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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you have a partner who you get along with and have no problems but you want to experience more or try out new things sexually but they seem to Palm it off what do you do? Do you stay with your partner cause you love them or do you split up so you can experience more, how would you go about with this situation?

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

The clue is "a partner you get along with" no mention of love

ask your self if you want to stay with her/him or just go out shagging and be single

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare


"If you have a partner who you get along with and have no problems but you want to experience more or try out new things sexually but they seem to Palm it off what do you do? Do you stay with your partner cause you love them or do you split up so you can experience more, how would you go about with this situation?"

If you even have to ask this question, then your partner probably isn't the one for you.

It's pretty simple, either you value having them in your life enough that you're willing to forgo the new experiences, or you want the new experiences more than you want them in your life.

What you do, depends on which you want more, them or something new.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"If you have a partner who you get along with and have no problems but you want to experience more or try out new things sexually but they seem to Palm it off what do you do? Do you stay with your partner cause you love them or do you split up so you can experience more, how would you go about with this situation?"

Eventually love is way more important than sexual experimentation but you're at the start of your sexual journey.

I would say that if you love the person you're with and can genuinely say that you've worked hard at your emotional and sexual communication together but still feel you're not compatible, move on. Marriage, children or joint property ownership will complicate matters though.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you have a partner who you get along with and have no problems but you want to experience more or try out new things sexually but they seem to Palm it off what do you do? Do you stay with your partner cause you love them or do you split up so you can experience more, how would you go about with this situation?

If you even have to ask this question, then your partner probably isn't the one for you.

It's pretty simple, either you value having them in your life enough that you're willing to forgo the new experiences, or you want the new experiences more than you want them in your life.

What you do, depends on which you want more, them or something new."

I might have explained it wrong but it’s not that I want to be single or anything like that, I want to enjoy these things together but your answer has made me think so thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your options are:

1 Accept the way things are (put up and shut up).

2 Change it (both need to want the change).

3 End it.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

You prioritise what is most important to you, then act on that knowing what the consequences of that may be.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

If accepting things as they are is no good to you then you need to be open and talk about this clearly to your partner. Hopefully aim to clearly understand how you both feel on this and make improvement/acceptable compromise on the issuse. After all if the current situation is totally not acceptable to you what have you got to lose by opening up and talking frankly about how you feel and what you want to experiance in life? Of course this relies on your partners ability/willingness to talk about the issuse and likewise seek a solution (even if unconventional). Clearly if you can't find a way forward and the quality of your sex life is a deal breaker then maybe you need to assess the future of your relationship because life is too short for both of you.

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