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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No veri's no meets, no meets no veri's. Even a club I recently looked at , single males min 2 veri's. I even got a reply saying I couldn't be genuine cos I'd got no veri's after 2 months!

How to get taken seriously without a previous meet?

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

Go to a social. Or go in chat, show your face on cam and ask to be verified. It’s what I did when I first joined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try meeting people for a chat over coffee perhaps?

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

Morning..chatting in the forums is the easiest way for people to get an idea of who you are and what you're about.

A social can follow on from that, or web cam chat..and there's your verification.

Merry Xmas to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to a social. Or go in chat, show your face on cam and ask to be verified. It’s what I did when I first joined. "

Men can't get a webcam veri.. According to site FAQ..

How do I get verified by other members?

You need to find someone who is already verified and ask them to verify you. If you are a couple or a woman then you can get verified by webcam. An easy way to do this is to go into the chatroom while you are both there, switch your webcam on and ask someone to verify you. If you are a single guy then you need to meet someone.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria


"No veri's no meets, no meets no veri's. Even a club I recently looked at , single males min 2 veri's. I even got a reply saying I couldn't be genuine cos I'd got no veri's after 2 months!

How to get taken seriously without a previous meet? "

Nothing will come to you have to go get it .. clubs socials

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante


" Even a club I recently looked at , single males min 2 veri's. "

Why would a club say this...not everyone is on Fab

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"Go to a social. Or go in chat, show your face on cam and ask to be verified. It’s what I did when I first joined.

Men can't get a webcam veri.. According to site FAQ..

How do I get verified by other members?

You need to find someone who is already verified and ask them to verify you. If you are a couple or a woman then you can get verified by webcam. An easy way to do this is to go into the chatroom while you are both there, switch your webcam on and ask someone to verify you. If you are a single guy then you need to meet someone."

When did that happen? Loads of blokes have cam veris and I’ve given them myself as first verifications.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth


"Go to a social. Or go in chat, show your face on cam and ask to be verified. It’s what I did when I first joined.

Men can't get a webcam veri.. According to site FAQ..

How do I get verified by other members?

You need to find someone who is already verified and ask them to verify you. If you are a couple or a woman then you can get verified by webcam. An easy way to do this is to go into the chatroom while you are both there, switch your webcam on and ask someone to verify you. If you are a single guy then you need to meet someone."

As I thought - just had a message from a guy with one veri, it’s a cam one from 18 Dec. FAQ may be out of date?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Go to a social. Or go in chat, show your face on cam and ask to be verified. It’s what I did when I first joined.

Men can't get a webcam veri.. According to site FAQ..

How do I get verified by other members?

You need to find someone who is already verified and ask them to verify you. If you are a couple or a woman then you can get verified by webcam. An easy way to do this is to go into the chatroom while you are both there, switch your webcam on and ask someone to verify you. If you are a single guy then you need to meet someone."

Men can get cam verified, I've helped lots of them with this and continue to do so when free.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


" Even a club I recently looked at , single males min 2 veri's.

Why would a club say this...not everyone is on Fab"

Too keep the number of single males down? Seems a bit unfair to be honest.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

I rather think that there are two other glaring issues that are preventing the OP getting meets

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Meet people socially for meets and pick clubs where you can visit without needing Fab veris. In the years I've been here I've met many people, not just for sex - there's a huge social aspect to swinging and the site.

And there are other unverified users who will potentially be happy to meet you too, in the meantime.

Fab socials are a way to meet lots of other fab users - many verified - some of whom would verify you. Otherwise, get to know people on the site and meet up, for a coffee etc.

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

We ignore Cam verifications to be honest. There are plenty of clubs that have single guy events and socials are fairly easy to find. Anyway, if this swinging stuff was easy then everyone would do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rather think that there are two other glaring issues that are preventing the OP getting meets "

Yep just looked and agree with that

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I rather think that there are two other glaring issues that are preventing the OP getting meets

Yep just looked and agree with that"

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I rather think that there are two other glaring issues that are preventing the OP getting meets

Yep just looked and agree with that "

Me too

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I rather think that there are two other glaring issues that are preventing the OP getting meets

Yep just looked and agree with that "

However, if a female had that double standards would apply to most on here. Funny that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" Even a club I recently looked at , single males min 2 veri's.

Why would a club say this...not everyone is on Fab"

It was on this site that the evening was advertised . I thought with a bit of time off over Christmas I'd look at a club meet or something , though not really my thing to turn up where I don't know any1. There are so many single men on every site that these barriers can be put in place in order to just reduce the numbers wishing to attend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I rather think that there are two other glaring issues that are preventing the OP getting meets

Yep just looked and agree with that

However, if a female had that double standards would apply to most on here. Funny that. "

That's exactly the response my friend has, she is openly married on here and yet couples that display 'no married men' on their profile have no problem with her joining them. She even suggested that I join them and they declined on the grounds I was married! It put her off them so she didn't meet them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rather think that there are two other glaring issues that are preventing the OP getting meets

Yep just looked and agree with that

However, if a female had that double standards would apply to most on here. Funny that.

That's exactly the response my friend has, she is openly married on here and yet couples that display 'no married men' on their profile have no problem with her joining them. She even suggested that I join them and they declined on the grounds I was married! It put her off them so she didn't meet them again. "

For us married is married Wether it's male or female. Yes we will meet married if we can chat the the husband or wife first

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