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By *ittleMissSexy2017 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Everyone we have played previously we have met at a club and played with after or already knew

Sadly we don’t have time for clubs at the moment but still want to try and meet new people...especially a guy for a threesome, but struggling to find appropriate play partner and could do with advice on etiquette.

Also would most advise a hotel rather than meet at either ours or theirs?

Thank you all!

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Yes a hotel meet is a far safer and less personal option with someone you don't know too well. For both parties. The only caveat I'd put on that is as long as you don't mind paying for the room and just enjoying the room by yourselves in the event of a no show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone we have played previously we have met at a club and played with after or already knew

Sadly we don’t have time for clubs at the moment but still want to try and meet new people...especially a guy for a threesome, but struggling to find appropriate play partner and could do with advice on etiquette.

Also would most advise a hotel rather than meet at either ours or theirs?

Thank you all!"

Before joining fabs I used craigslist and all the threesomes that I had were at the couple’s place. I was quite nervous especially the first time but if you make sure that the other person is genuine and reasonable it shouldn’t be such a big problem.

It’s for sure a different experience from a club. If there’s just the three of you, you have the opportunity to be more relaxed, take your time, meet each other and avoid the noise and the other presences that you get in a club. I’d recommend that to you for sure

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By *ittleMissSexy2017 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Thanks for the advice so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your pain. Me nd my fuckbuddy have had about 4 mmf threesomes and honestly only 1 of them was decent. 1 lied about his age, (we didn't find out till later on). 2 one turned up on drugs (was too high to get horny). And 3 was too hungover from the night before .

We have learned our lesson. The only meet that worked out was with an old friend that I knew. It takes a long time to find someone decent. Id definitely advice to meet in a hotel. Good luck. X

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

OP why don't you both browse single male profiles and select some that appeal to you and message them ? . That might be more efficient than waiting for the right guy to find you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we have had threesomes we have been to their homes but we have also invited guys to ours too and we have never come across any weirdos yet , we like to be in charge,so much prefer our own territory so to speak ..

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By *ndrew CareyMan
over a year ago

Peterborough, Cambridgeshire & Lincolnshire


"Everyone we have played previously we have met at a club and played with after or already knew

Sadly we don’t have time for clubs at the moment but still want to try and meet new people...especially a guy for a threesome, but struggling to find appropriate play partner and could do with advice on etiquette.

Also would most advise a hotel rather than meet at either ours or theirs?

Thank you all!"

Hotels are always best if you have concerns about letting people into your home. Especially for NSA fun.

Most of the meets I had before I joined the site were at hotels.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

How have you got time to go to a hotel but not a club ?

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By *ensualgent38Man
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Hotel meets are great fun, especially for a first meet.

A couple of drinks in the bar to chat and flirt. Waiting for someone to say ‘shall we take these upstairs’.

Let the bedroom door shut and the fun begin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How have you got time to go to a hotel but not a club ?"

I’m guessing that most club nights are held on Friday or Saturday nights which are harder to arrange around some people’s commitments.

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By *ittleMissSexy2017 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent


"How have you got time to go to a hotel but not a club ?"

We don’t drive and not many clubs in easy distance to Canterbury, plus the nights we like we aren’t always free to attend - meeting an individual has flexibility for any day of the week.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Everyone we have played previously we have met at a club and played with after or already knew

Sadly we don’t have time for clubs at the moment but still want to try and meet new people...especially a guy for a threesome, but struggling to find appropriate play partner and could do with advice on etiquette.

Also would most advise a hotel rather than meet at either ours or theirs?

Thank you all!"

Check out 'day rate' hotels in your area, usually can get a room between 9am - 5pm for between £40 - £50, plus use of hotel swimming pool/sauna/jacuzzi (if they have them). Clean, comfortable and discreet, and cheaper than a club if you split the bill with the guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone we have played previously we have met at a club and played with after or already knew

Sadly we don’t have time for clubs at the moment but still want to try and meet new people...especially a guy for a threesome, but struggling to find appropriate play partner and could do with advice on etiquette.

Also would most advise a hotel rather than meet at either ours or theirs?

Thank you all!"

Well genuine single guys can often accomodate. I generally do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been to a club, all my meets over the last 20 years, fab and prefab have all been at couples or singles private homes.

I would suggest you perhaps make time to meet for a social, prior to inviting anyone to your home. But that can vary depending on the individual, I think you can get an idea from messaging or chatting on a swing phone. As a single male invited to a couples house, I am very often as cautious as those doing the inviting!

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By *ittleMissSexy2017 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Kent

Thank you all!

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"Hotel meets are great fun, especially for a first meet.

A couple of drinks in the bar to chat and flirt. Waiting for someone to say ‘shall we take these upstairs’.

Let the bedroom door shut and the fun begin!"

Sounds like pretty sensible suggestion.

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