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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I want to play with other women while our men watch, but only want to soft swap. would others be put off as i dont want a full swap ?

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We only soft swap but are both straight.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We'd be up for that - shame we're so far away

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By *ola cubesMan
over a year ago

coatbridge

Does soft swap between woman mean no penetration im kinda confused here

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"Does soft swap between woman mean no penetration im kinda confused here"

As with all things consensual, the rules are negotiable but usually it either means no penetration or no touching people other than your partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're happy to soft swap but I and many other women are massively put off by the "men watching " scenario...the performing seal aspect just isn't appealing

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

If you are only touching your own partner then it is not swap at all.

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By *cedGemsWoman
over a year ago

South West Wales ;-)

"I want to play with other women while our men watch, but only want to soft swap. would others be put off as i dont want a full swap ?"

Personally, I would. Once, and once only have we been in that situation. Did nothing for either of us as it was rather 'forced' play on her behalf. Not into 'performing' and made our polite exit soon after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single lady, yes it would put me off.

As a couple it would depend on the dynamics.

On holiday in October we met a couple who were 'no kissing others and soft swap' but we really clicked. They ended up breaking their kissing rule, which was AWESOME as that's a deal breaker for us. We then had the hardest soft swap ever. Lol. She didn't mind using a strap on and implements etc with me and my OH.

So it all depends on everyone really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The joy of places such as this means there is something for everyone. It may not be on your doorstep but patience will find your perfect match.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're happy to soft swap but I and many other women are massively put off by the "men watching " scenario...the performing seal aspect just isn't appealing"

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I want to play with other women while our men watch, but only want to soft swap. would others be put off as i dont want a full swap ?"

I think this is probably one of the easiest scenarios to achieve on fab. There are lots of couples with bi/cu females who are looking for exactly this kind of thing.

You should try being a straight couple looking to meet other straight couples where there will be no bi girl play at all lol

. Amount of people who ask ‘well you must at least kiss girls etc’. As soon as they get the reply ‘no we don’t’ We usually get an instant block

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By *i de BiCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

You have to start playing within your boundaries and get a little more adventurous as time goes on .

We started as Bi fem soft swap , then full swap , then single girls / guys , now we both play as open bisexuals ....and wow

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