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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield

Starting to wonder if the likes of tinder or pof and the like would be a better option for meets than on here for a single male?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only one way to find out. Nothing ventured, nothing gained and all that. But if you come back on here and say it is better, men will jump ship and increase your competition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I was on pof for a few years it was horrendous before I even knew about this site obviously the women on there are 99% of the time looking for more than just sex..

Atleast on here everyone is pretty much looking for fun and no strings

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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Only one way to find out. Nothing ventured, nothing gained and all that. But if you come back on here and say it is better, men will jump ship and increase your competition "

Good idea i’ll Say tinders amazing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only one way to find out. Nothing ventured, nothing gained and all that. But if you come back on here and say it is better, men will jump ship and increase your competition

Good idea i’ll Say tinders amazing lol "

Smart man

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare


"Starting to wonder if the likes of tinder or pof and the like would be a better option for meets than on here for a single male? "

In my experience yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PoF is full of Bunny Boilers...

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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"No I was on pof for a few years it was horrendous before I even knew about this site obviously the women on there are 99% of the time looking for more than just sex..

Atleast on here everyone is pretty much looking for fun and no strings "

Yes I suppose so

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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers... "

This place is full of Ego’s lol

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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Starting to wonder if the likes of tinder or pof and the like would be a better option for meets than on here for a single male?

In my experience yes."

Hopefully will be for me too

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By *ensualFunHoveMan
over a year ago

Hove

I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

I get as many messages on pof for nsa fun as I do here

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket."

That’s devotion

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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Tinder obviously has more women on there so makes sense that men may find it easier there, and maybe less effort will be needed, for the average male looking to get his dick wet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hit them all and spread the odds around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I was on pof for a few years it was horrendous before I even knew about this site obviously the women on there are 99% of the time looking for more than just sex..

Atleast on here everyone is pretty much looking for fun and no strings "

Ummmm isn’t pof supposed to be a dating site and therefore women will want more than just sex? Each site has their own pluses and minuses....

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By *ensualFunHoveMan
over a year ago

Hove


"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket.

That’s devotion "

Not really.. it doesn't take a lot if effort lol

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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket."

Good drills

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Nice pics OP

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton


"Starting to wonder if the likes of tinder or pof and the like would be a better option for meets than on here for a single male? "
. I have had no luck with tinder but POF yes also Okcupid at the moment I swapped WhatsApp number we a lady who is keen on cuckholding her husband.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket."

Ah but what is the quality of the women??!!

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket."

Remind me to avoid you

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers... "

Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x

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By *ensualFunHoveMan
over a year ago

Hove


"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket.

Ah but what is the quality of the women??!! "

The quality varies as it does in life, it's the mind that turns me on more than the body in most cases. :D x

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By *ensualFunHoveMan
over a year ago

Hove


"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket.

Remind me to avoid you "

Not every woman on a dating app is looking for something serious.. believe it or not some are looking for fun, the same as they are on here.

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill


"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket.

Remind me to avoid you "

Not really fair is it? It’s no different from him talking to say 30 women on here trying to arrange a meet, only he is doing so over different platforms

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By *ensualFunHoveMan
over a year ago

Hove


"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket.

Remind me to avoid you

Not really fair is it? It’s no different from him talking to say 30 women on here trying to arrange a meet, only he is doing so over different platforms"

Exactly, and just because I could, doesn't mean I do. Which is the same for every woman on Fab :D x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket."

How do you split them up?

Mrs

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket.

Remind me to avoid you

Not really fair is it? It’s no different from him talking to say 30 women on here trying to arrange a meet, only he is doing so over different platforms"

Wemon on here are looking for nsa dating sites I believe should be different x

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By *ensualFunHoveMan
over a year ago

Hove


"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket.

How do you split them up?

Mrs"

Sometimes I put them together xx

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare


"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket.

Remind me to avoid you

Not really fair is it? It’s no different from him talking to say 30 women on here trying to arrange a meet, only he is doing so over different platforms

Wemon on here are looking for nsa dating sites I believe should be different x "

Women on standard dating sites look for a range of things, the same as the men. Some want something serious, some want something casual. As long as people are honest about their intentions, there's not really a problem what sites you use to meet people.

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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Nice pics OP "

Thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...the women on there are 99% of the time looking for more than just sex.."

On a dating site?

How very dare they!

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Nice pics OP "

Yes, they are rather lovely. I don't blame him for uploading them onto lots of online porn websites too. I would be proud of them as well

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Nice pics OP

Yes, they are rather lovely. I don't blame him for uploading them onto lots of online porn websites too. I would be proud of them as well "

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Starting to wonder if the likes of tinder or pof and the like would be a better option for meets than on here for a single male? "

Nope, they are already littered with guys from here.

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London


"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket.

Remind me to avoid you

Not really fair is it? It’s no different from him talking to say 30 women on here trying to arrange a meet, only he is doing so over different platforms

Wemon on here are looking for nsa dating sites I believe should be different x

Women on standard dating sites look for a range of things, the same as the men. Some want something serious, some want something casual. As long as people are honest about their intentions, there's not really a problem what sites you use to meet people."

Ah but that's the thing, many men pretend to want a relationship to get a shag. Heard it all before

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare


"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket.

Remind me to avoid you

Not really fair is it? It’s no different from him talking to say 30 women on here trying to arrange a meet, only he is doing so over different platforms

Wemon on here are looking for nsa dating sites I believe should be different x

Women on standard dating sites look for a range of things, the same as the men. Some want something serious, some want something casual. As long as people are honest about their intentions, there's not really a problem what sites you use to meet people.

Ah but that's the thing, many men pretend to want a relationship to get a shag. Heard it all before "

Yeah, and there's a lot of men on here pretending to be a couple, just to get a shag, but neither of those facts are relevant to whether or not the OP could, or should use dating sites to find hook ups.

I've never misled anyone on dating sites, and the OP shouldn't mislead anyone either.

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By *herealdeal90Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket.

Remind me to avoid you

Not really fair is it? It’s no different from him talking to say 30 women on here trying to arrange a meet, only he is doing so over different platforms

Wemon on here are looking for nsa dating sites I believe should be different x

Women on standard dating sites look for a range of things, the same as the men. Some want something serious, some want something casual. As long as people are honest about their intentions, there's not really a problem what sites you use to meet people.

Ah but that's the thing, many men pretend to want a relationship to get a shag. Heard it all before

Yeah, and there's a lot of men on here pretending to be a couple, just to get a shag, but neither of those facts are relevant to whether or not the OP could, or should use dating sites to find hook ups.

I've never misled anyone on dating sites, and the OP shouldn't mislead anyone either."

i haven't met anyone off fab but met a few of tinder. But obviously tinder they are there to date & have a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 different apps? I thought I was bad with 5 (plus Fab).

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I haven't met anyone from dating sites yet lol. On on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love your pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers...

Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x "

Well I bet you're obviously a scorned woman. You're very judgmental and sexist! It's a bad trait....

Funnily it seems inundated with women who change their men like I change my socks and don't seem to have a normal relationship, or looking for casual!

Did your Ex dump you for someone else ?

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By *ood girl2010Couple
over a year ago

crewe

what are the 8 sites

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By *ensualFunHoveMan
over a year ago

Hove


"what are the 8 sites"

Tinder, Bumble, Happn, POF, Ok Cupid, Coffee and Bagle, Hinge, Feeld.. and my favourite of course... Fab

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By *isa2018Couple
over a year ago

East Northamptonshire

If you are looking for single women who probably want a proper relationship then it probably is. If you're looking for couples then I don't think you'll find many there, so it depends what you are looking for as a single man.

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By *racy_JacksWoman
over a year ago

Derby

In the opinion of the majority of guys that I have spoken to about this, yes, for sure. Of course the gender balance on the mainstream dating apps is much more favourable for you.

I see that you are looking for a regular fwb and in my experience that is much easier to find on Tinder or POF rather than here

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers...

Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x

Well I bet you're obviously a scorned woman. You're very judgmental and sexist! It's a bad trait....

Funnily it seems inundated with women who change their men like I change my socks and don't seem to have a normal relationship, or looking for casual!

Did your Ex dump you for someone else ? "

It takes approx 2.5 messages on pof before a guy wants to show his cock off

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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers...

Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x

Well I bet you're obviously a scorned woman. You're very judgmental and sexist! It's a bad trait....

Funnily it seems inundated with women who change their men like I change my socks and don't seem to have a normal relationship, or looking for casual!

Did your Ex dump you for someone else ?

It takes approx 2.5 messages on pof before a guy wants to show his cock off "

Plenty of cocks to see on here too lol

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers...

Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x

Well I bet you're obviously a scorned woman. You're very judgmental and sexist! It's a bad trait....

Funnily it seems inundated with women who change their men like I change my socks and don't seem to have a normal relationship, or looking for casual!

Did your Ex dump you for someone else ? "

Is it not equally sexist to assume that she's only speaking from a "woman scorned" perspective?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers...

Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x

Well I bet you're obviously a scorned woman. You're very judgmental and sexist! It's a bad trait....

Funnily it seems inundated with women who change their men like I change my socks and don't seem to have a normal relationship, or looking for casual!

Did your Ex dump you for someone else ?

Is it not equally sexist to assume that she's only speaking from a "woman scorned" perspective?"

Aren't you the politically correct one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers...

Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x

Well I bet you're obviously a scorned woman. You're very judgmental and sexist! It's a bad trait....

Funnily it seems inundated with women who change their men like I change my socks and don't seem to have a normal relationship, or looking for casual!

Did your Ex dump you for someone else ?

It takes approx 2.5 messages on pof before a guy wants to show his cock off "

You're not shy yourself are you

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By *onygirlieWoman
over a year ago

Leicestershire


"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers...

Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x "

Totally my experience with men on POF. Well the ones who have arranged dates with, quite a lot just want to talk dirty and exchange pics

I've seen plenty of the same guys on Fab saying they want NSS but their POF profile says relationship.

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By *enelope pitstop76Woman
over a year ago

chesire


"Starting to wonder if the likes of tinder or pof and the like would be a better option for meets than on here for a single male? "

Pof and the like are'supposed' to be for people wanting to date and find relationships. Half of the guys there just want to fuck so I would say a) your blurring the lines of what your after for the genuine love hunters and B) you'll have more competition than here with both fuckers and finders on there xx

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By *enelope pitstop76Woman
over a year ago

chesire


"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers...

Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x

Well I bet you're obviously a scorned woman. You're very judgmental and sexist! It's a bad trait....

Funnily it seems inundated with women who change their men like I change my socks and don't seem to have a normal relationship, or looking for casual!

Did your Ex dump you for someone else ?

It takes approx 2.5 messages on pof before a guy wants to show his cock off

You're not shy yourself are you "

And a nano second to see someone for the cock they are on here

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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers...

Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x

Totally my experience with men on POF. Well the ones who have arranged dates with, quite a lot just want to talk dirty and exchange pics

I've seen plenty of the same guys on Fab saying they want NSS but their POF profile says relationship. "

True

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By *eo_72 OP   Man
over a year ago

Mansfield


"Starting to wonder if the likes of tinder or pof and the like would be a better option for meets than on here for a single male?

Pof and the like are'supposed' to be for people wanting to date and find relationships. Half of the guys there just want to fuck so I would say a) your blurring the lines of what your after for the genuine love hunters and B) you'll have more competition than here with both fuckers and finders on there xx

You have a point x

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers...

Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x

Well I bet you're obviously a scorned woman. You're very judgmental and sexist! It's a bad trait....

Funnily it seems inundated with women who change their men like I change my socks and don't seem to have a normal relationship, or looking for casual!

Did your Ex dump you for someone else ? "

LMAO sexist??? And a woman scorned get over yourself I'm just a woman who can suss out the idiots x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a male friend on POF and on here and he says he gets more sex on POF.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a male friend on POF and on here and he says he gets more sex on POF."

This would be true, Badoo is good. But my ISP is banned on PoF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what are the 8 sites

Tinder, Bumble, Happn, POF, Ok Cupid, Coffee and Bagle, Hinge, Feeld.. and my favourite of course... Fab "

but pof is free am sure the rest could be a nightmare

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By *aughtybutniceBBWWoman
over a year ago

The County of Northamptonshire

In my experience they are no different to here.

Apart from they hide behind wanting to date

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By *un and Frolics 1Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

The answer is in thetitle"fabbswingers" that is partner or wife swapping. So you would be better off

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By *un and Frolics 1Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

If sex is what you are after as a single then you are definately on the wrong site. Read the couples profiles.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham


"I have a male friend on POF and on here and he says he gets more sex on POF.

This would be true, Badoo is good. But my ISP is banned on PoF "

Really ? How surprising!!

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife

Badoo is s dating site I am on its good for meets and benefits etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket.

Remind me to avoid you "

Private note on profile so you remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pof: Men using love to find sex.

Fab: Women using sex to find love.

Tinder: Hook-up site disguised as a dating site.

Don't get angry with me, just my opinion, these aren't facts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If sex is what you are after as a single then you are definately on the wrong site. Read the couples profiles."

So how come so many couples are after just a single female? Yours even said you would occasionally look for a single male and says couples or female as your preference. This site is for all sorts. It’s for each of us to decide what we do and don’t want from it. It’s not just for couples even if in the title, it was originally designed to be and if the site was that concerned about it only being for couples, then us singles wouldn’t be allowed to sign up. But as with everything, things change to reflect demand and there is a big demand for singles on here.

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By *ratifying your lustMan
over a year ago

Ramsgate

No point getting worked up over what one site is or isn't!

I always find it grounding to use a real life analogy... swingers clubs exist for essentially mutual hookups, yet I'm sure some solid friendships and even relationships could come from there. On the flip side, a pub/nightclub is a social gathering venue, yet you'll often get people frequenting for hookups and one night stands.

There will always be a mix of people anywhere in life, with their own agendas and goals.

As someone else pointed out... it's not the fact that these goals might missalign with a site ethos that is the problem, it's any dishonesty and deception in the profile to shield this fact from potential suitors.

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

What ever happened to just good old meeting a girl.

Just get chatting and be yourself on the dog walk/train commute/in the supermarket

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Hit them all and spread the odds around "

Good idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably. Might make fab a better place too.

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By *irtySekretsCouple
over a year ago

Filthy Desires Upon Trent

Actually met Ess on Tinder. We soon found out we had both been Swinging previously. Both still wanted to. The rest is History.

So Now we are totally in Love. Getting Married. And we can fuck others. Perfik xx

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots


"What ever happened to just good old meeting a girl.

Just get chatting and be yourself on the dog walk/train commute/in the supermarket "

Tell me about it lets go back to the good old days

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers...

Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x

Totally my experience with men on POF. Well the ones who have arranged dates with, quite a lot just want to talk dirty and exchange pics

I've seen plenty of the same guys on Fab saying they want NSS but their POF profile says relationship. "

Is it wrong to be looking for two things at once?

When/if I’m lucky to find the person I’m looking for, I shall reassess what I’m doing and delete or include the apps depending on our longer term outlook.

Till then, I’m looking for NSA, so it’s horses for courses, surely? I’m using one app for one thing and another for the other....still unsuccessful on them all though haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I go on a dating app, I will expect to be dated. The man would be very disappointed I didn't give it up on the first date.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers...

Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x

Totally my experience with men on POF. Well the ones who have arranged dates with, quite a lot just want to talk dirty and exchange pics

I've seen plenty of the same guys on Fab saying they want NSS but their POF profile says relationship.

Is it wrong to be looking for two things at once?

When/if I’m lucky to find the person I’m looking for, I shall reassess what I’m doing and delete or include the apps depending on our longer term outlook.

Till then, I’m looking for NSA, so it’s horses for courses, surely? I’m using one app for one thing and another for the other....still unsuccessful on them all though haha"

No it's not wrong. I'm 46 by the way not 51...honest.

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By *ral ExtraordinaireMan
over a year ago

Kent

BUMBLE app is tge way forward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a few women from POF last year. All abit crazy lol

Never tried tinder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tinder has been a revalidation for me... I've meet a few lovely women... Some for a date... Some for sex... And there is never any beef or attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What ever happened to just good old meeting a girl.

Just get chatting and be yourself on the dog walk/train commute/in the supermarket "

If I had any ability at that, I wouldn't be on so many dating apps, or go speed dating so often

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

These"I can't get dates" posts really tickle me.

Especially when most of them imply that "I can't be arsed putting any effort in and now i don't know what I'm doing wrong"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket."

This is what I do ( the female) so I can have a different man every night of the week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was some guy last week on here complaining of no action after being on here for a week It makes you wonder what people’s expectations are ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was some guy last week on here complaining of no action after being on here for a week It makes you wonder what people’s expectations are ?"

Sex. Straight away. I’ve seen a status from a guy “ just got here, want a meet now, need to be verified ASAP”

He’s been here 2 hrs.

Now, these guys must of heard that the girls here are “well up for it” “ sex mad crazy” “easy, desperate “?

We’ll continuously see and hear the new guys moaning. because well, the women here are non of the above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There was some guy last week on here complaining of no action after being on here for a week It makes you wonder what people’s expectations are ?

Sex. Straight away. I’ve seen a status from a guy “ just got here, want a meet now, need to be verified ASAP”

He’s been here 2 hrs.

Now, these guys must of heard that the girls here are “well up for it” “ sex mad crazy” “easy, desperate “?

We’ll continuously see and hear the new guys moaning. because well, the women here are non of the above.

"

Ffs then they deserve everything they get or don’t as the case may be

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers...

Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x

Totally my experience with men on POF. Well the ones who have arranged dates with, quite a lot just want to talk dirty and exchange pics

I've seen plenty of the same guys on Fab saying they want NSS but their POF profile says relationship.

Is it wrong to be looking for two things at once?

When/if I’m lucky to find the person I’m looking for, I shall reassess what I’m doing and delete or include the apps depending on our longer term outlook.

Till then, I’m looking for NSA, so it’s horses for courses, surely? I’m using one app for one thing and another for the other....still unsuccessful on them all though haha

No it's not wrong. I'm 46 by the way not 51...honest."

Age (cliché alert!) is just a number, would never have said 46 even but you look great on it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers...

This place is full of Ego’s lol "

Spot on 100%!!!!!

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers...

Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x

Totally my experience with men on POF. Well the ones who have arranged dates with, quite a lot just want to talk dirty and exchange pics

I've seen plenty of the same guys on Fab saying they want NSS but their POF profile says relationship.

Is it wrong to be looking for two things at once?

When/if I’m lucky to find the person I’m looking for, I shall reassess what I’m doing and delete or include the apps depending on our longer term outlook.

Till then, I’m looking for NSA, so it’s horses for courses, surely? I’m using one app for one thing and another for the other....still unsuccessful on them all though haha

No it's not wrong. I'm 46 by the way not 51...honest.

Age (cliché alert!) is just a number, would never have said 46 even but you look great on it! "

You noticed my flirting and here's me thinking I'd lost the ability.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"Starting to wonder if the likes of tinder or pof and the like would be a better option for meets than on here for a single male? "

The site was made for people living a vanilla Alternative life not really for dating .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Covering all bases op! I didn’t know there was 8 dating apps! Haha! I haven’t got the time for all that

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers...

Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x

Totally my experience with men on POF. Well the ones who have arranged dates with, quite a lot just want to talk dirty and exchange pics

I've seen plenty of the same guys on Fab saying they want NSS but their POF profile says relationship.

Is it wrong to be looking for two things at once?

When/if I’m lucky to find the person I’m looking for, I shall reassess what I’m doing and delete or include the apps depending on our longer term outlook.

Till then, I’m looking for NSA, so it’s horses for courses, surely? I’m using one app for one thing and another for the other....still unsuccessful on them all though haha

No it's not wrong. I'm 46 by the way not 51...honest.

Age (cliché alert!) is just a number, would never have said 46 even but you look great on it!

You noticed my flirting and here's me thinking I'd lost the ability."

I notice and am rather impressed, with a lot, not just your flirting ability!

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