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By *ees12 OP   Man
over a year ago

pontypridd

I don’t seem to be getting many responses was just wondering if it’s my profile!! What are the best first messages?

Many thanks

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I don’t seem to be getting many responses was just wondering if it’s my profile!! What are the best first messages?

Many thanks

"

There are no ‘best first messages’. Most people read profiles before deciding on whether to answer a message or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you Seaside’s twin brother ( minus the tach) ?

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By *is BitchCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

You are 1 of 1000's of single men on here..Women or couples will only reply if they like the look of your profile

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By *ees12 OP   Man
over a year ago

pontypridd


"Are you Seaside’s twin brother ( minus the tach) ? "

Not got a brother!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Ones that read the profile, respect the wishes of the user, and are polite and personal.

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Ones that read the profile, respect the wishes of the user, and are polite and personal. "

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By *nsatiablepartnerseekerMan
over a year ago

nottingham

Send around 100 and you may get 3 back.

Being honest you really have to keep sending messages and keep them local.

You have almost zero chance over 50 miles out as that lady you sent it to would have had 100s of mails of guys a lot closer

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"I don’t seem to be getting many responses was just wondering if it’s my profile!! What are the best first messages?

Many thanks

"

Yes would say it's your profile .. I looked at it and immediately thought.... same as every bloke on here ... they love pleasing the woman.. they 24 /7 horny they think they give great sex .... but to be honest... how do you know? Bc I certainly don't know if I'm better than any other woman at oral sex ... and I'm certainly not untested in 24/7 sex with somone who is horny all time... I do want to live life too lol ... and before any one jumps it's not meant to offend ... just my point of view as a single woman not wanting a rampant rabbit lol x

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By *ees12 OP   Man
over a year ago

pontypridd


"I don’t seem to be getting many responses was just wondering if it’s my profile!! What are the best first messages?

Many thanks

Yes would say it's your profile .. I looked at it and immediately thought.... same as every bloke on here ... they love pleasing the woman.. they 24 /7 horny they think they give great sex .... but to be honest... how do you know? Bc I certainly don't know if I'm better than any other woman at oral sex ... and I'm certainly not untested in 24/7 sex with somone who is horny all time... I do want to live life too lol ... and before any one jumps it's not meant to offend ... just my point of view as a single woman not wanting a rampant rabbit lol x "

Does it look better now !!

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"I don’t seem to be getting many responses was just wondering if it’s my profile!! What are the best first messages?

Many thanks

Yes would say it's your profile .. I looked at it and immediately thought.... same as every bloke on here ... they love pleasing the woman.. they 24 /7 horny they think they give great sex .... but to be honest... how do you know? Bc I certainly don't know if I'm better than any other woman at oral sex ... and I'm certainly not untested in 24/7 sex with somone who is horny all time... I do want to live life too lol ... and before any one jumps it's not meant to offend ... just my point of view as a single woman not wanting a rampant rabbit lol x

Does it look better now !!"

Erm no ... social meets are not necessary... So you just willing to jump into sex ... makes you sound desperate .... sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t seem to be getting many responses was just wondering if it’s my profile!! What are the best first messages?

Many thanks

"

It's a hard gig my friend, this is just my opinion so do with it what ever you like.

For me it's all in the subject header, your message is just another amongst tons. Make it jump out in amongst others, if its opened & well put together it may lead to someone having a look at your profile.

If they look how are you perceived?

Expand your profile, will you play with anyone? Straight couples? Bi etc.

What sort of play you interested in? Kink, vanilla (lol)

Keep it local.

Veris can be built up via social events or clubs.

Expect nothing, presume nothing & have the patience of a saint lol.

Good luck Op

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