FabSwingers.com forum: How did you start swinging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Love to hear the stories.

Please let me know how you got your partner into swinging or how it happened!?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I was briefly seeing a guy, we got on to talking about fantasies and I said I wanted to play with another woman so he took me to Chams and introduced me to another site (13 years ago now!) and I've never looked back.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I was dating a guy for a while and he was interested in swinging. He wanted to visit a swingers club and we started off by creating a couples profile on fab. He decided it wasn't for him and I rather liked the idea so I got a single profile instead.

I had my first meet while I was still dating him, playing without his knowledge. Afterwards I felt incredibly guilty for cheating and didn't meet again until after he had moved away for work and we broke up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With an ex, we started talking about ‘past sexual partners’ and found we both got turned on by it, which lead to talking about potentially watching eachother with someone else.

We then tried ‘doggin’ and went to a spot where an older guy (we were early 20s) he must of been 40 came up to the car and chatted to us.. we offered him the back seat and he got in and watched her give me a blow job.. she then offered to wank him off, (we previously discussed this being a first step) and he sat back, cock out and she reached back and wanked him off until he came!

On the way home we spoke about and both agreed it was horny and how we both felt ‘ok’ with it, and how we would be prepared to go further..

This lead to us then chatting to a couple on ‘faceparty”, and arranged a meet at their house!

They were older, in their 40s both both very attractive and we swapped partners (in the same room) and the rest is history!

Although, I admit that, that night, something inside me twigged that as hot as it was having sex with his wife, I weirdly, got off more watching Mr fucking my girlfriend, so this ultimately lead to me being more into MMF fan today than I am anything else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With an ex, we started talking about ‘past sexual partners’ and found we both got turned on by it, which lead to talking about potentially watching eachother with someone else.

On the way home we spoke about and both agreed it was horny and how we both felt ‘ok’ with it, and how we would be prepared to go further..

This lead to us then chatting to a couple on ‘faceparty”, and arranged a meet at their house!

They were older, in their 40s both both very attractive and we swapped partners (in the same room) and the rest is history!

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By *1FuntimesMan
over a year ago

West Gloucestershire

Got chatting to a lady in a 30s chat room. Turned out she was married, and wanted a guy to join them, so she could have a 3sum. She invited me. Had a great time.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I started meeting 2 or more guys about 20 years ago.. didn't really know it had a name. Then moved to clubs ... then house parties with my ex hubby... which I hated as when we went I was mid 20s and most of the other guests were over 50. No one wanted me near their husbands and my ex wouldn't allow me to play with the young guys there.

So I started sneaking off to clubs by myself and found I really loved 3sums etc.

Had a friend who suggested I try a gangbang as apparently I am an insatiable little minx. Tried it loved it and this was just about when swinging was starting to come out of the magazine's and be more online..

It carried on and I has a very long time of being just a greedy girl. I also hosted quite a bit too back then. And loved meeting new people all the time.. still what keeps me here now

Tried couples and had terrible experiences so always said I never would. Met my recent ex and somehow we became a couple and I then experienced many new experiences. Some good.. some great and others I wish I could forget but they make funny stories to tell in the hot tubs.

Now back as a single and still assessing what I want..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I googled sex in Plymouth. Fab came up. I joined and the rest is history..

Gem x

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By *idsBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Tamworth

Back when I used to perform magic professionally, I was turning a few tricks (for want of a better expression) in the Fox during Birmingham Pride a few years ago. One of the door stewards was watching and asked me to perform her the wedding. After that she mentioned she used to do a party night at Xtasia and if I wanted to come along. I asked the girl I was dating if she wanted to come along for a night there and she said yes. We split, I introduced another partner to the scene and never looked back.

I’m single again now and still loving my nights at Chams so long may it continue

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By *inups99Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"With an ex, we started talking about ‘past sexual partners’ and found we both got turned on by it, which lead to talking about potentially watching eachother with someone else.

On the way home we spoke about and both agreed it was horny and how we both felt ‘ok’ with it, and how we would be prepared to go further..

This lead to us then chatting to a couple on ‘faceparty”, and arranged a meet at their house!

They were older, in their 40s both both very attractive and we swapped partners (in the same room) and the rest is history!

very similar to us really and led to my wife eventually ending up with a long term trusted friend who she could use for extra sex and no strings MMF.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Found ourselves at Hedonism 20 years ago we returned nearly every year and only played there until we met a couple from Bedford about 10 years ago who introduced us to Xtasia then we met a couple at another club who held parties & who also introduced us to fab about 4 years ago which obviously made things easier in the swinging world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best mate put me on to this site, he and his missus were real deviants but have now left the scene.

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By *armupartistMan
over a year ago

York

Always wanted to learn to ski, partner/wife not interested so took myself off to Switzerland one new year. Being on my own in the restaurant in the evenings I was befriended by a couple who invited me to eat with them. After skiing one afternoon I went to the hotel spa and the wife of the friendly couple was there and clearly unafraid to let me see her naked and beautiful body. Later I ate with the couple after which Mrs went up to bed and Mr and I went into the bar. After a couple of drinks he quietly put their room key on the table and invited me to go and 'entertain' his wife. I thought this was a wind up but he insisted and I went up to their room and let myself in. Mrs was lying face down on the edge of the bed, her skirt pulled up exposing a wonderful ass/stockings...! I had a great holiday and even learnt to ski. Shared the experience with my wife but she as not interested but sanctioned me joining a club but on the understanding that it would all be very discreet and safe...! Here I still am, older but still capable of giving and enjoying this lifestyle and definitely happier for it!

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

Found contact magazines in a London (Charing Cross Road) bookshop that had an adult selection downstairs. Then found A.N.Other swingers website and purchased a DVD about clubs at the London Erotica show. This was all about 15 years ago!

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By *imAndHerKentCouple
over a year ago

Folkestone

We discussed it when we were in our early 20s and not long been married but didn't do anything as Her wasn't keen.

Then, a few years ago Her went on a mate's hen do and found out one of the girls was a swinger. She and her partner invited us to Eureka one weekend, we decided to give it a go, loved it, and haven't looked back since.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Joint decision, we had done the bedroom fantasies and the likes and just decided on a beach walk that we wanted to try swinging before we got to old.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I grew up with parents who were swingers and brought up to be taught sex is fun between consenting adults.

Love is something different however I do love the human race just not in love. So my first experience was at a naturist club in Kent although I had two girlfriend's when I was 17 who I shared together but would not call it swinging. My then wife tried naturism together and that introduced us to like minded people.

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By *JcouplemidlandsCouple
over a year ago

Peak District

We have talked about this and cant actually remember, we somehow found this website. We made a profile stating that we just wanted to watch and be watched etc. It didnt stay that way for long!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fantasy to reality in an old relationship; continued as a swingle. It’s definitely my kink. The inclination has always been there so it was just a matter of time and opportunity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was having sex in a tent on a camp site in Cornwall while a couple in the tent next to us was sat out in the sun, the Mrs kept telling me to be quiet so I said dnt worry they can just come join in and at that point she went like the clappers haha, so we started talking about people joining in more until we came accords this site and finally found the courage to hit our local swingers club. Had some great fun since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fantasy to reality in an old relationship; continued as a swingle. It’s definitely my kink. The inclination has always been there so it was just a matter of time and opportunity. "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

big sister pushing me ,

then the see saw ,then the roundabout , the slide .............oh the good old days .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

me and my girlfriend in hot tub with my best mate....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a single girl on here before I met mr P. I needed to be around people who loved sex and didn’t judge a lady for the same perspective. I was curious about both women and men and group play at the time.

Then I met mr P and we were open to each other from the start so we joined as a couple. Thoroughly enjoying our ride.

Mrs P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi,

This thread inspired me to post a piece I wrote, originally, on another site about how I found swinging. See 'An adventurous Introduction' in the stories section.

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By *entakuruMan
over a year ago

Exeter

I got booked to DJ at some fetish nights and that sparked my curiosity although some of the fetish stuff I found a bit extreme for my tastes so I've always felt more comfortable with the swinging side of things. But, I've only ever been either a single male (difficult) or in a mono/vanilla relationship with a partner who hasn't wanted to share. This time round I'm staying single until I meet someone who's open to playing and exploring a bit more.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

On a couples profile, I then stayed as single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn't into having a long term relationship like most of my friends were having although now the idea of being a couple that are swingers is something I would like to be part of someday. I had watched a few of those documentarys about swingers and clubs and I plucked up the courage to go to a local one and it gave me some confidence seeing all different ages races body types to continue and so I eventually made this profile on here.

I personally think its a great site we're all here for a good time... I tried for ages on dating sites and only few people wanted to have fun I didn't realise there was a site like this until about a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had been together for about a year and I commented that the girl on telly was hot. Hubby asked if I'd ever go with a woman and I said yes. This led to us talking about swinging. So we went to a club a few weeks later...just to get a feel for the place....and full swapped on the first night!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That was 12 years ago

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By *ettnfranCouple
over a year ago

a12 near rivenhall

Was watching a adult film of a mmf 3sum and when it ended Betty said I've always wanted to try that.so for maybe a little over a year would talk every now and then while making love saying imagine this and that.then said OK let's write an advert for a contact magazine saying if you really want to have that experience post it no pressure but you make the final decision.then to my surprise amazement that she had posted it when the first replies arrived and have had some great times we have never looked back

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

For us it started 23 years ago, not long after my wife and I started dating.

About 3 months into dating I discovered she had a couple of German XXX dirty videos she liked to break out with her vibrator on hand. Turns out she was specifically fond of a scene where a "maid" was fucked silly by the master of the house and his wife. She made damn sure I "accidentally" walked in on her doing this as well. Obviously I thought her getting off to porn was hot but we started talking about it and she admitted she was both interested in girls and thought the idea of watching her partner fuck another woman abd being fucked by multiple people was hot. We talked about this for a long while which built up to going through with it.

We did a few things over the early years (nothing like what we are doing now lol) but we had young kids and getting the free time was impossible so it went on the back burner...that is till about 6 years back when we started dabbling again which lead to fab and the rest is history. We did have to leave the site for a bit but have just returned to pick up where we left off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love to hear the stories.

Please let me know how you got your partner into swinging or how it happened!? "

I split up from my husband looked up sexy men in Bristol on a search engine and a range of sites came up, I picked one and the rest is history 3 years later I found my soul mate, Rich on here in a mmf lol and the rest is history. Having met on here means no explanations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worked in Butlins when I was 20, it was basically 6 months of orgies!

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By *ebra321Man
over a year ago

London

"Worked in Butlins when I was 20, it was basically 6 months of orgies! "

What's Butlins mate ? Need to send my CV

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mine started as student. I used to run across Hampstead Heath and came across two men and a woman fucking on a bench, watched, joined in and the rest is history - almost 35 years ago and still going strong.

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By *not69Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

A FB got back with her ex hubby and ended it with me so a good friend suggested that I join her and her mate in Blackpool for a northern soul weekend. I joined them for the saturday night and over breakfast on Sunday her mate asked what I was going to do now. I told her I was just going to have fun and she said "You should join this website that Im on" and then went on to tell me about Fab.

I joined fab on the Monday, went to my first club on the Tuesday (Adam and Eves), received my first veri on the Wednesday, went to my second club Thursday (Cupids), received my second veri on Friday and went back to Cupids Saturday and not looked back since. That was 5yrs ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a couple and joined them, they told me about the site over coffee the next morning, I had a profile set up by lunchtime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worked in a bar when i was a student. Quite wednesday afternoon a more mature couple came in for drinks. Got chatting and they stayed most of the afternoon as i was working. She was amazing and i couldnt hide my kinky thoughts and her hubby knew it. When they were leaving she told me which hotel they were in and room number. I finished my split shift and ran there as any eager 19 year old would do. To arrive in the room with her on the bed, dressed to impress and a cheeky smile. I was hooked from then

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife

"Love to hear the stories.

Please let me know how you got your partner into swinging or how it happened!? "

About 2 and a half down the park with my mum I think ?? sorry I know ??

2001 maybe went to check out a newspaper and online thing I saw about dogging and had no clue about and went to check it and a car pulled up and a couple is seen but thought it was guy mainly thing and the guy driving said you new here and I was ye come to look and his girl leaned forward and sajd well you can come to our hotel room and help him fuck me ? And I sajd ye then he sajd and you suck cock too and said eh ye and went not for us pal sorry ??... I would have said anything as she was fit as fukc and they came back and asked if I suck cock and sajd no ?? sorry and my first lesson they gave was be honest cos not telling the truth ??

Went Back to there room and was used abused and could hardly walk and hooked ??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love telling our story!!

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By *ardiffCoupleNJCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd/Rhyfelin

We'd been together just over a year. I had a week working away & partner decided to come with me. We were out one evening, not exactly arguing but strong banter. I said if she wasn't careful i'll take her back & give her a good spanking to which she replied you'd have to tie me up first to have any chance. My reply was I'll find a dungeon then. She just said I wouldn't dare!

Searched online, we were in Manchester & Cupids came up. Saturday night we went along ….& she got tied up & spanked in the dungeon. It all started there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A guy on another site wouldn't show me his pics on another site gave me his link to here. Then I joined, found the clubs and here I am three years later.

I've met and played with some lovely people. When I visit different cities it's a good way of not being on my own all the time x

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We were in out early 50s when we met. We'd both had varied sex lives, even during our previous marriages, and 'being faithful' wasn't likely to have worked, so we decided to swing. This allowed us both to have fun sex with others, without any deceit or stress. It has works very well for us. We've made some lovely friends and also had plenty of casual play with strangers we've never seen again. Monogamy isn't natural!

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