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"Only one way to find out. Nothing ventured, nothing gained and all that. But if you come back on here and say it is better, men will jump ship and increase your competition " Good idea i’ll Say tinders amazing lol | |||
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"Only one way to find out. Nothing ventured, nothing gained and all that. But if you come back on here and say it is better, men will jump ship and increase your competition Good idea i’ll Say tinders amazing lol " Smart man | |||
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"Starting to wonder if the likes of tinder or pof and the like would be a better option for meets than on here for a single male? " In my experience yes. | |||
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"No I was on pof for a few years it was horrendous before I even knew about this site obviously the women on there are 99% of the time looking for more than just sex.. Atleast on here everyone is pretty much looking for fun and no strings " Yes I suppose so | |||
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"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers... " This place is full of Ego’s lol | |||
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"Starting to wonder if the likes of tinder or pof and the like would be a better option for meets than on here for a single male? In my experience yes." Hopefully will be for me too | |||
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"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket." That’s devotion | |||
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"No I was on pof for a few years it was horrendous before I even knew about this site obviously the women on there are 99% of the time looking for more than just sex.. Atleast on here everyone is pretty much looking for fun and no strings " Ummmm isn’t pof supposed to be a dating site and therefore women will want more than just sex? Each site has their own pluses and minuses.... | |||
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"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket. That’s devotion " Not really.. it doesn't take a lot if effort lol | |||
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"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket." Good drills | |||
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"Starting to wonder if the likes of tinder or pof and the like would be a better option for meets than on here for a single male? " . I have had no luck with tinder but POF yes also Okcupid at the moment I swapped WhatsApp number we a lady who is keen on cuckholding her husband. | |||
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"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket." Ah but what is the quality of the women??!! | |||
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"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket." Remind me to avoid you | |||
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"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers... " Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x | |||
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"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket. Ah but what is the quality of the women??!! " The quality varies as it does in life, it's the mind that turns me on more than the body in most cases. :D x | |||
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"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket. Remind me to avoid you " Not every woman on a dating app is looking for something serious.. believe it or not some are looking for fun, the same as they are on here. | |||
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"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket. Remind me to avoid you " Not really fair is it? It’s no different from him talking to say 30 women on here trying to arrange a meet, only he is doing so over different platforms | |||
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"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket. Remind me to avoid you Not really fair is it? It’s no different from him talking to say 30 women on here trying to arrange a meet, only he is doing so over different platforms" Exactly, and just because I could, doesn't mean I do. Which is the same for every woman on Fab :D x | |||
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"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket." How do you split them up? Mrs | |||
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"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket. Remind me to avoid you Not really fair is it? It’s no different from him talking to say 30 women on here trying to arrange a meet, only he is doing so over different platforms" Wemon on here are looking for nsa dating sites I believe should be different x | |||
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"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket. How do you split them up? Mrs" Sometimes I put them together xx | |||
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"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket. Remind me to avoid you Not really fair is it? It’s no different from him talking to say 30 women on here trying to arrange a meet, only he is doing so over different platforms Wemon on here are looking for nsa dating sites I believe should be different x " Women on standard dating sites look for a range of things, the same as the men. Some want something serious, some want something casual. As long as people are honest about their intentions, there's not really a problem what sites you use to meet people. | |||
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"Nice pics OP " Thanks x | |||
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"...the women on there are 99% of the time looking for more than just sex.." On a dating site? How very dare they! | |||
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"Nice pics OP " Yes, they are rather lovely. I don't blame him for uploading them onto lots of online porn websites too. I would be proud of them as well | |||
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"Nice pics OP Yes, they are rather lovely. I don't blame him for uploading them onto lots of online porn websites too. I would be proud of them as well " | |||
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"Starting to wonder if the likes of tinder or pof and the like would be a better option for meets than on here for a single male? " Nope, they are already littered with guys from here. | |||
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"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket. Remind me to avoid you Not really fair is it? It’s no different from him talking to say 30 women on here trying to arrange a meet, only he is doing so over different platforms Wemon on here are looking for nsa dating sites I believe should be different x Women on standard dating sites look for a range of things, the same as the men. Some want something serious, some want something casual. As long as people are honest about their intentions, there's not really a problem what sites you use to meet people." Ah but that's the thing, many men pretend to want a relationship to get a shag. Heard it all before | |||
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"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket. Remind me to avoid you Not really fair is it? It’s no different from him talking to say 30 women on here trying to arrange a meet, only he is doing so over different platforms Wemon on here are looking for nsa dating sites I believe should be different x Women on standard dating sites look for a range of things, the same as the men. Some want something serious, some want something casual. As long as people are honest about their intentions, there's not really a problem what sites you use to meet people. Ah but that's the thing, many men pretend to want a relationship to get a shag. Heard it all before " Yeah, and there's a lot of men on here pretending to be a couple, just to get a shag, but neither of those facts are relevant to whether or not the OP could, or should use dating sites to find hook ups. I've never misled anyone on dating sites, and the OP shouldn't mislead anyone either. | |||
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"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket. Remind me to avoid you Not really fair is it? It’s no different from him talking to say 30 women on here trying to arrange a meet, only he is doing so over different platforms Wemon on here are looking for nsa dating sites I believe should be different x Women on standard dating sites look for a range of things, the same as the men. Some want something serious, some want something casual. As long as people are honest about their intentions, there's not really a problem what sites you use to meet people. Ah but that's the thing, many men pretend to want a relationship to get a shag. Heard it all before Yeah, and there's a lot of men on here pretending to be a couple, just to get a shag, but neither of those facts are relevant to whether or not the OP could, or should use dating sites to find hook ups. I've never misled anyone on dating sites, and the OP shouldn't mislead anyone either." i haven't met anyone off fab but met a few of tinder. But obviously tinder they are there to date & have a laugh | |||
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"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers... Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x " Well I bet you're obviously a scorned woman. You're very judgmental and sexist! It's a bad trait.... Funnily it seems inundated with women who change their men like I change my socks and don't seem to have a normal relationship, or looking for casual! Did your Ex dump you for someone else ? | |||
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"what are the 8 sites" Tinder, Bumble, Happn, POF, Ok Cupid, Coffee and Bagle, Hinge, Feeld.. and my favourite of course... Fab | |||
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"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers... Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x Well I bet you're obviously a scorned woman. You're very judgmental and sexist! It's a bad trait.... Funnily it seems inundated with women who change their men like I change my socks and don't seem to have a normal relationship, or looking for casual! Did your Ex dump you for someone else ? " It takes approx 2.5 messages on pof before a guy wants to show his cock off | |||
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"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers... Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x Well I bet you're obviously a scorned woman. You're very judgmental and sexist! It's a bad trait.... Funnily it seems inundated with women who change their men like I change my socks and don't seem to have a normal relationship, or looking for casual! Did your Ex dump you for someone else ? It takes approx 2.5 messages on pof before a guy wants to show his cock off " Plenty of cocks to see on here too lol | |||
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"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers... Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x Well I bet you're obviously a scorned woman. You're very judgmental and sexist! It's a bad trait.... Funnily it seems inundated with women who change their men like I change my socks and don't seem to have a normal relationship, or looking for casual! Did your Ex dump you for someone else ? " Is it not equally sexist to assume that she's only speaking from a "woman scorned" perspective? | |||
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"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers... Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x Well I bet you're obviously a scorned woman. You're very judgmental and sexist! It's a bad trait.... Funnily it seems inundated with women who change their men like I change my socks and don't seem to have a normal relationship, or looking for casual! Did your Ex dump you for someone else ? Is it not equally sexist to assume that she's only speaking from a "woman scorned" perspective?" Aren't you the politically correct one | |||
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"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers... Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x Well I bet you're obviously a scorned woman. You're very judgmental and sexist! It's a bad trait.... Funnily it seems inundated with women who change their men like I change my socks and don't seem to have a normal relationship, or looking for casual! Did your Ex dump you for someone else ? It takes approx 2.5 messages on pof before a guy wants to show his cock off " You're not shy yourself are you | |||
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"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers... Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x " Totally my experience with men on POF. Well the ones who have arranged dates with, quite a lot just want to talk dirty and exchange pics I've seen plenty of the same guys on Fab saying they want NSS but their POF profile says relationship. | |||
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"Starting to wonder if the likes of tinder or pof and the like would be a better option for meets than on here for a single male? " Pof and the like are'supposed' to be for people wanting to date and find relationships. Half of the guys there just want to fuck so I would say a) your blurring the lines of what your after for the genuine love hunters and B) you'll have more competition than here with both fuckers and finders on there xx | |||
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"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers... Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x Well I bet you're obviously a scorned woman. You're very judgmental and sexist! It's a bad trait.... Funnily it seems inundated with women who change their men like I change my socks and don't seem to have a normal relationship, or looking for casual! Did your Ex dump you for someone else ? It takes approx 2.5 messages on pof before a guy wants to show his cock off You're not shy yourself are you " And a nano second to see someone for the cock they are on here | |||
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"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers... Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x Totally my experience with men on POF. Well the ones who have arranged dates with, quite a lot just want to talk dirty and exchange pics I've seen plenty of the same guys on Fab saying they want NSS but their POF profile says relationship. " True | |||
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"Starting to wonder if the likes of tinder or pof and the like would be a better option for meets than on here for a single male? Pof and the like are'supposed' to be for people wanting to date and find relationships. Half of the guys there just want to fuck so I would say a) your blurring the lines of what your after for the genuine love hunters and B) you'll have more competition than here with both fuckers and finders on there xx You have a point x " | |||
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"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers... Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x Well I bet you're obviously a scorned woman. You're very judgmental and sexist! It's a bad trait.... Funnily it seems inundated with women who change their men like I change my socks and don't seem to have a normal relationship, or looking for casual! Did your Ex dump you for someone else ? " LMAO sexist??? And a woman scorned get over yourself I'm just a woman who can suss out the idiots x | |||
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"I have a male friend on POF and on here and he says he gets more sex on POF." This would be true, Badoo is good. But my ISP is banned on PoF | |||
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"what are the 8 sites Tinder, Bumble, Happn, POF, Ok Cupid, Coffee and Bagle, Hinge, Feeld.. and my favourite of course... Fab " but pof is free am sure the rest could be a nightmare | |||
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"I have a male friend on POF and on here and he says he gets more sex on POF. This would be true, Badoo is good. But my ISP is banned on PoF " Really ? How surprising!! | |||
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"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket. Remind me to avoid you " Private note on profile so you remember | |||
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"If sex is what you are after as a single then you are definately on the wrong site. Read the couples profiles." So how come so many couples are after just a single female? Yours even said you would occasionally look for a single male and says couples or female as your preference. This site is for all sorts. It’s for each of us to decide what we do and don’t want from it. It’s not just for couples even if in the title, it was originally designed to be and if the site was that concerned about it only being for couples, then us singles wouldn’t be allowed to sign up. But as with everything, things change to reflect demand and there is a big demand for singles on here. | |||
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"Hit them all and spread the odds around " Good idea. | |||
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"What ever happened to just good old meeting a girl. Just get chatting and be yourself on the dog walk/train commute/in the supermarket " Tell me about it lets go back to the good old days | |||
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"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers... Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x Totally my experience with men on POF. Well the ones who have arranged dates with, quite a lot just want to talk dirty and exchange pics I've seen plenty of the same guys on Fab saying they want NSS but their POF profile says relationship. " Is it wrong to be looking for two things at once? When/if I’m lucky to find the person I’m looking for, I shall reassess what I’m doing and delete or include the apps depending on our longer term outlook. Till then, I’m looking for NSA, so it’s horses for courses, surely? I’m using one app for one thing and another for the other....still unsuccessful on them all though haha | |||
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"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers... Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x Totally my experience with men on POF. Well the ones who have arranged dates with, quite a lot just want to talk dirty and exchange pics I've seen plenty of the same guys on Fab saying they want NSS but their POF profile says relationship. Is it wrong to be looking for two things at once? When/if I’m lucky to find the person I’m looking for, I shall reassess what I’m doing and delete or include the apps depending on our longer term outlook. Till then, I’m looking for NSA, so it’s horses for courses, surely? I’m using one app for one thing and another for the other....still unsuccessful on them all though haha" No it's not wrong. I'm 46 by the way not 51...honest. | |||
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"What ever happened to just good old meeting a girl. Just get chatting and be yourself on the dog walk/train commute/in the supermarket " If I had any ability at that, I wouldn't be on so many dating apps, or go speed dating so often | |||
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"I have 8 dating apps running as well as fab.. if you play it right you can have a different girl every night of the week :D the moral of the story is... don't put all your eggs in one basket." This is what I do ( the female) so I can have a different man every night of the week. | |||
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"There was some guy last week on here complaining of no action after being on here for a week It makes you wonder what people’s expectations are ?" Sex. Straight away. I’ve seen a status from a guy “ just got here, want a meet now, need to be verified ASAP” He’s been here 2 hrs. Now, these guys must of heard that the girls here are “well up for it” “ sex mad crazy” “easy, desperate “? We’ll continuously see and hear the new guys moaning. because well, the women here are non of the above. | |||
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"There was some guy last week on here complaining of no action after being on here for a week It makes you wonder what people’s expectations are ? Sex. Straight away. I’ve seen a status from a guy “ just got here, want a meet now, need to be verified ASAP” He’s been here 2 hrs. Now, these guys must of heard that the girls here are “well up for it” “ sex mad crazy” “easy, desperate “? We’ll continuously see and hear the new guys moaning. because well, the women here are non of the above. " Ffs then they deserve everything they get or don’t as the case may be | |||
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"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers... Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x Totally my experience with men on POF. Well the ones who have arranged dates with, quite a lot just want to talk dirty and exchange pics I've seen plenty of the same guys on Fab saying they want NSS but their POF profile says relationship. Is it wrong to be looking for two things at once? When/if I’m lucky to find the person I’m looking for, I shall reassess what I’m doing and delete or include the apps depending on our longer term outlook. Till then, I’m looking for NSA, so it’s horses for courses, surely? I’m using one app for one thing and another for the other....still unsuccessful on them all though haha No it's not wrong. I'm 46 by the way not 51...honest." Age (cliché alert!) is just a number, would never have said 46 even but you look great on it! | |||
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"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers... This place is full of Ego’s lol " Spot on 100%!!!!! | |||
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"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers... Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x Totally my experience with men on POF. Well the ones who have arranged dates with, quite a lot just want to talk dirty and exchange pics I've seen plenty of the same guys on Fab saying they want NSS but their POF profile says relationship. Is it wrong to be looking for two things at once? When/if I’m lucky to find the person I’m looking for, I shall reassess what I’m doing and delete or include the apps depending on our longer term outlook. Till then, I’m looking for NSA, so it’s horses for courses, surely? I’m using one app for one thing and another for the other....still unsuccessful on them all though haha No it's not wrong. I'm 46 by the way not 51...honest. Age (cliché alert!) is just a number, would never have said 46 even but you look great on it! " You noticed my flirting and here's me thinking I'd lost the ability. | |||
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"Starting to wonder if the likes of tinder or pof and the like would be a better option for meets than on here for a single male? " The site was made for people living a vanilla Alternative life not really for dating . | |||
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"PoF is full of Bunny Boilers... Not surprising if they on there looking for a relationship and only finding lying guys after a shag x Totally my experience with men on POF. Well the ones who have arranged dates with, quite a lot just want to talk dirty and exchange pics I've seen plenty of the same guys on Fab saying they want NSS but their POF profile says relationship. Is it wrong to be looking for two things at once? When/if I’m lucky to find the person I’m looking for, I shall reassess what I’m doing and delete or include the apps depending on our longer term outlook. Till then, I’m looking for NSA, so it’s horses for courses, surely? I’m using one app for one thing and another for the other....still unsuccessful on them all though haha No it's not wrong. I'm 46 by the way not 51...honest. Age (cliché alert!) is just a number, would never have said 46 even but you look great on it! You noticed my flirting and here's me thinking I'd lost the ability." I notice and am rather impressed, with a lot, not just your flirting ability! | |||
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