FabSwingers.com forum: Bi Guys At Clubs

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all, I want to take my wife to a club later in the year (yes she does know!), probably Tease 2 as it is closest to us. We want to go on a Friday night and find a couple of bi guys to play with.

My question is, do many bi guys go to clubs and how do we broach the subject of if they are bi or not?

I realise that female bisexuality seems to be fairly acceptable but that male bisexuality is still quite taboo.

we would not be playing in an open area, just in one of the private rooms with the door shut.

I know we can just ask them upfront - I really need to know if many of the guys who go to clubs are bi, or if its a bit of a non-starter.

Thanks in advance for any useful suggestions.

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By *acciWoman
over a year ago

leeds

Why dnt you just go when the club is having a bi night,pretty safe then and if you see and play with someone you both like you can arrange to meet again on a different night too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all, I want to take my wife to a club later in the year (yes she does know!), probably Tease 2 as it is closest to us. We want to go on a Friday night and find a couple of bi guys to play with.

My question is, do many bi guys go to clubs and how do we broach the subject of if they are bi or not?

I realise that female bisexuality seems to be fairly acceptable but that male bisexuality is still quite taboo.

we would not be playing in an open area, just in one of the private rooms with the door shut.

I know we can just ask them upfront - I really need to know if many of the guys who go to clubs are bi, or if its a bit of a non-starter.

Thanks in advance for any useful suggestions."

there is alot of bi males that attend clubs, but generally you wont find many that admit to it on a normal couples night.

some clubs do specific bi nights, it might be worth you going to a night like that.

Secrets in Sunderland are just starting a bi monthly bi night on a saturday night which we are really looking forward to as we find the normal couples nights a bit straight for us. Not sure how far that is from you but I'm guessing miles lol

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Bi nights are the key, and even then a lot of male bi play is out of sight.

Trick is to use fab to see who goes to the various clubs and perhaps make a plan to meet others there.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Friends of ours had a terrific time at a gay club in Conwy which has a bi night every now and then..

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

It wont happen in an open room on a non bi night, sadly too many ppl have hang ups about male bisexuality.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Bollocks mis read...asking has never caused offence though.

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By *exytwo_xCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

Though Darren is straight, we find it very annoying that this 'open mindedness' people claim to have doesn't extend to male bisexuality. In Holland they have large Bi-playrooms (both fem and male together) and the clubs are very open to any kind of sexuality in general. I think this is the way it should be everywhere.

Nina

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"Though Darren is straight, we find it very annoying that this 'open mindedness' people claim to have doesn't extend to male bisexuality. In Holland they have large Bi-playrooms (both fem and male together) and the clubs are very open to any kind of sexuality in general. I think this is the way it should be everywhere.

Nina

i agree, but non judgemental and swinging are rarer than u think.

loved the bi night at chams and cant wait for them to start at Secrets

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By *exytwo_xCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

I think chams has a better vibe when it comes to bi guys anyway. Some of the staff is always trying to 'turn' darren haha. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aye bi nights are ya best bet

But don't hide it anyway just ask xx

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I attend tease2 on average of once a month and have never seen and male bi action there ever. The only bi action ever I have seen has been at chams on monday bi night in the jacuzzi when men were sat next to each happily wanking each other. I didnt see any bi male action in open rooms but was good knowing that if bi fun was going to happen its more likely on a bi night as have never seen any bi action at any other clubs that I have attended ever.

My advice would be go to chams on bi night (monday) and put on your profile your going and that your looking for male bi fun. planning is the best key in my opinion.

Ps if you do sort some male bi action then invite me mmmmm.

I am going at easter with a bi male friend and cant wait, I will do similar to my advice to you and search beforehand. The last time I went to bi night at chams myself and my bi male friend did enjoy so mm fun in closed rooms after we espablished that the other couple they were both interested in bi fun while chatting in the club (not pre arranged).

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I do think if your bi friendly then it goes both ways mm and ff. Have to admit I was surprised that when I went to chams on bi night it was mainly mm fun I saw rather than ff but then I have to admit we (m friend and me) particularly for the male bi fun....mmm

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you everyone for the advice - From what you have all said it seems that Chams is the best option. We will try and plan ahead by asking a few guys closer to the time and trying to go on a specific bi night. We both like to play with the same sex when we're playing so I hope there's a bi night on when I'm next home around easter time, as I'm only home for 2 weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

went 2 the club in aberdeen with a female friend we just chatted to this man he never done a bi so i let him play with me and my partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"went 2 the club in aberdeen with a female friend we just chatted to this man he never done a bi so i let him play with me and my partner

how very noble of ya !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why don't you put an add up nearer the time and arrange to meet some Bi Guys of here there? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do think if your bi friendly then it goes both ways mm and ff. Have to admit I was surprised that when I went to chams on bi night it was mainly mm fun I saw rather than ff but then I have to admit we (m friend and me) particularly for the male bi fun....mmm"

The generally accpeted notion is that if your bi then your way more open anyway and tend to see people as just people rather than genders ....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why don't you put an add up nearer the time and arrange to meet some Bi Guys of here there? x"

Another very good idea - makes me feel daft for not thinking of it! lol So we will probably do this too. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my bi radar seems to have always worked ,and never had any issues on meets,

even if they stated straight,

also in a 3some when he puts his cock near ya mouth thats always a hint xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to go to the Bi night at Partners but I got the feeling that a large percentage of the men there were not bi and just looking for females.

I think they were mainly there because the admission price was half the weekend price.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why don't you put an add up nearer the time and arrange to meet some Bi Guys of here there? x

Another very good idea - makes me feel daft for not thinking of it! lol So we will probably do this too. Thanks"

Perhaps if you put bi on your profile instead of straight your problem would be solved.

Just a thought!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why don't you put an add up nearer the time and arrange to meet some Bi Guys of here there? x

Another very good idea - makes me feel daft for not thinking of it! lol So we will probably do this too. Thanks

Perhaps if you put bi on your profile instead of straight your problem would be solved.

Just a thought!

What problem?

Without wishing to appear pedantic, have you actually read my profile? It explains fully my take on labelling sexuality, why I have ticked the "straight" box and why I am on the site.

To be honest I was wondering how long it would take someone to use this forum post to have a dig. But, hey! you have your thoughts and I have mine and the world still turns, so no harm done. Stay happy

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