FabSwingers.com forum: Breaking the circle

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We are in the circle of not getting meets partly because we are not verified and not verified because we cant get meets, sad eh!

any ideas though as it is a bit frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attend some socials or go along to a club

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By *ustpartyCouple
over a year ago

Blackwater

We started in a club. Definitely the best way to start. No pressure and you can chat and get advice from other likeminded people.

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

As others have said, go to socials and clubs...

We pay little attention to veris, not having open pics is probable holding you back more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot of it will probably also be that you have very little on your profile and no pictures at all.. that will put alot of people off,,, get yourself some pics sit down and spend an hour on your profile and start working it.

Good luck

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran

I don't know for sure but it seems from the meets pages that couples looking for a single bifem is more difficult than a single man getting a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's a combination of the two posts above.good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you feel that a veri is so important to the profie

go into a chatroom have a chat with some people and ask them for veri you on cam x

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

"We are in the circle of not getting meets partly because we are not verified and not verified because we cant get meets, sad eh!

any ideas though as it is a bit frustrating

You're clearly TW's as everyone knows it's only single guys who struggle to get meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs, patience and time.Pics and exchanging messages/emails help a lot too.x

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By *pankable69Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

not everyone can easily get to socials

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By *lubPartyPeepsCouple
over a year ago

London

If your only looking for a single bi female, you can join the ranks of literally 1000's of other couples on the swinging scene. They are at the top of the swinging food chain and can afford to be pretty selective.

Going to a good club is by far your best bet to start off with. I don't we have been to a club in the last two years where there hasn't been at least one person or couple from FAB there. (Not including the clubs overseas)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I were a bi female why would I want to meet a couple where the man is only there for soft swap? I'd rather meet the wife alone or another single bi fem...or am I missing something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

being a Bi single female.

If i meet i tend to do it at a club as some couples i have arranged to meet havent and had cold feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a such a myth that there are no sinlge bi fems, they are absolutly everywhere, you just have to know where to look. Infact GOOd single guys are just as hard to find.

Lots of people think all they have to do put up a profile, make a cup of tea, and wait for the door bell to ring.

You need to get out there and look for it.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

As a single big fem, I'd prefer to meet a fem on her own, as opposed to a soft swap couple.

For the simple reason, you'd have to work bloody hard to show I wasn't just there for a live porn show for the husband.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As a single big fem, I'd prefer to meet a fem on her own, as opposed to a soft swap couple.

For the simple reason, you'd have to work bloody hard to show I wasn't just there for a live porn show for the husband.

Ditto from Ms

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

"As a single big fem, I'd prefer to meet a fem on her own, as opposed to a soft swap couple.

For the simple reason, you'd have to work bloody hard to show I wasn't just there for a live porn show for the husband.

As you said above, most bi fems (signle) give that singal they all think they there for a live porn show.

We stopped looking for a bi fem to join us.

when we first talked about a threesome I was worried Ian would not be allowed to join in. I had said that I was not happy for a MFF, As I wanted all three to play. But how wrong was I.

Sue and Ian

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Don't get me wrong I play with couples, some of my best experiences have been with couples. But I play with couples where it is full swap. That way everyone gets to have fun.

The one time I played with a soft swap couple only, I was banished out of the room while they had full sex because they didn't want me watching. Which would have been fine if this had been explained beforehand, however, it was not discussed, and I was asked to go to the spare room so they "could have their fun without being perved over". But I'd be welcomed back if they were still in the mood after they'd finished!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't get me wrong I play with couples, some of my best experiences have been with couples. But I play with couples where it is full swap. That way everyone gets to have fun.

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Hope you told them were to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are in the circle of not getting meets partly because we are not verified and not verified because we cant get meets, sad eh!

any ideas though as it is a bit frustrating

Try going to a club and chat to people its how we got our first veri

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