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"Don't think you can. Just keep posting in the forums and people with start to recognise your name. You will start and see the same people who post in them day after day and possibly be able to have some sort of banter and repore with them. Good luck " | |||
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"Any ideas on how to get a little traction in the forums? Posted a couple times (fuck, suck or chuck types as we’ve seen) Do you have to have been on a while? Thanks " Just carry on posting. It can seem like talking to yourself sometimes on here ....tho I have v interesting convos with myself all the time. Dont forget the forums are a tiny % of fab, and of that only a tiny % are regular posters, and they do not speak for the majority. Just keep on doing what makes you enjoy the site (within the rules of course). | |||
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"Any ideas on how to get a little traction in the forums? Posted a couple times (fuck, suck or chuck types as we’ve seen) Do you have to have been on a while? Thanks Just carry on posting. It can seem like talking to yourself sometimes on here ....tho I have v interesting convos with myself all the time. Dont forget the forums are a tiny % of fab, and of that only a tiny % are regular posters, and they do not speak for the majority. Just keep on doing what makes you enjoy the site (within the rules of course)." | |||
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"Any ideas on how to get a little traction in the forums? Posted a couple times (fuck, suck or chuck types as we’ve seen) Do you have to have been on a while? Thanks Just carry on posting. It can seem like talking to yourself sometimes on here ....tho I have v interesting convos with myself all the time. Dont forget the forums are a tiny % of fab, and of that only a tiny % are regular posters, and they do not speak for the majority. Just keep on doing what makes you enjoy the site (within the rules of course)." This is good advice. | |||
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"I wouldn't worry about being ignored. My posts are ignored all the time but most on here and I try to be positive in the majority of my replies. It's a way they try to make you feel unwanted/unwelcome and I believe it's quite deliberate. The last 7 threads I posted on my comment was ignored yet the ones above and under mine were replied to. I've reduced my input on the forum as it's been made clear I'm not welcome but that just shows you the character of the people on it not a reflection on myself." Really- I like your posts but can’t respond to all the posts I like, so I’m selective. You are not necessarily being ignored. | |||
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"I wouldn't worry about being ignored. My posts are ignored all the time but most on here and I try to be positive in the majority of my replies. It's a way they try to make you feel unwanted/unwelcome and I believe it's quite deliberate. The last 7 threads I posted on my comment was ignored yet the ones above and under mine were replied to. I've reduced my input on the forum as it's been made clear I'm not welcome but that just shows you the character of the people on it not a reflection on myself." I wouldn't say its a delibrate thing. | |||
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"I wouldn't worry about being ignored. My posts are ignored all the time but most on here and I try to be positive in the majority of my replies. It's a way they try to make you feel unwanted/unwelcome and I believe it's quite deliberate. The last 7 threads I posted on my comment was ignored yet the ones above and under mine were replied to. I've reduced my input on the forum as it's been made clear I'm not welcome but that just shows you the character of the people on it not a reflection on myself." That happens to me too. I don't know who the "they" are that you refer to but every contributor to the forum is ignored by one sub set or another. Some ignore those they don't fancy or aren't interested in meeting, some ignore if they don't like the person, some if they don't agree the list is endless. | |||
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" The last 7 threads I posted on my comment was ignored yet the ones above and under mine were replied to. " Your Fab Kelly post had 118 replies ! | |||
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"Thanks for all of your advice and kind words xx" We don't post on the sort of threads you've mentioned but if we did it would be....Fuck. The forums are a strange 'otherworld' to the main site but equally as addictive. Just have fun and grow a thick skin...It helps. | |||
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"I wouldn't worry about being ignored. My posts are ignored all the time but most on here and I try to be positive in the majority of my replies. It's a way they try to make you feel unwanted/unwelcome and I believe it's quite deliberate. The last 7 threads I posted on my comment was ignored yet the ones above and under mine were replied to. I've reduced my input on the forum as it's been made clear I'm not welcome but that just shows you the character of the people on it not a reflection on myself." I agree. For some I think it's a power thing, but it does certainly say more about them than you. Just keep posting and have a wee chuckle, cos fab is a fickle place and full of egos. I'd rather have a decent convo with myself, at least I am amusing myself  | |||
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"Any ideas on how to get a little traction in the forums? Posted a couple times (fuck, suck or chuck types as we’ve seen) Do you have to have been on a while? Thanks " Does it matter? Either get fun or whatever out of it or not. Please don't try and join the popularity contest type posts. | |||
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"I wouldn't worry about being ignored. My posts are ignored all the time but most on here and I try to be positive in the majority of my replies. It's a way they try to make you feel unwanted/unwelcome and I believe it's quite deliberate. The last 7 threads I posted on my comment was ignored yet the ones above and under mine were replied to. I've reduced my input on the forum as it's been made clear I'm not welcome but that just shows you the character of the people on it not a reflection on myself." When people are vacant on threads or have nothing interesting or funny to say. What is the point in replying. Not saying you are though. You're also a single guy so that doesn't help | |||
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" You're also a single guy so that doesn't help" I never look at profiles when people post on forums. I just reply to their comment. | |||
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" You're also a single guy so that doesn't help I never look at profiles when people post on forums. I just reply to their comment. " Must hard not to notice though when there is just a cock pic in your face. | |||
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"Thanks for all of your advice and kind words xx We don't post on the sort of threads you've mentioned but if we did it would be....Fuck. The forums are a strange 'otherworld' to the main site but equally as addictive. Just have fun and grow a thick skin...It helps."  | |||
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"I find it amusing when it is a serious thread such as condolences for some one who has died and there are just lots of cocks and bums posting. " Hehe Sometimes I do see serious posts in here I almost join in but then realise I do that serious stuff elsewhere We are on here for sexy fun | |||
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"I wouldn't worry about being ignored. My posts are ignored all the time but most on here and I try to be positive in the majority of my replies. It's a way they try to make you feel unwanted/unwelcome and I believe it's quite deliberate. The last 7 threads I posted on my comment was ignored yet the ones above and under mine were replied to. I've reduced my input on the forum as it's been made clear I'm not welcome but that just shows you the character of the people on it not a reflection on myself." | |||
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"Would it be too cynical to suggest the best way to get attention on the forums is to post as a single female profile... But joking aside, just get stuck in posting on threads, there are loads of posters on here and people come and go, it can seem cliquey but generally anyone posting something opinionated/entertaining/funny will get responses some of the time" No, but you can tell they are attention whores. | |||
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"Any ideas on how to get a little traction in the forums? Posted a couple times (fuck, suck or chuck types as we’ve seen) Do you have to have been on a while? Thanks Does it matter? Either get fun or whatever out of it or not. Please don't try and join the popularity contest type posts. " | |||
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"I wouldn't worry about being ignored. My posts are ignored all the time but most on here and I try to be positive in the majority of my replies. It's a way they try to make you feel unwanted/unwelcome and I believe it's quite deliberate. The last 7 threads I posted on my comment was ignored yet the ones above and under mine were replied to. I've reduced my input on the forum as it's been made clear I'm not welcome but that just shows you the character of the people on it not a reflection on myself." You honestly think that because some of your comments get ignored that is somehow the forum collectively making it clear you aren't welcome? 
How would that even work? Do the imaginary clique have a giant whatsapp group and decide who should be ignored and who should be embraced?
Plenty of people like your posts, plenty don't, its the nature of the forum. I;ve never been popular on her (and truth be told I've never really wanted to be) I'm far more interested in the 5% who like my posts than the 95% that don't | |||
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"I wouldn't worry about being ignored. My posts are ignored all the time but most on here and I try to be positive in the majority of my replies. It's a way they try to make you feel unwanted/unwelcome and I believe it's quite deliberate. The last 7 threads I posted on my comment was ignored yet the ones above and under mine were replied to. I've reduced my input on the forum as it's been made clear I'm not welcome but that just shows you the character of the people on it not a reflection on myself. You honestly think that because some of your comments get ignored that is somehow the forum collectively making it clear you aren't welcome?
How would that even work? Do the imaginary clique have a giant whatsapp group and decide who should be ignored and who should be embraced?
Plenty of people like your posts, plenty don't, its the nature of the forum. I;ve never been popular on her (and truth be told I've never really wanted to be) I'm far more interested in the 5% who like my posts than the 95% that don't"I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member. | |||
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"I wouldn't worry about being ignored. My posts are ignored all the time but most on here and I try to be positive in the majority of my replies. It's a way they try to make you feel unwanted/unwelcome and I believe it's quite deliberate. The last 7 threads I posted on my comment was ignored yet the ones above and under mine were replied to. I've reduced my input on the forum as it's been made clear I'm not welcome but that just shows you the character of the people on it not a reflection on myself. You honestly think that because some of your comments get ignored that is somehow the forum collectively making it clear you aren't welcome?
How would that even work? Do the imaginary clique have a giant whatsapp group and decide who should be ignored and who should be embraced?
Plenty of people like your posts, plenty don't, its the nature of the forum. I;ve never been popular on her (and truth be told I've never really wanted to be) I'm far more interested in the 5% who like my posts than the 95% that don't
I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member."I wouldn't join any club that had you as a member either. | |||
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"I wouldn't worry about being ignored. My posts are ignored all the time but most on here and I try to be positive in the majority of my replies. It's a way they try to make you feel unwanted/unwelcome and I believe it's quite deliberate. The last 7 threads I posted on my comment was ignored yet the ones above and under mine were replied to. I've reduced my input on the forum as it's been made clear I'm not welcome but that just shows you the character of the people on it not a reflection on myself. You honestly think that because some of your comments get ignored that is somehow the forum collectively making it clear you aren't welcome?
How would that even work? Do the imaginary clique have a giant whatsapp group and decide who should be ignored and who should be embraced?
Plenty of people like your posts, plenty don't, its the nature of the forum. I;ve never been popular on her (and truth be told I've never really wanted to be) I'm far more interested in the 5% who like my posts than the 95% that don't
I refuse to join any club that would have me as a member.
I wouldn't join any club that had you as a member either. "You're in luck then, several won't. | |||
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"I wouldn't worry about being ignored. My posts are ignored all the time but most on here and I try to be positive in the majority of my replies. It's a way they try to make you feel unwanted/unwelcome and I believe it's quite deliberate. The last 7 threads I posted on my comment was ignored yet the ones above and under mine were replied to. I've reduced my input on the forum as it's been made clear I'm not welcome but that just shows you the character of the people on it not a reflection on myself. I wouldn't say its a delibrate thing. " 
Lately I'm trying to make a conscious effort to reply to different people. I see you, and Patrick and riverdeep and everyone on this thread. You're not invisible. I like the posts from each of you.
It's difficult when a lot of people are saying the same thing as we can't to all the posts as it's like spamming the thread.
OP I agree with what other people said, join in and chat too. | |||
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"I wouldn't worry about being ignored. My posts are ignored all the time but most on here and I try to be positive in the majority of my replies. It's a way they try to make you feel unwanted/unwelcome and I believe it's quite deliberate. The last 7 threads I posted on my comment was ignored yet the ones above and under mine were replied to. I've reduced my input on the forum as it's been made clear I'm not welcome but that just shows you the character of the people on it not a reflection on myself. You honestly think that because some of your comments get ignored that is somehow the forum collectively making it clear you aren't welcome?
How would that even work? Do the imaginary clique have a giant whatsapp group and decide who should be ignored and who should be embraced?
Plenty of people like your posts, plenty don't, its the nature of the forum. I;ve never been popular on her (and truth be told I've never really wanted to be) I'm far more interested in the 5% who like my posts than the 95% that don't"Actually there is plenty of posts referring to a couple of kik or WhatsApp groups where a lot of those accused of being the clique chat away from here, I can't remember which. Find it hilarious, discussing with each other what to say to certain individuals and so on, I actually hope it's true | |||
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