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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What am i doing wrong. Im a straight forward guy, treat people as i would like to be treated and don't even get a reply...

Any suggestions please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What am i doing wrong. Im a straight forward guy, treat people as i would like to be treated and don't even get a reply...

Any suggestions please "

Yes, the people you're messaging don't fancy you or want to have sex with you. That makes you being straightforward irrelevant. I can't believe anybody anywhere has ever had sex with somebody because they were straightforward.

And you're moan about not getting a reply shows you have done no research beforehand so probably don't put much effort in to your messages either.

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By *rsTrellisWoman
over a year ago

Cambridge

Hi there

For men, I think this site is a great way of keeping in touch with people you’ve met at socials and clubs.

It’s pretty hard, but not impossible, to get meets from cold-messaging alone.

Have you tried clubs and socials?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Billraaj, it takes time and patience. Take it from me, I've been on swinging sites since 2004 and still not managed to find anyone who wants to meet. If you're not someone's type there's not much you can do about it.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Don't think of it as luck.

Putting effort in to it WILL work.

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By *he RingmasterMan
over a year ago

Canford Cliffs


"Billraaj, it takes time and patience. Take it from me, I've been on swinging sites since 2004 and still not managed to find anyone who wants to meet. If you're not someone's type there's not much you can do about it. "

15 years and you are still looking???

That's some optimism

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Profile very dull, to me, not very sincere, and I'm afraid not my type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe some lass will take one for the team and give a sympathy bonk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Billraaj, it takes time and patience. Take it from me, I've been on swinging sites since 2004 and still not managed to find anyone who wants to meet. If you're not someone's type there's not much you can do about it.

15 years and you are still looking???

That's some optimism "

15 years... holy fuck, i dont think swinging is for you. Id find another hobby ....

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By *rinthiaMan
over a year ago

dundee

Ok I’ve not been on her long, and I’ve already been shot down in flames for my opinion on this site.

On a negative it looks like if your after a quick shag it’s not gonna happen , single men are not very welcomed to this site, it’s a swinger site and mainly for couples.

I personally think this site has lost its way a bit and feel most women on her should be on a dating site.

On a positive.... if you are a mf couple you will get invites because of the f involved .

I’m not saying you won’t get a meet if your a single male , just won’t be easy.

There is a big social side to swinging and you will need to be involved with your local meets / parties so you can verifie who you are .

People are looking for trust, which is understandable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Billraaj, it takes time and patience. Take it from me, I've been on swinging sites since 2004 and still not managed to find anyone who wants to meet. If you're not someone's type there's not much you can do about it. "

Do you not think its time to hang up your swingers towel and call it a day then ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Billraaj, it takes time and patience. Take it from me, I've been on swinging sites since 2004 and still not managed to find anyone who wants to meet. If you're not someone's type there's not much you can do about it.

15 years and you are still looking???

That's some optimism "

Haha !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Billraaj, it takes time and patience. Take it from me, I've been on swinging sites since 2004 and still not managed to find anyone who wants to meet. If you're not someone's type there's not much you can do about it.

15 years and you are still looking???

That's some optimism

15 years... holy fuck, i dont think swinging is for you. Id find another hobby ...."

Haha ! Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What am i doing wrong. Im a straight forward guy, treat people as i would like to be treated and don't even get a reply...

Any suggestions please "

Read yer profile text, and my my, yer a smooth talkin son of gun aint ya

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By *ildfire1212Man
over a year ago

fife

Come on girls bring some fun!!!!

I will sit back and say hey how’s you dooin,.,,

I wouldn’t mind the profile so much except your axing about it and corny on laces that’s about it x

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