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By *ildfire1212 OP   Man
over a year ago

fife

I’m going through a difficult time in my life and trying to remain positive and as upbeat as I can and if you met me on Tesco’s you would think nice charming young man ...... but I’m shutting myself away on here or Facebook badoo anything really and although I’m chatting about stuff and what I’m dealing with as an evening goes on o see things posted and it really gets my back up iether self loving twats look at me and heap the praise or just vulgar shit posted by kids you’d think

I don’t post on Facebook for this reason of poor me poor me , but here I’m no one not in a cleeek of twats that laugh if someone posts the picture of a fart o

I honestly don’t know what the fuck Is going on with me and definitely not wanting sympathy and didn’t post on a main part of here simply cause it has advice .. so if anyone has had or knows of someone who has similar. Not sleeping angry and anxious bout specific people and general anger and in ways I can see what a twat I’m just glad that a guy who cut me off and started making gestures had the sense to just drive away ( definitely not my behaviour)

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Depression can manifest as anger, it does with my mum.

Go and see your gp.

Hope you get some resolution.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like you need to see your gp and get some pills to calm you a bit and then talk things out with a close friend.

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By *ildfire1212 OP   Man
over a year ago

fife

It appears to be quite simple to put symptoms into a we box and answer the questions and wohooo diagnosis completely done and I am actually pretty confident that at least 90% of this is acurate and I suffered tho most horrible loss and experience a husband can go through at an early age

And moving on with life love and family o can hand on heart not wish my experience of the horrendous experience I had to endure as a step dad and the verbal abuse growing into a powerful and terrifying experience but knowing of it coming and trying to prepare and no o can’t raise my hands at all but have to take it ....

And hers where things take a dramatic twist after ex had begged not to just be put out of home with her daughter when it comes down to blood v other they both left not just me but a family torn apart

PTSD it seems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It appears to be quite simple to put symptoms into a we box and answer the questions and wohooo diagnosis completely done and I am actually pretty confident that at least 90% of this is acurate and I suffered tho most horrible loss and experience a husband can go through at an early age

And moving on with life love and family o can hand on heart not wish my experience of the horrendous experience I had to endure as a step dad and the verbal abuse growing into a powerful and terrifying experience but knowing of it coming and trying to prepare and no o can’t raise my hands at all but have to take it ....

And hers where things take a dramatic twist after ex had begged not to just be put out of home with her daughter when it comes down to blood v other they both left not just me but a family torn apart

PTSD it seems "

If it's PTSD I'd definately reccomend a form of talking therapy. I wish some of my friends had done so

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By *ertnsarahCouple
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Speak to your GP, they see all manner of mental health issues every day. I can only speak for myself but in my experience they have always been patient & understanding, I've never felt judged or that I'm being silly & wasting their time. It's not always a case of "take these pills, next patient please" I agree with the previous reply, talking therapy may be a good way to go for you. There are lots of services out there that can help, your GP will be able to let you know the options available in your area. You don't have to do anything you're not comfortable with, whether that be medication or some form of counselling, just have a look what's out there & decide what suits you. Most importantly don't hide yourself away. Believe me, I know that's easier said than done! Things started getting better for me when I started talking & letting my friends & family know how I was feeling. They may not always understand or be able to "fix" things but sometimes just having someone listen makes a big difference. Hope you find something that works for you.

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