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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why the hell do guys send cock pics in messages come on like we haven’t seen one before but saying it’s the best we can have is laughable if all you have to go on is your cock pics then you have a real problem

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics

I really have no clue why people send pictures of their cock, close up flaccid and hairy hanging over the top of grubby underwear, often with part of a toilet somewhere in the picture.

It really does make me sick in my mouth. I wonder if they look at the pictures before they send them, surely they can't really think anybody wants to see it like that?

I personally don't like seeing them in people's galleries, but to actually send pictures like that to an inbox.... really!

It's always been one of Fabs great unsolved mysteries to me.

Where is the facepalm emoji when I need it?

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Maybe some of these guys are simply exhibitionists?

Maybe some haven't realised yet that women aren't as likely to be aroused by visual stimulation as men are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose no different to a pair of saggy tits, close up of a ass, or pussy.

People display different images for different reasons. At least showing images you know that you are either turned on or off by the person communicating, and can save time.

Different people can also be indifferent, attracted and repulsed by the same image. To one person an exposed ass can be sexy, but to another it just brings up images of sh*t.

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

You could say the same about any pic on here I guess, take the OP's profile pic....we all have an arse, why put yours on display?

I suppose sending a pic unsolicited is diff to a profile pic.....but guess some chaps are proud of their cock and like to share it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose no different to a pair of saggy tits, close up of a ass, or pussy.

People display different images for different reasons. At least showing images you know that you are either turned on or off by the person communicating, and can save time.

Different people can also be indifferent, attracted and repulsed by the same image. To one person an exposed ass can be sexy, but to another it just brings up images of sh*t.

"

Well done on totally missing the point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kinda feel sorry for men. I talked about this with my OH just last week. He got up and started pulling poses that women regularly do and pointed out how stupid men would look trying to be alluring in pictures. I was creased, but he made a valid point. All they really have is thier dick, men love thier dicks and want us to love them as much as they do. We women can make just about anything look sexy by accident!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why the hell do guys send cock pics in messages come on like we haven’t seen one before but saying it’s the best we can have is laughable if all you have to go on is your cock pics then you have a real problem "

To be fair, some of the shit couples send is just as shite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I kinda feel sorry for men. I talked about this with my OH just last week. He got up and started pulling poses that women regularly do and pointed out how stupid men would look trying to be alluring in pictures. I was creased, but he made a valid point. All they really have is thier dick, men love thier dicks and want us to love them as much as they do. We women can make just about anything look sexy by accident! "

It’s all we have

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull

Some men send them to me because I ask them not to. They must think it’s funny or something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s my pulling technique. I notice a woman in a bar and I dance over to her swinging my cock like a helicopter

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I kinda feel sorry for men. I talked about this with my OH just last week. He got up and started pulling poses that women regularly do and pointed out how stupid men would look trying to be alluring in pictures. I was creased, but he made a valid point. All they really have is thier dick, men love thier dicks and want us to love them as much as they do. We women can make just about anything look sexy by accident! "

Whilst I agree that women have more options for taking a sexy pic (a simple change of lingerie can make the same pose different), I disagree that all men have is their dick - as threads on here have shown torso pics, suit pics, bum pics, teasing pics, tight whites and more are all popular options for men to use.

Unfortunately however, a lot of guys see "sex site" and immediately associate that to their cock, and so snap off several pics of it without giving any thought to the composition of the pic itself - pics of a disembodied cock are no more appealing than pics of disembodied pics of boobs or pussies for most, however full body pics where it's not the main focus of the pic can work well and be very appealing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I kinda feel sorry for men. I talked about this with my OH just last week. He got up and started pulling poses that women regularly do and pointed out how stupid men would look trying to be alluring in pictures. I was creased, but he made a valid point. All they really have is thier dick, men love thier dicks and want us to love them as much as they do. We women can make just about anything look sexy by accident! "

apart from a shite, that's never a sexy accident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree op, if all a guy has got to offer is his cock, he has got a problem if the women doesn’t mind waiting for that to be the big reveal, so to speak. And to send it unsolicited isn’t a great way to introduce yourself is it?

But, we see lots of very revealing photos from women on here, so maybe that’s what a lot of men think this place is, a site for showing your bits of you want sex with others in here.

It’s a conundrum who started the ‘showing your best bits’ but it’s here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I kinda feel sorry for men. I talked about this with my OH just last week. He got up and started pulling poses that women regularly do and pointed out how stupid men would look trying to be alluring in pictures. I was creased, but he made a valid point. All they really have is thier dick, men love thier dicks and want us to love them as much as they do. We women can make just about anything look sexy by accident!

Whilst I agree that women have more options for taking a sexy pic (a simple change of lingerie can make the same pose different), I disagree that all men have is their dick - as threads on here have shown torso pics, suit pics, bum pics, teasing pics, tight whites and more are all popular options for men to use.

Unfortunately however, a lot of guys see "sex site" and immediately associate that to their cock, and so snap off several pics of it without giving any thought to the composition of the pic itself - pics of a disembodied cock are no more appealing than pics of disembodied pics of boobs or pussies for most, however full body pics where it's not the main focus of the pic can work well and be very appealing."

I'm inclined to agree with you that men do have a lot more to offer than just thier cocks, some guys might not realise that though. My boyfriend, being a straight man, sees nothing sexy about anything man shaped so thinks his Penis is his greatest asset (it's a fucking great asset but Damn I like all his bits)

I did thoroughly enjoy watching get him arch his back and put his finger to his pouted lips. I couldn't breathe!

His demonstration helped me find forgiveness & understanding toward the cock pic guys, previously all I had was contempt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though I see this regularly lamented in the forum and occasionally in my local updates, a lot of these fellas seem to have veris, so (providing they didn't just veri themselves from another profile like a lot of fakes do) it must actually work for some of them at least some of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even though I see this regularly lamented in the forum and occasionally in my local updates, a lot of these fellas seem to have veris, so (providing they didn't just veri themselves from another profile like a lot of fakes do) it must actually work for some of them at least some of the time "

Put it to the test. I dare you.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London


"Some men send them to me because I ask them not to. They must think it’s funny or something. "

It's only cos you're beautiful when you're angry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will only ever send one if it’s asked for, it’s rude otherwise imagine it in a real world scenario it would be illegal. Sat in a bar and some cock appears next to your face it would just be weird

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even though I see this regularly lamented in the forum and occasionally in my local updates, a lot of these fellas seem to have veris, so (providing they didn't just veri themselves from another profile like a lot of fakes do) it must actually work for some of them at least some of the time

Put it to the test. I dare you. "

But I already have my cock pic on public display! I'm far too lazy to go distributing it to all and sundry

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I’m waiting for the day a guy whips it out in a bar as a pulling method

It’ll never happen as they know it won’t work so why it then becomes logical to whip it out for a pic and send that as a pulling method is beyond me

But that’s men for you

Erect penis + camera = logic out of the window

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even though I see this regularly lamented in the forum and occasionally in my local updates, a lot of these fellas seem to have veris, so (providing they didn't just veri themselves from another profile like a lot of fakes do) it must actually work for some of them at least some of the time "

while there are lots of profiles that dont ask to be sent cockpics...the lamenting on the forums you mention, probably still counts as a tiny fraction compared to those that do ask for cock pics...

for years some of the forums thought they had some elite hold over fab to be honest, like expert opinions etc etc...when if fact a lot of people even active on the scene rarely ever read them.

guides for single men and how not to behave are particularly good though..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even though I see this regularly lamented in the forum and occasionally in my local updates, a lot of these fellas seem to have veris, so (providing they didn't just veri themselves from another profile like a lot of fakes do) it must actually work for some of them at least some of the time

while there are lots of profiles that dont ask to be sent cockpics...the lamenting on the forums you mention, probably still counts as a tiny fraction compared to those that do ask for cock pics...

for years some of the forums thought they had some elite hold over fab to be honest, like expert opinions etc etc...when if fact a lot of people even active on the scene rarely ever read them.

guides for single men and how not to behave are particularly good though.. "

Oh, on many occasions I have commented upon how the forum (or the lounge at least) does not speak for Fab as a whole. But if anyone wants to meet a forumite they really should pay better attention to what is being said on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why the hell do guys send cock pics in messages come on like we haven’t seen one before but saying it’s the best we can have is laughable if all you have to go on is your cock pics then you have a real problem "

I literally just came on to post something similar !! Complete turn off and they would know that if they took as much time reading profiles as they do photographing their cock !!

Pussy pics do nothing for me either !!

I think in general a lot of people regardless of single or couple male or female need to try harder and if they don’t stop complaining about fab and how hard it is to find genuine people !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even though I see this regularly lamented in the forum and occasionally in my local updates, a lot of these fellas seem to have veris, so (providing they didn't just veri themselves from another profile like a lot of fakes do) it must actually work for some of them at least some of the time

while there are lots of profiles that dont ask to be sent cockpics...the lamenting on the forums you mention, probably still counts as a tiny fraction compared to those that do ask for cock pics...

for years some of the forums thought they had some elite hold over fab to be honest, like expert opinions etc etc...when if fact a lot of people even active on the scene rarely ever read them.

guides for single men and how not to behave are particularly good though..

Oh, on many occasions I have commented upon how the forum (or the lounge at least) does not speak for Fab as a whole. But if anyone wants to meet a forumite they really should pay better attention to what is being said on here"

lol true-ish...I still dont get particular days where its ok to show yer bits lol...

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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Some cocks look really angry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even though I see this regularly lamented in the forum and occasionally in my local updates, a lot of these fellas seem to have veris, so (providing they didn't just veri themselves from another profile like a lot of fakes do) it must actually work for some of them at least some of the time

while there are lots of profiles that dont ask to be sent cockpics...the lamenting on the forums you mention, probably still counts as a tiny fraction compared to those that do ask for cock pics...

for years some of the forums thought they had some elite hold over fab to be honest, like expert opinions etc etc...when if fact a lot of people even active on the scene rarely ever read them.

guides for single men and how not to behave are particularly good though..

Oh, on many occasions I have commented upon how the forum (or the lounge at least) does not speak for Fab as a whole. But if anyone wants to meet a forumite they really should pay better attention to what is being said on here"

The forum is enlightening, but certainly you need to recognise these people in here are only giving their own opinions. What you do with that opinion is up to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even though I see this regularly lamented in the forum and occasionally in my local updates, a lot of these fellas seem to have veris, so (providing they didn't just veri themselves from another profile like a lot of fakes do) it must actually work for some of them at least some of the time

while there are lots of profiles that dont ask to be sent cockpics...the lamenting on the forums you mention, probably still counts as a tiny fraction compared to those that do ask for cock pics...

for years some of the forums thought they had some elite hold over fab to be honest, like expert opinions etc etc...when if fact a lot of people even active on the scene rarely ever read them.

guides for single men and how not to behave are particularly good though..

Oh, on many occasions I have commented upon how the forum (or the lounge at least) does not speak for Fab as a whole. But if anyone wants to meet a forumite they really should pay better attention to what is being said on here

The forum is enlightening, but certainly you need to recognise these people in here are only giving their own opinions. What you do with that opinion is up to you. "

True that

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By *iss SJWoman
over a year ago

Hull


"Even though I see this regularly lamented in the forum and occasionally in my local updates, a lot of these fellas seem to have veris, so (providing they didn't just veri themselves from another profile like a lot of fakes do) it must actually work for some of them at least some of the time

while there are lots of profiles that dont ask to be sent cockpics...the lamenting on the forums you mention, probably still counts as a tiny fraction compared to those that do ask for cock pics...

for years some of the forums thought they had some elite hold over fab to be honest, like expert opinions etc etc...when if fact a lot of people even active on the scene rarely ever read them.

guides for single men and how not to behave are particularly good though..

Oh, on many occasions I have commented upon how the forum (or the lounge at least) does not speak for Fab as a whole. But if anyone wants to meet a forumite they really should pay better attention to what is being said on here

The forum is enlightening, but certainly you need to recognise these people in here are only giving their own opinions. What you do with that opinion is up to you.

True that "

There are some people who use the forums regularly and agree on threads about certain behaviours that annoy people but then go and do them anyway

I have experienced it myself a few times. Some people are strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even though I see this regularly lamented in the forum and occasionally in my local updates, a lot of these fellas seem to have veris, so (providing they didn't just veri themselves from another profile like a lot of fakes do) it must actually work for some of them at least some of the time

while there are lots of profiles that dont ask to be sent cockpics...the lamenting on the forums you mention, probably still counts as a tiny fraction compared to those that do ask for cock pics...

for years some of the forums thought they had some elite hold over fab to be honest, like expert opinions etc etc...when if fact a lot of people even active on the scene rarely ever read them.

guides for single men and how not to behave are particularly good though..

Oh, on many occasions I have commented upon how the forum (or the lounge at least) does not speak for Fab as a whole. But if anyone wants to meet a forumite they really should pay better attention to what is being said on here

The forum is enlightening, but certainly you need to recognise these people in here are only giving their own opinions. What you do with that opinion is up to you.

True that

There are some people who use the forums regularly and agree on threads about certain behaviours that annoy people but then go and do them anyway

I have experienced it myself a few times. Some people are strange "

Also true that

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

Blackrock


"Even though I see this regularly lamented in the forum and occasionally in my local updates, a lot of these fellas seem to have veris, so (providing they didn't just veri themselves from another profile like a lot of fakes do) it must actually work for some of them at least some of the time

while there are lots of profiles that dont ask to be sent cockpics...the lamenting on the forums you mention, probably still counts as a tiny fraction compared to those that do ask for cock pics...

for years some of the forums thought they had some elite hold over fab to be honest, like expert opinions etc etc...when if fact a lot of people even active on the scene rarely ever read them.

guides for single men and how not to behave are particularly good though..

Oh, on many occasions I have commented upon how the forum (or the lounge at least) does not speak for Fab as a whole. But if anyone wants to meet a forumite they really should pay better attention to what is being said on here

The forum is enlightening, but certainly you need to recognise these people in here are only giving their own opinions. What you do with that opinion is up to you.

True that

There are some people who use the forums regularly and agree on threads about certain behaviours that annoy people but then go and do them anyway

I have experienced it myself a few times. Some people are strange "

Wasn’t me honest. My friend stole my password and did it. Honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

its no so much like guys send them but the fact we dont send pussy pics in messages plenty on our gallery etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only send if asked lol

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

Chesterfield

Because it’s a special unique flower

No seriously I think we’re past unsolicited dick pics now.

There’s a time and a place, and that place is sexting.

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