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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A question for the ladies. Considering this is a site primarily for sex I’m assuming most guys on here will eat pussy without a second thought (personally I love a woman orgasming on my tongue)

If you were going about sex In a more traditional way how common is it for the guy to go down on you and make you cum?

In my experience the girls I’ve slept with it doesn’t seem common

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By *over-manMan
over a year ago

motherwell

I love lady gush on my face

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By *onnie And Clyde9070Couple
over a year ago

Leeds

Regular occurence here.

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By *nsatiable NurseWoman
over a year ago

Brighton

A guy I met on here had been swinging for about three years when I met him. He told me I was the first fab person he went down on...Of course, I didn’t believe him

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London

I find the best way to learn about oral is to watch lesbian porn. It’s more sensual, touch, massage and tease oriented rather than your typical guy doing finger, lick clit one direction, finger harder and faster wondering why she’s pulling your arm away....

Just my opinion. Seems to work for me.

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London


"A guy I met on here had been swinging for about three years when I met him. He told me I was the first fab person he went down on...Of course, I didn’t believe him "

Was he black and meant in all seriousness after reading your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never slept with a guy who hasn't gone down on me. Obviously some are more keen than others but no one has not been into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy I met on here had been swinging for about three years when I met him. He told me I was the first fab person he went down on...Of course, I didn’t believe him

Was he black and meant in all seriousness after reading your profile. "

From looking at the profile I'd imagine he was, I'm wouldn't be surprised if she was the first lady he went down on, the stereotype is that black men don't eat pussy, which is utter bollocks because I love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the second thread like this in a few days and I'm genuinely shocked to discover that there are men who don't/won't/can't perform oral sex! Honestly I always assumed it was a given

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was married to a guy that never did nor did he ever want me to give to him either.

It was quite a revelation when I finally experienced these things.

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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

We are married and it is a regular thing that happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's one of the most intimate aspects of play for me. Long slow movements interspace with fingers and tounge and going slower is always better than faster. Very little depth of insertion just the edge of the vagina where most of the feeling are. Orgasim can be achieved most times without your penis at all being involved. Male

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Erm... helloo .. waves

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

Well I have been told I can lick pussy for England sooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have often wondered where the misconception about black guys not going down on women comes from ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I have been told I can lick pussy for England sooo "
Me too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question for the ladies. Considering this is a site primarily for sex I’m assuming most guys on here will eat pussy without a second thought (personally I love a woman orgasming on my tongue)

If you were going about sex In a more traditional way how common is it for the guy to go down on you and make you cum?

In my experience the girls I’ve slept with it doesn’t seem common"

If I remember rightly (some time ago) all the men I've had relationships with, have always done oral and visa versa - that type of play is vanilla to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the best thing ever is there really people out there who don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You assume wrongly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it is disgusting. I ate one once when I was homeless. It was hair, hard to skin and the meat was stringy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always

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By *nsatiable NurseWoman
over a year ago

Brighton


"A guy I met on here had been swinging for about three years when I met him. He told me I was the first fab person he went down on...Of course, I didn’t believe him

Was he black and meant in all seriousness after reading your profile. "

He might have been

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By *mooth tongue 4uMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

For me it’s the best type of foreplay

Teasing and licking a woman’s pussy , lips and teasing her clit with your tongue

It’s so natural ,

Best compliment is the lady orgasaming on your tongue

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By *nsatiable NurseWoman
over a year ago

Brighton


"A guy I met on here had been swinging for about three years when I met him. He told me I was the first fab person he went down on...Of course, I didn’t believe him

Was he black and meant in all seriousness after reading your profile.

From looking at the profile I'd imagine he was, I'm wouldn't be surprised if she was the first lady he went down on, the stereotype is that black men don't eat pussy, which is utter bollocks because I love it."

You’re right. Like most sterotypes, there may be some truth in it but some of the best orals I’ve had were from black guys. Thankfully, that guy was more the exception than the rule

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"A question for the ladies. Considering this is a site primarily for sex I’m assuming most guys on here will eat pussy without a second thought (personally I love a woman orgasming on my tongue)

If you were going about sex In a more traditional way how common is it for the guy to go down on you and make you cum?

In my experience the girls I’ve slept with it doesn’t seem common"

I like that post.

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By *rHornyGentMan
over a year ago

South East London


"A guy I met on here had been swinging for about three years when I met him. He told me I was the first fab person he went down on...Of course, I didn’t believe him

Was he black and meant in all seriousness after reading your profile.

From looking at the profile I'd imagine he was, I'm wouldn't be surprised if she was the first lady he went down on, the stereotype is that black men don't eat pussy, which is utter bollocks because I love it.

You’re right. Like most sterotypes, there may be some truth in it but some of the best orals I’ve had were from black guys. Thankfully, that guy was more the exception than the rule "

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"Well I have been told I can lick pussy for England sooo "

So do you have a special sponsors bib and go on sponsored international tours then?

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Every guy i've met on other sites has gone down on me. Fair few on here have gone down on me and they became regular meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love going down on a woman and dont need any prompting

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"For me it’s the best type of foreplay

Teasing and licking a woman’s pussy , lips and teasing her clit with your tongue

It’s so natural ,

Best compliment is the lady orgasaming on your tongue "

Especially when you get splashed in the face while you’re kissing her clitoris. It happened to me once at home and another time in a club

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"For me it’s the best type of foreplay

Teasing and licking a woman’s pussy , lips and teasing her clit with your tongue

It’s so natural ,

Best compliment is the lady orgasaming on your tongue

Especially when you get splashed in the face while you’re kissing her clitoris. It happened to me once at home and another time in a club "

What's not to like? It's a common starting point for me. Yep and have been "splashed" before now.

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By *_MariusMan
over a year ago

Currently Faraway


"For me it’s the best type of foreplay

Teasing and licking a woman’s pussy , lips and teasing her clit with your tongue

It’s so natural ,

Best compliment is the lady orgasaming on your tongue

Especially when you get splashed in the face while you’re kissing her clitoris. It happened to me once at home and another time in a club

What's not to like? It's a common starting point for me. Yep and have been "splashed" before now."

I personally like it because it’s like kissing, which I love doing anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I full on love licking pussy and I will always do even more so if I get my head pushed down there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife didn’t give oral

Unless I asked and then grudgingly, also wasn’t keen on receiving either , me I love both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife didn’t give oral

Unless I asked and then grudgingly, also wasn’t keen on receiving either , me I love both. "

You can understand why there's soo many married guys on ere then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A guy I met on here had been swinging for about three years when I met him. He told me I was the first fab person he went down on...Of course, I didn’t believe him

Was he black and meant in all seriousness after reading your profile.

From looking at the profile I'd imagine he was, I'm wouldn't be surprised if she was the first lady he went down on, the stereotype is that black men don't eat pussy, which is utter bollocks because I love it."

I was told this by a black fabster. didn’t get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I have been told I can lick pussy for England sooo Me too x"

Might not be allowed after brexit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it, thought everybody did love, shocked that some don't. All the more for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex never performed oral on me infact he was very selfish in bed my current man loves ot, I'd say it's not important as long as there is some form of foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can only cum from oral or is that just my excuse cos I'm greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love giving a pretty pussy lots of attention, always makes me cum.

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By *mberandlennyCouple
over a year ago

prescot

I spend a lot of time pleasuring my wife’s deliciously wet, tasty and formed flower.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get it most times love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been given the impression that M2F is an uncommon occurrence by any of my partners. Whether the majority are any good at it has been more of a mixed bag of feedback however.

For my part, i don't go down every time, but when i do i'll be down there a good long while :D

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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

I love S being freshly showered and groomed so I can give her oral as I know just what gets her writhing on my tongue and fingers and grabbing my head as she cums hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love oral sex,I can talk about it all night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oral is my fave pastime to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have often wondered where the misconception about black guys not going down on women comes from ? "

Its African guys not black guys that that stereotype is about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never ask for it but majority of men I've been with loved eating me out - whether we met on fab or not. Only a few didn't but wanted a BJ - of course I refused. I offered 69 or nothing at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See I love licking the pussy best thing ever. Don’t like bjs as much find it boring I like to to please the women multiple times with my tounge before one but I love a 69

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By *heSofaDestroyersCouple
over a year ago

HereAndThere

It was down to my oral ability that a hungover penny gave in and decided to meet me after four years of trying,

And now 18 months on we are still going strong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex had never had someone stick their tongue in her pussy till i did it. Had only been licked which surprised me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All want to do it, but I hate it so either push him away or tolerate it twiddling my thumbs and gritting my teeth until he gets the message. I do wish men wouldn't automatically assume that all women like it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All want to do it, but I hate it so either push him away or tolerate it twiddling my thumbs and gritting my teeth until he gets the message. I do wish men wouldn't automatically assume that all women like it! "

So why not just say "i dont like it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All want to do it, but I hate it so either push him away or tolerate it twiddling my thumbs and gritting my teeth until he gets the message. I do wish men wouldn't automatically assume that all women like it!

So why not just say "i dont like it" "

I do but for some men it's a deal breaker!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All want to do it, but I hate it so either push him away or tolerate it twiddling my thumbs and gritting my teeth until he gets the message. I do wish men wouldn't automatically assume that all women like it!

So why not just say "i dont like it"

I do but for some men it's a deal breaker! "

Perhaps add it to your profile to avoid the situation.

If youre looking to explore your sexuality good communication and having the confidence to draw your boundaries are very important.

You should never be gritting your teeth and bearing it...well unless it's part of some s&m play lol

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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I find recieving oral so boring, I'd honestly rather do the ironing . Only one guy has ever got me close to orgasming, unfortunately he lacked in other sex areas.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"A guy I met on here had been swinging for about three years when I met him. He told me I was the first fab person he went down on...Of course, I didn’t believe him "

I think some of us men are a bit scared that somehow they are not doing it right. Personally I love it but it's different with different women.

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By *CheshireMaleMan
over a year ago

Middlewich

oral is definitely part of foreplay especially if the lady orgasms, such a turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I simply cant imagine a nice sexy session without it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find recieving oral so boring, I'd honestly rather do the ironing . Only one guy has ever got me close to orgasming, unfortunately he lacked in other sex areas."

That is surprising. Possibly down to the wrong buttons being pressed rather that the actual act itself.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"I find recieving oral so boring, I'd honestly rather do the ironing . Only one guy has ever got me close to orgasming, unfortunately he lacked in other sex areas.

That is surprising. Possibly down to the wrong buttons being pressed rather that the actual act itself."

Well then in my experience then most of the men I've had sex with don't even know where the buttons are, I think more than likely I just don't enjoy it, alot of women truly don't.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Sorry op for putting a downer on your thread x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had full intercourse with someone I haven't licked out either prior or post sex

I love it

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"I find recieving oral so boring, I'd honestly rather do the ironing . Only one guy has ever got me close to orgasming, unfortunately he lacked in other sex areas.

That is surprising. Possibly down to the wrong buttons being pressed rather that the actual act itself."

No it's common i know many girl mates and people from fab who have expressed that they don't like there pussy being eaten.

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

One of the top 5 reasons why I married W

Before him, no one ever had though not that there's many to choose from and youth may have been a factor

V x

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

Please don't take this weirdly but from a mans perspective do you find some women taist better than others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find recieving oral so boring, I'd honestly rather do the ironing . Only one guy has ever got me close to orgasming, unfortunately he lacked in other sex areas.

That is surprising. Possibly down to the wrong buttons being pressed rather that the actual act itself.

Well then in my experience then most of the men I've had sex with don't even know where the buttons are, I think more than likely I just don't enjoy it, alot of women truly don't."

It is highly possible they dont even know the buttons exist as we are on the whole a pretty useless bunch

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I find it hit and miss, some men love to give oral and will stay there forever!!!

Others say they do.. but reality is kinda different!

Some don’t even go there!

Each meet is different and surprising... and they’re 99% all great x

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"I find it hit and miss, some men love to give oral and will stay there forever!!!

Others say they do.. but reality is kinda different!

Some don’t even go there!

Each meet is different and surprising... and they’re 99% all great x "

I'm in the top category most of the time.

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs

Not one to blow my own trumpet but I used to be called 'The King' when it came to cunnilingus.

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By *oftandGentle2Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"I find it hit and miss, some men love to give oral and will stay there forever!!!

Others say they do.. but reality is kinda different!

Some don’t even go there!

Each meet is different and surprising... and they’re 99% all great x

I'm in the top category most of the time."

Well that’s very nice to know x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a relationship with a woman that didn’t like cunnilingus, it wasn’t so much that she disliked the sensations it was more to do with her upbringing. She was catholic and had been taught that sex was dirty. The problem she had was that whilst I was going down on her all she could think of is how disgusting I must be finding it.

This was obviously far from the truth as I absolutely love going down on a woman.

The same woman didn’t have an orgasm until she was in her 30’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a relationship with a woman that didn’t like cunnilingus, it wasn’t so much that she disliked the sensations it was more to do with her upbringing. She was catholic and had been taught that sex was dirty. The problem she had was that whilst I was going down on her all she could think of is how disgusting I must be finding it.

This was obviously far from the truth as I absolutely love going down on a woman.

The same woman didn’t have an orgasm until she was in her 30’s "
God that’s really sad poor women

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"I think it is disgusting. I ate one once when I was homeless. It was hair, hard to skin and the meat was stringy. "

you got an old one obviously a nice young one would be ok "tastes like chicken" in fact most chinese restaurants serve it as chicken lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a relationship with a woman that didn’t like cunnilingus, it wasn’t so much that she disliked the sensations it was more to do with her upbringing. She was catholic and had been taught that sex was dirty. The problem she had was that whilst I was going down on her all she could think of is how disgusting I must be finding it.

This was obviously far from the truth as I absolutely love going down on a woman.

The same woman didn’t have an orgasm until she was in her 30’s God that’s really sad poor women "

I certainly tried my best to change that for her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lady straight from the shower is irresistible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

..as long as it tastes good, it's all good

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By *ressed4fun03TV/TS
over a year ago

Midlands

Its what I do best, on my knees in front or behind a lady is the best place for a sissy like me, even better if shes just been fucked by a real man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was in my mid 20’s I met an 18 year old girl who had a baby, when I asked her to 69 me she said ‘why do you want my fanny in your face’ I couldn’t believe know guy had done it to her before!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a relationship with a woman that didn’t like cunnilingus, it wasn’t so much that she disliked the sensations it was more to do with her upbringing. She was catholic and had been taught that sex was dirty. The problem she had was that whilst I was going down on her all she could think of is how disgusting I must be finding it.

This was obviously far from the truth as I absolutely love going down on a woman.

The same woman didn’t have an orgasm until she was in her 30’s God that’s really sad poor women

I certainly tried my best to change that for her "
i should bloody think so too x

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter


"I have often wondered where the misconception about black guys not going down on women comes from ? "

It's not a complete misconception. I used to work with a load of guys from Côte d'Ivoire, Nigeria and Jamaicans. The African guys were dead against going down on women, they considered it unnecessary/weak for a 'properly virile' man to 'need' to 'have' to do it to satisfy a woman, whereas the Jamaicans were less so. Or at least that's what they said round other guys, the truth may have been different. But clearly it's a cultural thing, I'm sure black guys who've grown up in more multicultural societies will be more keen on performing oral sex on women if it's the cultural norm in that place.

Also, people hate on porn a lot, and often for good reason, but I'm fairly sure that a more positive aspect is that it has opened people's minds to a far wider and more useful spectrum of sexual practises that with the prevailing culture of shame round discussing sex, they would never otherwise have known about much less consider trying.

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have often wondered where the misconception about black guys not going down on women comes from ?

It's not a complete misconception. I used to work with a load of guys from Côte d'Ivoire, Nigeria and Jamaicans. The African guys were dead against going down on women, they considered it unnecessary/weak for a 'properly virile' man to 'need' to 'have' to do it to satisfy a woman, whereas the Jamaicans were less so. Or at least that's what they said round other guys, the truth may have been different. But clearly it's a cultural thing, I'm sure black guys who've grown up in more multicultural societies will be more keen on performing oral sex on women if it's the cultural norm in that place.

Also, people hate on porn a lot, and often for good reason, but I'm fairly sure that a more positive aspect is that it has opened people's minds to a far wider and more useful spectrum of sexual practises that with the prevailing culture of shame round discussing sex, they would never otherwise have known about much less consider trying. "
Thanks what an informative answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Completely agree.

When I grew up, it was massively seen as a weak, 'beta' type act to 'have' to go down on a woman. However, I've seen that attitude entirely reverse. Now, being able to go down on a woman well is seen as a point of pride.

I'd argue, giving your woman pleasure on the whole has replaced that old way of thinking. So, there is a real sense of, "doing what it takes". I think music culture places a big part in this and the prominence of more notable female rappers removing the stigma from that alongside some male rappers too.

Historically, I believe it was linked to periods and the vagina being viewed as unsanitary to put your lips on but of course that view has evolved with the times.

I love eating pussy, I also bought a magic wand (Doxy) because I had two girls I'd been with that said they rarely, if ever orgasm without a vibrator. Owning one myself was met with some resistance amongst my male friends but the logic is simple, it's about both your pleasure and for some they love those good vibrations.

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By *roticaCouple
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question for the ladies. Considering this is a site primarily for sex I’m assuming most guys on here will eat pussy without a second thought (personally I love a woman orgasming on my tongue)

If you were going about sex In a more traditional way how common is it for the guy to go down on you and make you cum?

In my experience the girls I’ve slept with it doesn’t seem common"

I've found that it's the same both on here & in 'normal dating'. Most men on here claim to enjoy it but have only met a couple that truly seem to enjoy doing it, I love giving oral & I seem to meet men who are happy to receive rather than reciprocate even though their profile claims they love cunnilingus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex wouldnt give me oral although he liked having a bj ! I used to think there was something wrong with me but thankfully iv been proved wrong

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By *urplepussy_catWoman
over a year ago

Rochester

My BF has never given me oral in 11yrs! Hence why I’m on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A question for the ladies. Considering this is a site primarily for sex I’m assuming most guys on here will eat pussy without a second thought (personally I love a woman orgasming on my tongue)

If you were going about sex In a more traditional way how common is it for the guy to go down on you and make you cum?

In my experience the girls I’ve slept with it doesn’t seem common

I've found that it's the same both on here & in 'normal dating'. Most men on here claim to enjoy it but have only met a couple that truly seem to enjoy doing it, I love giving oral & I seem to meet men who are happy to receive rather than reciprocate even though their profile claims they love cunnilingus. "

Those men must be crazy not to have given you oral, you have a beautiful body. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love giving oral and letting my tongue spread them lips and to taste the lady’s juices it’s just comes naturally when you are have sex and most woman orgasm though oral sex too, but also love being given oral too

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

Love it, massive turn on for me, and only ever known one bloke who admitted he wouldnt go down on his missus, something to do with a fear of poo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Damn he's dedicated to not giving oral!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't even consider being intimate with someone if I knew they were not into giving oral. It should be executed with both skill and enthusiasm!

I have this expectation and get annoyed when single men message me about it with a tone of it being something they are 'prepared' to do or they consider it mere foreplay. For me it is the main course. And pudding ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have often wondered where the misconception about black guys not going down on women comes from ?

Its African guys not black guys that that stereotype is about"

I wouldn't even say just African guys but more men from hyper masculine cultures, including some Latin American and Caribbean cultures etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have often wondered where the misconception about black guys not going down on women comes from ?

Its African guys not black guys that that stereotype is about

I wouldn't even say just African guys but more men from hyper masculine cultures, including some Latin American and Caribbean cultures etc."

Entirely agree with you on this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a relationship with a woman that didn’t like cunnilingus, it wasn’t so much that she disliked the sensations it was more to do with her upbringing. She was catholic and had been taught that sex was dirty. The problem she had was that whilst I was going down on her all she could think of is how disgusting I must be finding it.

This was obviously far from the truth as I absolutely love going down on a woman.

The same woman didn’t have an orgasm until she was in her 30’s God that’s really sad poor women

I certainly tried my best to change that for her i should bloody think so too x"

To be fair I did have some success with her, she admitted that it did feel nice and made her cum but that she felt guilty that I had to endure it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a relationship with a woman that didn’t like cunnilingus, it wasn’t so much that she disliked the sensations it was more to do with her upbringing. She was catholic and had been taught that sex was dirty. The problem she had was that whilst I was going down on her all she could think of is how disgusting I must be finding it.

This was obviously far from the truth as I absolutely love going down on a woman.

The same woman didn’t have an orgasm until she was in her 30’s God that’s really sad poor women

I certainly tried my best to change that for her i should bloody think so too x

To be fair I did have some success with her, she admitted that it did feel nice and made her cum but that she felt guilty that I had to endure it! "
Religion certainly has a lot to answer for

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By *rongstantineWoman
over a year ago

hull

Isn't something I'm massively accustomed to receiving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find recieving oral so boring, I'd honestly rather do the ironing . Only one guy has ever got me close to orgasming, unfortunately he lacked in other sex areas.

That is surprising. Possibly down to the wrong buttons being pressed rather that the actual act itself.

No it's common i know many girl mates and people from fab who have expressed that they don't like there pussy being eaten."

. How can someone not like it

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

The first time I got with my ex I went down on her and she told me not to. I've always really enjoyed it as part of the full sex package. Feedback from previous partners has been great! She wouldn't even let me reciprocate if she was going down on me. So I didn't get to give any head for five years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only ever been with one guy who never did. A lot of guys don’t really seem to want to though without encouragement

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By *lertypetMan
over a year ago

north west

I can't believe that some men won't or don't know how to, it's my favourite pastime lol, I can't get enough, (women,seriously,I can't get enough) lol, sigh !

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By *eldomVanillaMan
over a year ago

London


"My BF has never given me oral in 11yrs! Hence why I’m on here "

I'm sure there's a lot on here who would break that duck for you

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By *eldomVanillaMan
over a year ago

London

It maybe just my own personal preference altering my view but some of the comments on here surprise me.

I'm surprised some seem so unwilling to give but expect to receive. Not entirely fair ... I'd never expect to receive if I have not given oral

For me sex is not complete if you don't give .. it's all part of the build up and foreplay surely .. just my own personal view

I do love it being able to see a woman enjoy herself ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love doing it, but find in vanilla life, women seem more nervous about receiving it

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By *heshireguy69Man
over a year ago

saddleworth


"I have often wondered where the misconception about black guys not going down on women comes from ?

Its African guys not black guys that that stereotype is about

I wouldn't even say just African guys but more men from hyper masculine cultures, including some Latin American and Caribbean cultures etc."

Really? Never heard that before

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By *DSM - CUCKOLD - COUPLECouple
over a year ago

manchester

You just put your lips together.. And blow!... Oh wait no that whistling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You just put your lips together.. And blow!... Oh wait no that whistling "

I would eat your pussy all day and night long x

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex


"I find recieving oral so boring, I'd honestly rather do the ironing . Only one guy has ever got me close to orgasming, unfortunately he lacked in other sex areas.

That is surprising. Possibly down to the wrong buttons being pressed rather that the actual act itself.

No it's common i know many girl mates and people from fab who have expressed that they don't like there pussy being eaten.

. How can someone not like it "

No idea, one of my freinds tried to describe it to me but i don't think she described it at all well.

Either that i am a man and not meant to know. But she in particular stated that it somehow irritating for her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's one of the most intimate aspects of play for me. Long slow movements interspace with fingers and tounge and going slower is always better than faster. Very little depth of insertion just the edge of the vagina where most of the feeling are. Orgasim can be achieved most times without your penis at all being involved. Male "

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By *iReyWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire East

Spent 10 years with a man who would only go down on me if we went to a club or had a meet. He flat out refused any other time. Still dont understand it now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably my favourite thing to do, especially with a girl sat on my face with a good handful of my hair

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I generally had selfish lovers in my youth.

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By *ir Phineas Lucius AshbyMan
over a year ago

nr Chester NW


"I generally had selfish lovers in my youth. "
like to tongue and suck your clit

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Seven days ago I commented on this that is was my favourite starting point with a lady. (Well almost - it's not a diving pool). But certainly very early in the foreplay. I've seen nothing to make me change my mind, and I've never been refused. So, I'll keep soldiering on. Anybody want to join??? Drop me a line.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire


"I generally had selfish lovers in my youth. "

You just reminded me of an ex i had when i was 17, he wanted me to suck his dick so i asked him to go down on me, he lasted about 5 seconds and so did his BJ.

Sex was just as bad, one minute wonder.

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