is out

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I dont see what is is up with saying what i put i was NOT abusive i was not swearing

I just made a valid post

said it how it is

i cant be reported for asking people to email me for my personal no

also to stop attacking me through forums

maybe you should not attack people through forums

you cant expect to attack and get at someone and not expect a reaction back!!

the so called person who posts not to defend their self

im so fed up of people using the forun to get me also another person was got a just cause he stuck up for me

people CALM DOWN for goodness sake just CHILL

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

PLEASE DO NOT USE THE FORUM TO PERSONALLY ATTACK ME

IF YOU WANT TO SAY THINGS THEN EMAIL ME PERSONALLY

ITS COWARDLY TO HIDE BEHIND YOUR PC HAVE THE DECENCY TO EMAIL ME AND SPEAK TO ME ON THE PHONE!!!

DONT ATTACK ME THROUGH THE FORUMS PLEASE!!!

I will gladly give my phone no out to you!!!

ONCE YOU HAVE THE DECENCY TO EMAIL ME PRIVATELY

FOR IT.once you have spoken to me on the phone you will see Nina aint like that

PLEASE DONT JUDGE ME!!!

YOU DONT KNOW ME

this is the content i emailed to people who got at me in forum

i didnt swear i didnt abuse i just asked people to NOT JUDGE just email me for my no,i didnt call them names

i just said in capital letters not to use forum to bad mouth someone!!!

as Forum rules state!!!

now how is that bad or abusive

Don't badmouth other members or "name and shame

I emailed individuels and not went through the forum to bad mouth them

and the content of my email to cerain people on forum is not bad

i merely asked them TO PHONE ME!!!

but NO didnt instead they use yawn the forum again

what does fabs state

yes DO NOT USE THE FORUMS TO BAD MOUTH SOMEONE

i had the decency to email individuels personally and not attack them through the forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe this is the right time to mention thing..

using caps is often deemed to be shouting and not great.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I can't see one person who attacked you to warrant the mails you are sending out to which I recieved the same mail.

People have given their opinion on your post.

If you don't want an opinion other than your own then maybe it isn't wise to write it on a public forum for other people to see.

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