FabSwingers.com forum: Bi- experience wanted. FF.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I want to experience the sensuality of stroking and passionately kissing another woman, but I am shy and inexperienced.

This is clear on our profile and although we are in contact with several couples, no lady has shown any interest in playing directly with me (Mrs).

Any advice on what we might be doing wrong would be appreciated.

Thank you lovelies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Didn’t mean to have a title that sounds like an advertisement

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's the fact that your husband would be taking the lead in your experience that is putting the women off...

From personal view - exploring is fun in itself and audience wouldn't bother me at all. But if I know someone else would be orchestrating it then I wouldn't be interested.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by the amount of fmf threads which are always looking for that elisive female to join them then I'm not surprised your finding it hard. Maybe join as a single female to another site like tinder would be easier.

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By *almprintsWoman
over a year ago

deepest, darkest West

Hi, I always look for the woman to be the driver of a ffm arrangement then I know its what she wants....rather than doing what her husband wants. But keep trying, some lucky lady will be delighted to play with you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So your happy to meet for ff as the post says or you are looking for ffm which is a big difference

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By *lossie 42Couple
over a year ago

WARRINGTON

I would love to meet with you.. Shame you're so far away.

I'm not massively experienced but I'd be your Guinea pig.

Like others have said though, wouldn't be with being directed by you husband though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for tips guys

I will take it all under consideration

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Meetimg a woman for 1:1 play is a different dynamic to the scenario where the m/bf is present. That scene feels more like a bit of lezza action for the bloke to get off on.

Create your own profile. Get verified, and not just by your bf.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a balance to reach in a couple scenario where there’s pure FF play, which means it does have to be natural, not directed and not a show for the men, because any hint of that then makes it feel entirely unnatural and not nearly as fun.

It’s not impossible to reach as a couple meet, but both the men should understand the dynamic, and understand it is FF play for the ladies enjoyment, not their own (which is rare).

Such situations have been hit and miss for us, but when it’s a hit, it’s fantastic for all

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There’s a balance to reach in a couple scenario where there’s pure FF play, which means it does have to be natural, not directed and not a show for the men, because any hint of that then makes it feel entirely unnatural and not nearly as fun.

It’s not impossible to reach as a couple meet, but both the men should understand the dynamic, and understand it is FF play for the ladies enjoyment, not their own (which is rare).

Such situations have been hit and miss for us, but when it’s a hit, it’s fantastic for all

That’s really helpful, thank you.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Perhaps have a single F profile OP. Good luck. X

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I would suggest you go to a club as you might find it a little bit easier to find what you're looking for easier there.

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By *zamiWoman
over a year ago

LONDON

"I want to experience the sensuality of stroking and passionately kissing another woman, but I am shy and inexperienced.

This is clear on our profile and although we are in contact with several couples, no lady has shown any interest in playing directly with me (Mrs).

Any advice on what we might be doing wrong would be appreciated.

Thank you lovelies.

Im looking for FF but dont want a man present

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suddenly wishing I was nearer Essex.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

If we were closer, we would certainly be happy to meet you and see how things go.

However, I would not be comfortable being directed.

Maybe try clubs...

Nita

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

If hubby is there it's not ff play op.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

OP you may need to be more clear about what you are looking for and how you want to play. Your profile only mentions meeting couples - there is nothing at all about meeting single ladies.

Most single ladies who want to play with other women are happy to meet without any male partners present. It gets much more difficult to arrange a meet where the men will watch and direct. Nobody likes to be made to feel like a performing seal. If a lady is meeting a couple she is most likely going to want to fuck both of you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, feel free to check out our profile...we’re not that far away

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

In the right situation I would be happy to meet a woman and have her partner watch, but not direct.

Maybe you could open up the idea up to meeting another couple but the men just watch the ladies?

Just an idea of course.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In the right situation I would be happy to meet a woman and have her partner watch, but not direct.

Maybe you could open up the idea up to meeting another couple but the men just watch the ladies?

Just an idea of course. "

I like your thinking, I hadn’t meant for it to suggest that hubby will be directing or is instigating the whole thing, it’s all me I’m just inexperienced and need encouragement

lol.

Thanks for reply xx

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