FabSwingers.com forum: Help me improve please :)

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi folks,

I know this gets asked over and over, but if any of you have a spare minute or two would you be prepared to give me some advice on my profile please?

I'd like to know if I'm doing something obviously wrong. Plus, I don't want to look like an idiot!

Just please be gentle, I'm an anxious type

Chris

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Hello. Your profile write up is ok, short and sweet.

Your username would put me off, I'm not interested in nervous guys, although it says that you used to be in the swinging scene so it's a bit of a contradiction.

The pic of you in ladies underwear won't appeal to a lot of ladies but the one from 24th December is a great shot. I'm impressed that you were once a model for Playboy!

At the end of the day it's your profile so you run it as you please, you'll never please everyone!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hello. Your profile write up is ok, short and sweet.

Your username would put me off, I'm not interested in nervous guys, although it says that you used to be in the swinging scene so it's a bit of a contradiction.

The pic of you in ladies underwear won't appeal to a lot of ladies but the one from 24th December is a great shot. I'm impressed that you were once a model for Playboy!

At the end of the day it's your profile so you run it as you please, you'll never please everyone!"

Thank you! Are you referring to the photo of the hand and the dice?

That is actually me. I took the photo a couple of years ago for a book cover (long story).

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

There is no right or wrong way to go about it... Who ever your meeting is just using you anyway so what's it matter all the ins and outs of it?

My profiles gone from crap to worste over time and I still get my nob sucked now and again, I don't do varies either.

It's just about being at right place and time

I've prob had 14 meets in 2 years or so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi folks,

I know this gets asked over and over, but if any of you have a spare minute or two would you be prepared to give me some advice on my profile please?

I'd like to know if I'm doing something obviously wrong. Plus, I don't want to look like an idiot!

Just please be gentle, I'm an anxious type

Chris"

For starters can't you take a look at all the other responses and take it from there. You're pictures are quite bizarre. Not sure if you're trying to be arty but most just don't work.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

You say daytime meets at your home shouldn't be a problem. What about evening meets ?

You have an age discrepancy of 51 and 52.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You say daytime meets at your home shouldn't be a problem. What about evening meets ?

You have an age discrepancy of 51 and 52. "

Ha, the age disparity is because its my birthday in about a week's time. I must have changed it on one place but not another. Thanks for pointing that out!

And evenings are fine. You're right, I should change that. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly nothing wrong with the profile but maybe could be more directional at you target audience. Selfies taken in pubs don't scream 'discerning gent' as much as one in a nice suit does.

Your write up is very factual and gets the point accross but gives no hint to your personality. Maybe slide something funny in there or maybe a quote from a favourite book....something that gives a clue that may gain intrigue in others.

Best of luck OP.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Certainly nothing wrong with the profile but maybe could be more directional at you target audience. Selfies taken in pubs don't scream 'discerning gent' as much as one in a nice suit does.

Best of luck OP."

Thank you. All good advice, it is appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't worry to much, what is hot for one lady is a turn off for another, you really cant please everyone, so just be yourself and who ever you attract is the right kind

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By *ugs and JunkCouple
over a year ago

Bellshill

I’m just worried that maybe your bum is falling off as you seem to be holding it on in a lot of pics

Mrs

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