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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I send loads of messages and no one checks them or it gets deleted almost immediately. And despite posting pictures they are all fabed by men. What is going on?

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

Well on that I would say its obvious! Men are more attracted to you than the women on here.

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By *ylonSlutTV/TS
over a year ago

Durham


"Well on that I would say its obvious! Men are more attracted to you than the women on here. "

There are more men on fab and also men generally like cock pics more than women it seems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that your dad’s dressing gown hanging on the door ?

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By *mp411Man
over a year ago

chester

Profile advice lol mate your in for a roasting Hahahaha

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By *uffnmuffCouple
over a year ago

London

Get out in the real world go to a club. Its so much better than looking for meets on here. X

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

You're still a really new user here, so this will hold you back, as will being a single guy. People read profiles when they get a message, so make that 99% of your focus now, to increase your chances. This includes photos.

You need to really reveal the unique you and sell yourself to the max. Consider what others need and benefit from - we know it includes a cpck but as you realise that's not the key thing.

Looking at it I fell I would benefit from seeing how you look, as a whole. Consider how you could use other photos to reveal how your body is an asset and give us a better sense of how you'd look stood in front of me - from seeing this perspective I'd be imagining you about to enjoy sex with me. Once people have formed that imagined experience, you're closer to having a real fuck - start feeding the imagination and then let your profile text build on it. We could then better grasp why you may be the right guy to come and fuck together.

If NSA is the main need, emphasize this - atm it's a mixed message.

Then add more of your 'offer', so we grasp if you match really well. Assuming your messages are not fancy a fuck types, your profile can then open more doors. Read up on profile advice and then experiment with changes, to see which adjustments seem to improve things.

But it's still good for you guys to know that it can involve enormous effort to get sex here, especially when a new user. If you want fairly standard sex and do really well in the real world, consider why you are really here - especially if you are not active in the swinging world. If you aren't then getting out and meeting us in person is a valuable step.

Good luck and happy Christmas!

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island


"I send loads of messages and no one checks them or it gets deleted almost immediately. And despite posting pictures they are all fabed by men. What is going on? "

Welcome to the exciting world of Fab.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Fabbed your pics to make you feel better

I am afraid to say that 95% of our messages are from single guys so feel your pain in trying to get a meet, it is top heavy with guys at the moment and I imagine trying to get a meet to get verified must be tiring, bless you for trying, hopefully you will get lucky.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is that your dad’s dressing gown hanging on the door ? "

Maybe my catastrophic failing at this site is indeed my trusty dressing gown ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I send loads of messages and no one checks them or it gets deleted almost immediately. And despite posting pictures they are all fabed by men. What is going on?

Welcome to the exciting world of Fab."

Agreed fellow libs geezer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I send loads of messages and no one checks them or it gets deleted almost immediately. And despite posting pictures they are all fabed by men. What is going on? "

Bide your time chat on here go to the club's

You just wait for your first meet fella

If it's anything like mine you'll be hooked

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fabbed your pics to make you feel better

I am afraid to say that 95% of our messages are from single guys so feel your pain in trying to get a meet, it is top heavy with guys at the moment and I imagine trying to get a meet to get verified must be tiring, bless you for trying, hopefully you will get lucky. "

Thankyou have a fab back! and enjoy both your xmas’s ??

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria


"Fabbed your pics to make you feel better

I am afraid to say that 95% of our messages are from single guys so feel your pain in trying to get a meet, it is top heavy with guys at the moment and I imagine trying to get a meet to get verified must be tiring, bless you for trying, hopefully you will get lucky.

Thankyou have a fab back! and enjoy both your xmas’s ??"

Your welcome x And thank you x hope you have a lovely Christmas too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's that you have to keep posting and reply and messege females or couples we would meet but we're not in London as a break is all you need then you will get loads of offers and verifications so don't give up but bear with it. Rachel and Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have also fabbed ur pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I send loads of messages and no one checks them or it gets deleted almost immediately. And despite posting pictures they are all fabed by men. What is going on? "

Welcome to fab ... Don't give up and keep trying

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By *heycallmehanWoman
over a year ago

nr wakefield

Don’t post a dick pic with a bin in shot... think about how it looks to others!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fabbed your pics to make you feel better

I am afraid to say that 95% of our messages are from single guys so feel your pain in trying to get a meet, it is top heavy with guys at the moment and I imagine trying to get a meet to get verified must be tiring, bless you for trying, hopefully you will get lucky.

Thankyou have a fab back! and enjoy both your xmas’s ??

Your welcome x And thank you x hope you have a lovely Christmas too x"

Speaking to the friends on here I see regular . In my opinion you would do best to not show a cock picture and try to be a little imaginative with your pics ... Have a look at your profile wording and try to focus on your likes and dislikes. Keep trying OP .

Don't give up and keep trying... We can't all like the same things in people . Get to a club or a social and get your name out there ... After all it all about networking. Happy Fabbing and Merry Christmas

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