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By *azertc OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry

So, I've been on FAB for a few weeks now and I seem to be going nowhere fast. I've messaged a lot of ladies and not had as good a response as I might have liked. I'm not too disheartened, as I think all good things come to those that wait. Does anybody have any advice on how to improve my situation? Many thanks in advance.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Two weeks is nothing in the life of a single male here. You needs patience and you need to stand out from the thousands of other single males.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Attend socials and clubs

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Two is not a few OP.

Not when you're talking time on Fab.

Patience Grasshopper.......

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

48, nice home judging by the background, but can't accommodate. Could that be due to the ring on your finger that is clearly visible?

We're not judging, it really is none of our business, but that could be one reason why you're not getting what you are looking for.

You say that you have messaged 'a lot of ladies', could it be that you need to tailor your messages a little more towards the people you are looking to meet?

Other than that, your profile looks fine, so good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with posters above. Also, you are limiting yourself quite a lot by your age limit. You're 47, happy to shag 18 year old (who could easily be your daughter, from the age difference) but a 49 year old woman, just 2 years your senior, is out.

Make yourself stand out from all the thousands of other single guys. Ok, a big plus to you, no cock pic in public photos, and face pic. But your bio is not attractive.

Also, find me a guy who is not happy to receive oral...

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By *azertc OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry

Fair point from you there, much appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of fab as a moon lighting and your main job is bars, tinder and accidental hook ups. If you get anything from here it's a little bonus but don't think it will put bread on the table every night.

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By *azertc OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry

Really appreciate your honesty. When messaging I do try and tailor my message to each individual where possible. Should I be putting on my profile that I'm Married even though you can clearly see the ring on my finger?

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By *azertc OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"Think of fab as a moon lighting and your main job is bars, tinder and accidental hook ups. If you get anything from here it's a little bonus but don't think it will put bread on the table every night."

Very well expressed, love it.

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By *azertc OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"Two weeks is nothing in the life of a single male here. You needs patience and you need to stand out from the thousands of other single males.

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Thank you very much.

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By *azertc OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"Agree with posters above. Also, you are limiting yourself quite a lot by your age limit. You're 47, happy to shag 18 year old (who could easily be your daughter, from the age difference) but a 49 year old woman, just 2 years your senior, is out.

Make yourself stand out from all the thousands of other single guys. Ok, a big plus to you, no cock pic in public photos, and face pic. But your bio is not attractive.

Also, find me a guy who is not happy to receive oral... "

Why is my bio not attractive? What would you suggest apart from the obvious oral bit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why is my bio not attractive? What would you suggest apart from the obvious oral bit?"

It just doesn't stand out. What have you got to offer to any potential meet? Do be honest about being married, even if you have her permission (don't know and personally don't care whether or not you do).

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By *azertc OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"Why is my bio not attractive? What would you suggest apart from the obvious oral bit?

It just doesn't stand out. What have you got to offer to any potential meet? Do be honest about being married, even if you have her permission (don't know and personally don't care whether or not you do). "

Ok thank you

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


" Do be honest about being married, even if you have her permission (don't know and personally don't care whether or not you do). "

Agreed.

It's your business however.

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