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By *ude12 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Thinking of getting a Vasectomy

What’s people Experience like pain and what it like any long pain or sex after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always say leave the human body alone

you might meet the girl of your dreams who wants a baby

a multi millioniare might offer you a chunk for your spunk lol

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By *ude12 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Thing is all ready have 2 kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it, no skin off my nose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pain free, be good if you could keep the swelling though.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"i always say leave the human body alone

you might meet the girl of your dreams who wants a baby

a multi millioniare might offer you a chunk for your spunk lol"

If I met the man of my dreams and he wanted kids, I'd run a mile. If you don't want (more) kids, that shouldn't be negotiable.

OP, I've heard some have it easy and others really suffer. I'm afraid there's no one answer.

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Fuck that mate I wouldn't be doing that one bit just leave it out and cum over them

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By *ude12 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I doubt they would give you one at your age tbh.

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By *ude12 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Peterborough

18+

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"I doubt they would give you one at your age tbh."

Agreed. Age is a factor, alongside marital status and number of kids.

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Thinking of getting a Vasectomy

What’s people Experience like pain and what it like any long pain or sex after"

A friend of mine had a prob and his balls swelled up to the size of 2 grapefruits! Not the norm granted but it can happen temporary.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Thinking of getting a Vasectomy

What’s people Experience like pain and what it like any long pain or sex after

A friend of mine had a prob and his balls swelled up to the size of 2 grapefruits! Not the norm granted but it can happen temporary. "

Happened to a friend's hubby, she said he's balls looked like an aubergine

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By *oAnCouple
over a year ago

Streatham

It's great. No regrets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby had it done, bit bruised (ego and balls) for couple of days.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

They do them where I work. The guys walk out like nothing has happened. Apparently the dentist is worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They do them where I work. The guys walk out like nothing has happened. Apparently the dentist is worse."

That's probably because dentists aren't really qualified to do vasectomies

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond


"Thinking of getting a Vasectomy

What’s people Experience like pain and what it like any long pain or sex after"

My ex outright refused to have a vasectomy; in order to ensure I would never have more kids, I had to undergo major surgery. I HIGHLY respect any man willing to undergo a minor local procedure so that a woman doesn't have to go through general anesthesia and surgery.

I also agree with above poster, if you know you don't want more kids, your choice, no one else's business.

OK, those didn't answer your question--but good luck, hope it goes well for you.

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By *ldaCouple
over a year ago

sutton Coldfield

I had it at 32. No problems at all, bit of swelling for a couple of days. I don't feel any less of a man because of it.

Only use as a contraceptive with partner though. Most meets will still expect you to play safe.

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"Thinking of getting a Vasectomy

What’s people Experience like pain and what it like any long pain or sex after"

Had mine 10 years ago and haven’t looked back. Drove in and out, was there for 45 mins. Local anaesthetic, felt it but no pain, just like crunching of grissle haha. Then a dull nausea like I’d been kicked in the knackers the day before.

Told to rest up for about a week. I can’t remeber how long you have to wait before ejaculating again. Think it was about 6 weeks, though 12 rings a bell, not sure why...then you have to have a few samples tested to make sure you’re firing blanks and you’re good to go. Whole thing takes between 3 and 6 months.

I love it. Long term partners love it too, get checked at the beginning of a relationship and of you go!!!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Thinking of getting a Vasectomy

What’s people Experience like pain and what it like any long pain or sex after

Had mine 10 years ago and haven’t looked back. Drove in and out, was there for 45 mins. Local anaesthetic, felt it but no pain, just like crunching of grissle haha. Then a dull nausea like I’d been kicked in the knackers the day before.

Told to rest up for about a week. I can’t remeber how long you have to wait before ejaculating again. Think it was about 6 weeks, though 12 rings a bell, not sure why...then you have to have a few samples tested to make sure you’re firing blanks and you’re good to go. Whole thing takes between 3 and 6 months.

I love it. Long term partners love it too, get checked at the beginning of a relationship and of you go!!! "

The 12 weeks is how long you have to wait to produce the sample for testing. You can ejaculate again as soon as you're no longer sore. If anything you want to do so as much a possible to "clear things out" before you produce the sample as sperm can stick around in the pipework for quite a while and effect the results. How's that for an excuse!

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"Thinking of getting a Vasectomy

What’s people Experience like pain and what it like any long pain or sex after

Had mine 10 years ago and haven’t looked back. Drove in and out, was there for 45 mins. Local anaesthetic, felt it but no pain, just like crunching of grissle haha. Then a dull nausea like I’d been kicked in the knackers the day before.

Told to rest up for about a week. I can’t remeber how long you have to wait before ejaculating again. Think it was about 6 weeks, though 12 rings a bell, not sure why...then you have to have a few samples tested to make sure you’re firing blanks and you’re good to go. Whole thing takes between 3 and 6 months.

I love it. Long term partners love it too, get checked at the beginning of a relationship and of you go!!!

The 12 weeks is how long you have to wait to produce the sample for testing. You can ejaculate again as soon as you're no longer sore. If anything you want to do so as much a possible to "clear things out" before you produce the sample as sperm can stick around in the pipework for quite a while and effect the results. How's that for an excuse! "

Well, it was 10 years ago...

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Thinking of getting a Vasectomy

What’s people Experience like pain and what it like any long pain or sex after

Had mine 10 years ago and haven’t looked back. Drove in and out, was there for 45 mins. Local anaesthetic, felt it but no pain, just like crunching of grissle haha. Then a dull nausea like I’d been kicked in the knackers the day before.

Told to rest up for about a week. I can’t remeber how long you have to wait before ejaculating again. Think it was about 6 weeks, though 12 rings a bell, not sure why...then you have to have a few samples tested to make sure you’re firing blanks and you’re good to go. Whole thing takes between 3 and 6 months.

I love it. Long term partners love it too, get checked at the beginning of a relationship and of you go!!!

The 12 weeks is how long you have to wait to produce the sample for testing. You can ejaculate again as soon as you're no longer sore. If anything you want to do so as much a possible to "clear things out" before you produce the sample as sperm can stick around in the pipework for quite a while and effect the results. How's that for an excuse!

Well, it was 10 years ago... "

And I imagine many ejaculations since haha!

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I think you will find that at your age they would not let you have one on the NHS.

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"Thinking of getting a Vasectomy

What’s people Experience like pain and what it like any long pain or sex after

Had mine 10 years ago and haven’t looked back. Drove in and out, was there for 45 mins. Local anaesthetic, felt it but no pain, just like crunching of grissle haha. Then a dull nausea like I’d been kicked in the knackers the day before.

Told to rest up for about a week. I can’t remeber how long you have to wait before ejaculating again. Think it was about 6 weeks, though 12 rings a bell, not sure why...then you have to have a few samples tested to make sure you’re firing blanks and you’re good to go. Whole thing takes between 3 and 6 months.

I love it. Long term partners love it too, get checked at the beginning of a relationship and of you go!!!

The 12 weeks is how long you have to wait to produce the sample for testing. You can ejaculate again as soon as you're no longer sore. If anything you want to do so as much a possible to "clear things out" before you produce the sample as sperm can stick around in the pipework for quite a while and effect the results. How's that for an excuse!

Well, it was 10 years ago...

And I imagine many ejaculations since haha!"

Are you imagining?? You’d be right as well

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By *sontopMan
over a year ago

Basildon

I’ve had one and on the NHS I didn’t have any pain I went back to work the next day and sex 5 days later. Quite a good idea on here just in case something goes wrong

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By *dtittyCouple
over a year ago

Durham

The hubby had it done, together were a couple of fertile mertyles lol, he was saw for a couple if days but back to his normal frisky self 10 days ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thinking of getting a Vasectomy

What’s people Experience like pain and what it like any long pain or sex after"

I’m local to you, happy to chat about it whilst we play!?! D x

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I'm not sure that you should have it done while your so young OP. If you are absolutely sure though, maybe speak to a clinic or your GP. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one 16 years ago and I’ve had no issues still works just fine. But they would not give me one until I turned 30. They refused me one at age 28 and then it was a struggle to persuade them.

You have make sure you no longer want kids no matter if you change partner.

But the opp was fine the wife came into watch a drove me home with a smile going over all the speed bumps.

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By *umbriaman1962Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith

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By *umbriaman1962Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith

Had one best part 20 years ago after kids. Best thing ever dull acre for couple weeks got sample checked after 4 months best thing i ever did for sex life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had one - we have four children

I have found that orgasms are not the same.. I don’t have the ‘shakey or wobbly, weak’ leg feeling after a really intense orgasm. While they are pleasurable and I know I have cum it’s not the same.. psychological? Perhaps.. but not the same..

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By *eriousGuyABCMan
over a year ago

( WEST OF ) Chippenham ish

Had mine done about 15yrs ago, no ill effects afterwards. The thought of it is worse than the actual procedure itself. Slight ache for couple of days after.

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By *ivelaughlove16Couple
over a year ago

norfolk/Suffolk border

I had it around 15 years ago and was fine ,that was until my young son decided to jump on me and right on my balls !!! But only really ached for a while and back to work next day

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