FabSwingers.com forum: Advice please

By *Jsandstockings OP Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

Sorry to ask but I’m not sure on the etiquette with this! Periods?!

My partner and I have no issue with it and have fun regardless. What’s the situ with playing at clubs and being on? I’m tail end of this one and we are off to a club tonight.

I’m asking more for future reference really as we haven’t played with anyone else yet as we are still new to the scene. Very happy playing with each other and to be watched. But feel the next level will happen soon...

Thanks in advance for advice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to ask but I’m not sure on the etiquette with this! Periods?!

My partner and I have no issue with it and have fun regardless. What’s the situ with playing at clubs and being on? I’m tail end of this one and we are off to a club tonight.

Thanks in advance for advice x

Just let it drop in conversation, the odd person will be a bit squeamish, most won't care, some will love it, we go during periods some times, but only soft play for other people.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I've never seen anyone play in public in a club who is having a period. Maybe some use mooncups etc but I have never seen anyone bleeding.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

In your own house with your own furnishings, do what you want but I'd say that at a club I'd stead away from full swap. I. Usually in blow job corner at clubs when I'm on lol

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By *Jsandstockings OP Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

Thank you all for the advice x

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

not meeting, forums only

I use the sponge tampons. Never had an issue when playing in a club but have mostly apart from my partner limited it to oral play with others ( me giving) on the off occasion it has ended up full play and the guys never notice as the sponges work really well.

Only real issue is getting them out if I've had a really really good session. The art of pelvic floor exercises really helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t you just wait a week

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By *rettyLittleThingWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

If you're not playing with others fine, but personally I wouldn't play with a person or in a club just incase something happened.

I know most clubs have sprays and rolls you can wipe down beds ect afterwards but I would be mortified if something happened in a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was still on for our club trip on NYE, was only going to be playing with my fwb but didn't wanna be faffing about evertime we wanted to play. Found beppy sponges, or whatever they are called, bloody brilliant, no mess and ya don't have to remove em for sex!

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By *lyreelMan
over a year ago

King's lynn

Each to there own but I would not be impressed to find out that I had performed Oral sex on a lady that was having her period, if you think it’s okay pull out yer tampon/ sponge and have a chew. Nah, didn’t think so.

I think it’s only fair to advise any person that is about to have fun with you that you are on your menstruation.

Very, very, uncool not to.

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By *elleRoseCouple
over a year ago

Malvern

Get your man to keep you home and look after you give him a wank or blowjob then when it’s over you will be your 100% and will feel more a at ease

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By *Jsandstockings OP Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

Thanks for all the comments, we kept to ourselves last night and like I said I was all but finished so no mess.

I think in future we won’t go when I’m on and if we did and if we were approached I would certainly explain the situ and leave it up to the other couple to decide.

Just learning what is and isn’t acceptable on the swinging scene and especially in a club situ x

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By *Jsandstockings OP Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

Thanks for all the comments, we kept to ourselves last night and like I said I was all but finished so no mess.

I think in future we won’t go when I’m on and if we did and if we were approached I would certainly explain the situ and leave it up to the other couple to decide.

Just learning what is and isn’t acceptable on the swinging scene and especially in a club situ x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can’t you just wait a week

This.. i know its a pain but unless ur into blood sports do you really want to get urself and others not including the furniture covered in blood??

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By *Jsandstockings OP Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

No certainly wouldn’t want to get blood everywhere at all if I was heavy we wouldn’t go. I was on last day so nothing really but thought best to see what others thoughts are on the whole period and swinging for future reference. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No certainly wouldn’t want to get blood everywhere at all if I was heavy we wouldn’t go. I was on last day so nothing really but thought best to see what others thoughts are on the whole period and swinging for future reference. X"

Its not to bad at the end then.. the joys of being a woman lol

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By *Jsandstockings OP Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

Oh indeed!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had hotel booked in newcastle for a saturday night last year,, saturday day time came on,, never went,,, had a weekend booked in blackpool , first night there came on went home,, devastated to say the least

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By *Jsandstockings OP Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

Yes it’s a nightmare especially if your cycle isn’t regular. Mine is getting there after starting new pill so hopefully can plan better x

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By *esterLilacCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

I’d say check with your potential playmate. I know loads of women who still go to a club when they are on. I still play when I’m on and I tell playmates and we either do partial play or some haven’t been bothered at all. Most clubs have shower facilities. If you shower, then play, clean up and shower, the damage is minimal. Take a towel with you from home and throw it under you when you play and most clubs provide wipes and sprays to wipe down play spaces. You’re tail end so light anyway. I’m only ever light so I really don’t let it get in my way. Most people gush and spray and spunk and pee all over the place so one more bodily fluid shouldn’t be a problem if you manage your play space hygienically.

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By *Jsandstockings OP Couple
over a year ago

warwickshire

"I’d say check with your potential playmate. I know loads of women who still go to a club when they are on. I still play when I’m on and I tell playmates and we either do partial play or some haven’t been bothered at all. Most clubs have shower facilities. If you shower, then play, clean up and shower, the damage is minimal. Take a towel with you from home and throw it under you when you play and most clubs provide wipes and sprays to wipe down play spaces. You’re tail end so light anyway. I’m only ever light so I really don’t let it get in my way. Most people gush and spray and spunk and pee all over the place so one more bodily fluid shouldn’t be a problem if you manage your play space hygienically. "

Thank you x

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

A big no for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Each to there own but I would not be impressed to find out that I had performed Oral sex on a lady that was having her period, if you think it’s okay pull out yer tampon/ sponge and have a chew. Nah, didn’t think so.

I think it’s only fair to advise any person that is about to have fun with you that you are on your menstruation.

Very, very, uncool not to. "

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

I think it’s only fair to advise any person that is about to have fun with you that you are on your menstruation.

Very, very, uncool not to. "

Funny that men don't tell us they are bi lol how the tables could turn x and erm this is a joke lol just quoted you as your first man I seen to say how in cool it is and I agree xx i would never play when on it makes me feel dirty being on a period x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s only fair to advise any person that is about to have fun with you that you are on your menstruation.

Very, very, uncool not to.

This

Did anyone say they would let someone give them oral sex, or any other sex, without saying they were on first?!

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

You could just go for the social side you dont have to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s only fair to advise any person that is about to have fun with you that you are on your menstruation.

Very, very, uncool not to.

This

Did anyone say they would let someone give them oral sex, or any other sex, without saying they were on first?!

No but he needed to make an assumption so he could be disgusted. Pretty sure there was zero mention of oral sex on the woman in a single post other than that one.

Out of interest I know working girls use sponges so they can carry on working during periods, but I didn't know there was an actual product. Presumably just as hard to get out as a torn off sponge piece or does it come with a string or retrieval device other than fingers?

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By *esterLilacCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

"You could just go for the social side you dont have to play."

But if they want to play, and if she’s like me, I’m incredibly horny when on my period because my hormones are going nuts, then I want to play. There will usually be someone who won’t be bothered.

Some people feel like cack on their periods and really wouldn’t want to play. Each to their own. Don’t think it should be a frowned upon thing.

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By *reamytitwankCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

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By *reamytitwankCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Have you tried a Beppy sponge tampax you can wear during sex.

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By *iss SinWoman
over a year ago

Just wait until you’ve finished :/

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By *lyreelMan
over a year ago

King's lynn

I think it’s only fair to advise any person that is about to have fun with you that you are on your menstruation.

Very, very, uncool not to.

This

Did anyone say they would let someone give them oral sex, or any other sex, without saying they were on first?!

Try reading all the posts. The OP never said she would but it has been mentioned by others!! Good to be righteous, when your right!!!

Quote.... “and the guys never notice as the sponges work really well”

Whilst oral may not have been specifically mentioned the OP was asking for people’s thoughts and feelings, these were mine.

Shoot me down if you want but if I have a piece of string hanging out my mouth I want it to be a tea bag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s only fair to advise any person that is about to have fun with you that you are on your menstruation.

Very, very, uncool not to.

This

Did anyone say they would let someone give them oral sex, or any other sex, without saying they were on first?!

No but he needed to make an assumption so he could be disgusted. Pretty sure there was zero mention of oral sex on the woman in a single post other than that one.

I only found out about them from a fab girlfriend. They are a weird heart kinda shape with, what is meant to be a slit in the bottom end that is meant to turn into a loop for your finger, when you are retrieving it...but yeah can only get em out with your fingers. I was worried as I was leaving it in during sex but didn't have too much trouble reaching it, luckily. Some of the reviews on amazon made it sound like they were getting lost in there or summat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s only fair to advise any person that is about to have fun with you that you are on your menstruation.

Very, very, uncool not to.

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Did anyone say they would let someone give them oral sex, or any other sex, without saying they were on first?!

Try reading all the posts. The OP never said she would but it has been mentioned by others!! Good to be righteous, when your right!!!

Quote.... “and the guys never notice as the sponges work really well”

Whilst oral may not have been specifically mentioned the OP was asking for people’s thoughts and feelings, these were mine.

Shoot me down if you want but if I have a piece of string hanging out my mouth I want it to be a tea bag.

The post you refer to said, giving oral to others, not them receiving it... Hence my response

Guys don't notice sponges while fucking as there is no mess and they have no string btw!

Not wanting to fuck someone that is on is fine, it's not for everyone. I only do it with an fwb or, when I have one, my partner. Like I said, I can't see anyone letting a random or anyone else fuck them, whilst on, without letting them know first.

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By *uppeteerMan
over a year ago

St Austell

"Sorry to ask but I’m not sure on the etiquette with this! Periods?!

My partner and I have no issue with it and have fun regardless. What’s the situ with playing at clubs and being on? I’m tail end of this one and we are off to a club tonight.

Thanks in advance for advice x

Only my steak I enjoy bloody...wait for a week, it will only make you both hornier...

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By *appy69coupleCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

this is actually a kink of ours, but I've never seen it done in a club.

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

I've posted a similar forum in the past and in the end I did what worked for me!

I had an ex fuck buddy who didn't mind fucking when on and he always said I was extra horny and extra lubricated

When I came to a club, I only went once while at the end of a period, I'd had no show all day and no show during the Eve, but in general still have one odd spotting in the day, anyway, ended up in a room, told the people in the room and the ball was in their court so to speak...

Have also myself requested feedback on first meets whilst on, it turns out most guys don't really care as long as there is a shower to clean up after, I personally haven't done a meet whilst on,but as long as I tell guys upfront and I personally am up for it,then I don't see why not,,

I think the fab world is literally just that, the world you choose to go by, if you tell them and they still wanna meet that is between you and them xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was at the tail end of my period I did actually find a long bath stemmed it off.

I never went to a club when I was on the trouble was when I’m on my period I was at my horniest

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By *appy69coupleCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"When I was at the tail end of my period I did actually find a long bath stemmed it off.

I never went to a club when I was on the trouble was when I’m on my period I was at my horniest "

haha same with penny. she's like a sulky cat before, a tiger when on, and a rabid dog when just finished lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I was at the tail end of my period I did actually find a long bath stemmed it off.

I never went to a club when I was on the trouble was when I’m on my period I was at my horniest

haha same with penny. she's like a sulky cat before, a tiger when on, and a rabid dog when just finished lol"

Couldn’t have said it better myself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You could just go for the social side you dont have to play.

Some people feel like cack on their periods and really wouldn’t want to play. Each to their own. Don’t think it should be a frowned upon thing. "

It isn't in real life I can assure you, been with my partner while on many times and played with others while they were even more, never yet been even a slight issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s only fair to advise any person that is about to have fun with you that you are on your menstruation.

Very, very, uncool not to.

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Did anyone say they would let someone give them oral sex, or any other sex, without saying they were on first?!

No but he needed to make an assumption so he could be disgusted. Pretty sure there was zero mention of oral sex on the woman in a single post other than that one.

Last time my then girlfriend tried it it took me a good 10 minutes fishing around to drag it out, made worse by us giggling about it, but that was a piece of torn off bathroom sponge in a last minute emergency

Had a look and it looks a brilliant idea! Thanks to you and the other poster mentioning them. When it's just us we just use a thick towel but they look brilliant if we get caught out and theres a party or something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s only fair to advise any person that is about to have fun with you that you are on your menstruation.

Very, very, uncool not to.

This

Did anyone say they would let someone give them oral sex, or any other sex, without saying they were on first?!

No but he needed to make an assumption so he could be disgusted. Pretty sure there was zero mention of oral sex on the woman in a single post other than that one.

I will definitely be using them again, for sure. Regardless of what I am up to and where

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