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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So women of fab what specific poses, backgrounds and apparel do you pike to see in a guys pics?

I think ive got some good ones but some are a bit naff with the back ground so going to make a bit of an effort to upgrade them a bit when the opertunity arises.

But for mens poses im not sure what women actually want to see. Women have quite a lot of options when i comes to positions for pics but i suspect if i tried those it might attract a slightly different audience than im looking for lol

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Pics are fine ..... dont put a cock pic as a profile pic ... I block them ha ha ....

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By *ertnsarahCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Pics are much more interesting than most men's I've seen on here, I've fabbed a few! Like the text on your profile as well. Pity we're only looking for couples Have fun! Sarah.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pics are much more interesting than most men's I've seen on here, I've fabbed a few! Like the text on your profile as well. Pity we're only looking for couples Have fun! Sarah."

Heh thank you. What kind of thing do you like to see in mens pics?

I dont think the old laying on my back on a chair with one leg up like women do will work :p

Aside from just standing, leaning or sitting i csnt think of good mens positions for pics

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road


"Pics are fine ..... dont put a cock pic as a profile pic ... I block them ha ha ...."
I am straight n I do rather see cock pics than ur boots as a profile

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By *ertnsarahCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Pics are much more interesting than most men's I've seen on here, I've fabbed a few! Like the text on your profile as well. Pity we're only looking for couples Have fun! Sarah.

Heh thank you. What kind of thing do you like to see in mens pics?

I dont think the old laying on my back on a chair with one leg up like women do will work :p

Aside from just standing, leaning or sitting i csnt think of good mens positions for pics"

From reading the forums (a lot!) it seems I'm in the minority of women that actually does like a few dick pics, not as a profile pic I agree, but I do like to have a good perv! I'd like to see a pic of you from behind, I like a nice bum on a man. I'm not a suit & tie girl, does nothing for me. I prefer the dirty look, nothing hotter than a man that's just finished a hard day's work, overalls tied round his waist, bare chest glistening with sweat & oil & a well worn pair of foundry boots. Or your equivalent I suppose would be sweaty & greased up after working on your bike. Getting palpitations just thinking about it! But that's just me In my opinion your pics are just right, well thought out (not a quick snap in a bathroom with trousers & pants round your ankles) in focus, well lit & give a sense of your personality (love the one in the snow) reading your profile & looking at your pics you come across as friendly, confident & up for a bit of a laugh. Of course I don't know you, you could be a total knob in real life! Keep doing what you're doing & try not to overthink it, keep it natural.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like photos that show a guy looking good in a relaxed way, or that have a sense of humour.

I hate dick profile pics and delete the messages.

Also, if you're going to message me, don't just send me a dick pic. It doesn't matter how big it is if you don't know how to use it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pics are much more interesting than most men's I've seen on here, I've fabbed a few! Like the text on your profile as well. Pity we're only looking for couples Have fun! Sarah.

Heh thank you. What kind of thing do you like to see in mens pics?

I dont think the old laying on my back on a chair with one leg up like women do will work :p

Aside from just standing, leaning or sitting i csnt think of good mens positions for pics

From reading the forums (a lot!) it seems I'm in the minority of women that actually does like a few dick pics, not as a profile pic I agree, but I do like to have a good perv! I'd like to see a pic of you from behind, I like a nice bum on a man. I'm not a suit & tie girl, does nothing for me. I prefer the dirty look, nothing hotter than a man that's just finished a hard day's work, overalls tied round his waist, bare chest glistening with sweat & oil & a well worn pair of foundry boots. Or your equivalent I suppose would be sweaty & greased up after working on your bike. Getting palpitations just thinking about it! But that's just me In my opinion your pics are just right, well thought out (not a quick snap in a bathroom with trousers & pants round your ankles) in focus, well lit & give a sense of your personality (love the one in the snow) reading your profile & looking at your pics you come across as friendly, confident & up for a bit of a laugh. Of course I don't know you, you could be a total knob in real life! Keep doing what you're doing & try not to overthink it, keep it natural. "

Good idea with the overalls i need to replace the rear suspension on my other bike so i'll wear my works overalls and steelies.

White vest or shirtless with the overalls round the waist?

Ooo might try my leather one peice tied around the waist leaning on the bike but that will have to wait for better weather

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wowsers...can’t see anything wrong with any of them..and Iv had a very close look...I would say you’ve got it pretty much perfect

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"So women of fab what specific poses, backgrounds and apparel do you pike to see in a guys pics?

I think ive got some good ones but some are a bit naff with the back ground so going to make a bit of an effort to upgrade them a bit when the opertunity arises.

But for mens poses im not sure what women actually want to see. Women have quite a lot of options when i comes to positions for pics but i suspect if i tried those it might attract a slightly different audience than im looking for lol"

I think your pics are really good. Good variety and tastefully done.

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By *rofessJayWoman
over a year ago

wherever

Your pics are very good compared to some

...I love a guy in a suit (well fitted) with perhaps the tie loosened and top button undone

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By *ussy Galore and BondCouple
over a year ago

Sexy

Hot holy hell I'd like to tap that! Award winning photography man!

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By *ertnsarahCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Pics are much more interesting than most men's I've seen on here, I've fabbed a few! Like the text on your profile as well. Pity we're only looking for couples Have fun! Sarah.

Heh thank you. What kind of thing do you like to see in mens pics?

I dont think the old laying on my back on a chair with one leg up like women do will work :p

Aside from just standing, leaning or sitting i csnt think of good mens positions for pics

From reading the forums (a lot!) it seems I'm in the minority of women that actually does like a few dick pics, not as a profile pic I agree, but I do like to have a good perv! I'd like to see a pic of you from behind, I like a nice bum on a man. I'm not a suit & tie girl, does nothing for me. I prefer the dirty look, nothing hotter than a man that's just finished a hard day's work, overalls tied round his waist, bare chest glistening with sweat & oil & a well worn pair of foundry boots. Or your equivalent I suppose would be sweaty & greased up after working on your bike. Getting palpitations just thinking about it! But that's just me In my opinion your pics are just right, well thought out (not a quick snap in a bathroom with trousers & pants round your ankles) in focus, well lit & give a sense of your personality (love the one in the snow) reading your profile & looking at your pics you come across as friendly, confident & up for a bit of a laugh. Of course I don't know you, you could be a total knob in real life! Keep doing what you're doing & try not to overthink it, keep it natural.

Good idea with the overalls i need to replace the rear suspension on my other bike so i'll wear my works overalls and steelies.

White vest or shirtless with the overalls round the waist?

Ooo might try my leather one peice tied around the waist leaning on the bike but that will have to wait for better weather"

For me shirtless, overalls tied round the waist.

Leather one piece round the waist playing with your throbbing beast sounds good!

Think I may have to add you to our hotlist, purely for research, judging & advice purposes you understand. It's going to be a hard job but I'm prepared to put in the hours & will take my role extremely seriously.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pics are much more interesting than most men's I've seen on here, I've fabbed a few! Like the text on your profile as well. Pity we're only looking for couples Have fun! Sarah.

Heh thank you. What kind of thing do you like to see in mens pics?

I dont think the old laying on my back on a chair with one leg up like women do will work :p

Aside from just standing, leaning or sitting i csnt think of good mens positions for pics

From reading the forums (a lot!) it seems I'm in the minority of women that actually does like a few dick pics, not as a profile pic I agree, but I do like to have a good perv! I'd like to see a pic of you from behind, I like a nice bum on a man. I'm not a suit & tie girl, does nothing for me. I prefer the dirty look, nothing hotter than a man that's just finished a hard day's work, overalls tied round his waist, bare chest glistening with sweat & oil & a well worn pair of foundry boots. Or your equivalent I suppose would be sweaty & greased up after working on your bike. Getting palpitations just thinking about it! But that's just me In my opinion your pics are just right, well thought out (not a quick snap in a bathroom with trousers & pants round your ankles) in focus, well lit & give a sense of your personality (love the one in the snow) reading your profile & looking at your pics you come across as friendly, confident & up for a bit of a laugh. Of course I don't know you, you could be a total knob in real life! Keep doing what you're doing & try not to overthink it, keep it natural.

Good idea with the overalls i need to replace the rear suspension on my other bike so i'll wear my works overalls and steelies.

White vest or shirtless with the overalls round the waist?

Ooo might try my leather one peice tied around the waist leaning on the bike but that will have to wait for better weather

For me shirtless, overalls tied round the waist.

Leather one piece round the waist playing with your throbbing beast sounds good!

Think I may have to add you to our hotlist, purely for research, judging & advice purposes you understand. It's going to be a hard job but I'm prepared to put in the hours & will take my role extremely seriously. "

I appreciate your sacrifice

Whats a good way for an ass pic for a guy

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By *ertnsarahCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

I've seen some nice bum pics just done as a selfie in a full length mirror. Nice to see the shoulders, back, waist & legs. Don't really need to be seeing blokes arses in the air doggy style thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've seen some nice bum pics just done as a selfie in a full length mirror. Nice to see the shoulders, back, waist & legs. Don't really need to be seeing blokes arses in the air doggy style thanks."

Hahs yeah i was trying to think of a classy way to do it.

Ive got some old ones from.when i had short hair that was just me standing there and a friend took it from.behind but I've only got filtered versions now lost the original

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Learn to use the timer (or even the voice activation facility if your phone has it) on your phone's camera - then you just need to find somewhere to prop it (a mobile phone tripod is handy for that) to get a better pic that isn't of you holding a phone as you look in a mirror - is ideal for bum shots too

As for what pics - whilst I agree there's less options for guys, primarily because we can't simply change lingerie to make a pic different, and there's a limit to the ranges of "sexy" men's underwear - there is still quite a lot you can achieve with a little imagination and using the timer function, and maybe some editing software go either crop or black and white pics.

Anything from bath/shower shots (wet t-shirt optional), to suit or body, bums and torsos go down well - I often look at other guys with a similar build to me that are well verified for inspiration and ideas for what might work.

Most of all, have some fun with it - take your time rather than just snapping a pic when you think to and take multiple shots and whittle it down to the ones you like most.

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By *ertnsarahCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich


"Learn to use the timer (or even the voice activation facility if your phone has it) on your phone's camera - then you just need to find somewhere to prop it (a mobile phone tripod is handy for that) to get a better pic that isn't of you holding a phone as you look in a mirror - is ideal for bum shots too

As for what pics - whilst I agree there's less options for guys, primarily because we can't simply change lingerie to make a pic different, and there's a limit to the ranges of "sexy" men's underwear - there is still quite a lot you can achieve with a little imagination and using the timer function, and maybe some editing software go either crop or black and white pics.

Anything from bath/shower shots (wet t-shirt optional), to suit or body, bums and torsos go down well - I often look at other guys with a similar build to me that are well verified for inspiration and ideas for what might work.

Most of all, have some fun with it - take your time rather than just snapping a pic when you think to and take multiple shots and whittle it down to the ones you like most."

Agreed

I've fabbed a couple of yours as well Gemini, nice selection you've got there!

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By *urity555Man
over a year ago

south west

I think compared to some other male profiles, yours is extremely good!

Your pictures are great!

Miss

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Learn to use the timer (or even the voice activation facility if your phone has it) on your phone's camera - then you just need to find somewhere to prop it (a mobile phone tripod is handy for that) to get a better pic that isn't of you holding a phone as you look in a mirror - is ideal for bum shots too

As for what pics - whilst I agree there's less options for guys, primarily because we can't simply change lingerie to make a pic different, and there's a limit to the ranges of "sexy" men's underwear - there is still quite a lot you can achieve with a little imagination and using the timer function, and maybe some editing software go either crop or black and white pics.

Anything from bath/shower shots (wet t-shirt optional), to suit or body, bums and torsos go down well - I often look at other guys with a similar build to me that are well verified for inspiration and ideas for what might work.

Most of all, have some fun with it - take your time rather than just snapping a pic when you think to and take multiple shots and whittle it down to the ones you like most.

Agreed

I've fabbed a couple of yours as well Gemini, nice selection you've got there! "

Thank you - very kind of you to say

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By *ewitching1Woman
over a year ago

belfast

Pictures are grand; however, I do question when a guy has his face in public photos how much he values discretion . But that is purely personal and my own need for discretion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pictures are grand; however, I do question when a guy has his face in public photos how much he values discretion . But that is purely personal and my own need for discretion "

My previous fab profile already got shared around my workplace so pretty much everyone in my life knows about this (most of my best friends having been met through fab too) so meh doesn't bother me.

But then again its not like i am sticking up pictures of people i meet or sounding a trumpet when somone comes round :p

If it helps her majesty's govenrment deems me safe to keep confidential secrets :p

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Star jumps

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By *cooby5555Man
over a year ago

galway

Nice bum Gemini man

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By *ewitching1Woman
over a year ago

belfast


"Pictures are grand; however, I do question when a guy has his face in public photos how much he values discretion . But that is purely personal and my own need for discretion

My previous fab profile already got shared around my workplace so pretty much everyone in my life knows about this (most of my best friends having been met through fab too) so meh doesn't bother me.

But then again its not like i am sticking up pictures of people i meet or sounding a trumpet when somone comes round :p

If it helps her majesty's govenrment deems me safe to keep confidential secrets :p"

Well if it's good enough for her Maj. Belfast fab is totally different to what I was used to living in wirral, took a lot to get used to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Pictures are grand; however, I do question when a guy has his face in public photos how much he values discretion . But that is purely personal and my own need for discretion

My previous fab profile already got shared around my workplace so pretty much everyone in my life knows about this (most of my best friends having been met through fab too) so meh doesn't bother me.

But then again its not like i am sticking up pictures of people i meet or sounding a trumpet when somone comes round :p

If it helps her majesty's govenrment deems me safe to keep confidential secrets :p

Well if it's good enough for her Maj. Belfast fab is totally different to what I was used to living in wirral, took a lot to get used to "

Wirral? Good lord thank god you escaped

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By *7345Man
over a year ago

wakefield

I think your pictures are great OP

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

I'd say you're doing just fine there OP

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like your pics. I prefer cock pics in friends only but that’s probably just me. You need an unbuttoned jeans pic

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By *herrySnickersWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I also think they are lovely. I’ve fabbed my faves.. i think a plain background always works well and I’m not a fan of patterned duvet covers, clutter or anything in bathrooms/toilets...x good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I also think they are lovely. I’ve fabbed my faves.. i think a plain background always works well and I’m not a fan of patterned duvet covers, clutter or anything in bathrooms/toilets...x good luck x "

Haha the patterned duvet is because the spare bedroom is the only one in the house with a mirror.

The main room is an oak kingsize with plain white or grey sheets :p

I might try to redo the bed pic there

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By *herrySnickersWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere


"I also think they are lovely. I’ve fabbed my faves.. i think a plain background always works well and I’m not a fan of patterned duvet covers, clutter or anything in bathrooms/toilets...x good luck x

Haha the patterned duvet is because the spare bedroom is the only one in the house with a mirror.

The main room is an oak kingsize with plain white or grey sheets :p

I might try to redo the bed pic there"

I’ll be looking forward to that one x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would also appreciate some picture advice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*following.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pic as your profile pic = bad in my opinion, fine to have them on your profile somewhere though.

Photos with pants on the floor of the background also bad.

I never look for anything in particular, it's more a case of things putting me off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Added a hard cock pic rather than just the semi too much should i keep it friends only?

I do wish we could change the order of pics without having to delete and reupload them all.

As it would be nice to have the cock pics down the bottom rather than first thing people see if added late

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh yeah meant ro ask which do you think looks best as a profile pic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Questions you never thought you'd be asking...

They are all good but I guess whichever photo zooms in on you more as when it's a profile picture, you can't see much as 'you' are a small in the box, so to speak.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

In general terms, I like seeing undressing pictures. Pulling a shirt open, easing trousers down, that sort of thing.

I'm not a cock shot fan, but I recognise some are, and don't mind as long as they're tasteful and in the minority of shots (not profile picture and not sent to me directly).

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