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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Tell us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shouldn't have

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Green arrow.

I shouldn't have, but it felt so good..

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By *ayPantyLoverMan
over a year ago

Huntingdon

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no regrets- I adore the people I meet

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Sure have.

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

We all have regrets.

Shouldn't have,but all part of life's rich tapestry.

Also wonder whether I should've but didn't, due to it not feeling right.

A should've could so easy turn into a shouldn't have.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

If I'd done this, no way would I post it on a swingers site for all to see, including non fabbers. You can read the forums by doing a Google search. Anyone can access them.

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By *enfalMan
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

No sure regret is the right word but maybe thought shouldn’t have after the event then the answer would be yes

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath


"If I'd done this, no way would I post it on a swingers site for all to see, including non fabbers. You can read the forums by doing a Google search. Anyone can access them. "

We're only talking in general terms aren't we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. With a guy off here. Who told me he was single. Met up with him about 10 times over 4 months before discovering he was married, had been for 32 years and all the stuff he told me was lies.

I told his wife about his shenanigans. I wouldn't have if he'd been honest with me, but he doesn't even know how to spell the word.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If I'd done this, no way would I post it on a swingers site for all to see, including non fabbers. You can read the forums by doing a Google search. Anyone can access them. "

Yeah, I'm certainly not sharing.

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

So sorry to hear about your experience.

I'm guessing he lied as telling the truth wouldn't get the results he desired.

The 3 of you have learned some important lessons.

Sadly his will be to be more careful. Lol

I often read that women are attracted to the site as fabbers are more truthful about what they want. Not necessarily so.

What was the question again?

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath

Sorry, last post was aimed at suckitandsee69. Couldn't pm her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell us "

Ahh it was a 'I gotta wank off to another story' right now!

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath


"Tell us

Ahh it was a 'I gotta wank off to another story' right now!

"

OP just getting his face up there.

I'm thinking Frasier 'im listening'.

Still,got us chatting

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Tell us

Ahh it was a 'I gotta wank off to another story' right now!

"

Free erotica websites exist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I'd done this, no way would I post it on a swingers site for all to see, including non fabbers. You can read the forums by doing a Google search. Anyone can access them. "

I don’t think everybody realise these forums are public!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had sex I shouldn’t have. Don’t regret it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So sorry to hear about your experience.

I'm guessing he lied as telling the truth wouldn't get the results he desired.

The 3 of you have learned some important lessons.

Sadly his will be to be more careful. Lol

I often read that women are attracted to the site as fabbers are more truthful about what they want. Not necessarily so.

What was the question again? "

It was a massive learning curve for me! He has now deleted his profile. There will be broken hearts all over Lancashire....

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By *hlasherMan
over a year ago

Gloucester

I sucked a customer off in his garage while his wife was in the kitchen making me a cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've shagged many a married man from this site. I have no regrets. I'm married too. I think it's wrong to judge people or stereotype them. There is no emotion attached. It is a sex site. And we should not be judge and jury

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've shagged many a married man from this site. I have no regrets. I'm married too. I think it's wrong to judge people or stereotype them. There is no emotion attached. It is a sex site. And we should not be judge and jury "

Exactly. There’s two sides to every story too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shouldn't have "

O.o the burn

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By *humper9erMan
over a year ago

Rocklin

Yes I did. Shouldn't have, but, no regrets!

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath


"I've shagged many a married man from this site. I have no regrets. I'm married too. I think it's wrong to judge people or stereotype them. There is no emotion attached. It is a sex site. And we should not be judge and jury "

As marriages often end up sexless, its inevitable that people will seek solace elsewhere.

I think that the regrets are when its sex for all the wrong reasons, just because you can.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My only regret are the things that I haven't done yet...........

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By *anana JoeMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Posh Spice.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Thanks but no pm's needed with people asking either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure the self appointed FAB moral police will have something to say about that, but absolutely agree....and that’s from a “real” couple as well. If they do what they do, men or women, that’s their business and we are certainly not interested in judging anyone at all for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've shagged many a married man from this site. I have no regrets. I'm married too. I think it's wrong to judge people or stereotype them. There is no emotion attached. It is a sex site. And we should not be judge and jury

Exactly. There’s two sides to every story too. "

I think she was just saying the guy should be open about it so she had a choice whether to meet or not. It's not about judging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't .eet with married men to avoid any backlash, but that doesn't mean I judge them, I understand when partners get ill or go off sex, but I do feel they should clearly state on their profiles so we can avoid messaging or we can say no thank you at the beginning rather than being led down the garden path.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't .eet with married men to avoid any backlash, but that doesn't mean I judge them, I understand when partners get ill or go off sex, but I do feel they should clearly state on their profiles so we can avoid messaging or we can say no thank you at the beginning rather than being led down the garden path. "

Actually despite what we said about about not judging and happy to meet married people, agree with this and would like to be told the truth. Either way it doesn’t matter but lying to us does (what you say to your other half is your business lol)

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

Yes, several married men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regrets alot as despite everything she was a fun girl

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne


"Yes. With a guy off here. Who told me he was single. Met up with him about 10 times over 4 months before discovering he was married, had been for 32 years and all the stuff he told me was lies.

I told his wife about his shenanigans. I wouldn't have if he'd been honest with me, but he doesn't even know how to spell the word."

Why would you do something so horrible to a person and ruin his life by telling his wife (and worse, ruin his wife's and even children's lives)??? Couldn't you just say no more and thank you very much????

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses


"Yes. With a guy off here. Who told me he was single. Met up with him about 10 times over 4 months before discovering he was married, had been for 32 years and all the stuff he told me was lies.

I told his wife about his shenanigans. I wouldn't have if he'd been honest with me, but he doesn't even know how to spell the word.

Why would you do something so horrible to a person and ruin his life by telling his wife (and worse, ruin his wife's and even children's lives)??? Couldn't you just say no more and thank you very much????"

Agreed!

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath


"My only regret are the things that I haven't done yet..........."

Regrets are exclusively past tense.

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By *illen5Man
over a year ago

Bath


"Yes. With a guy off here. Who told me he was single. Met up with him about 10 times over 4 months before discovering he was married, had been for 32 years and all the stuff he told me was lies.

I told his wife about his shenanigans. I wouldn't have if he'd been honest with me, but he doesn't even know how to spell the word.

Why would you do something so horrible to a person and ruin his life by telling his wife (and worse, ruin his wife's and even children's lives)??? Couldn't you just say no more and thank you very much????"

A woman scorned. She felt betrayed. I think its a common occurance and consequencejust not on fab. Would probably say its to stop him doing his thing to others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. With a guy off here. Who told me he was single. Met up with him about 10 times over 4 months before discovering he was married, had been for 32 years and all the stuff he told me was lies.

I told his wife about his shenanigans. I wouldn't have if he'd been honest with me, but he doesn't even know how to spell the word.

Why would you do something so horrible to a person and ruin his life by telling his wife (and worse, ruin his wife's and even children's lives)??? Couldn't you just say no more and thank you very much????

A woman scorned. She felt betrayed. I think its a common occurance and consequencejust not on fab. Would probably say its to stop him doing his thing to others."

Yes but two wrongs don’t make it right......

Someone should be the adult in this situation...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. With a guy off here. Who told me he was single. Met up with him about 10 times over 4 months before discovering he was married, had been for 32 years and all the stuff he told me was lies.

I told his wife about his shenanigans. I wouldn't have if he'd been honest with me, but he doesn't even know how to spell the word.

Why would you do something so horrible to a person and ruin his life by telling his wife (and worse, ruin his wife's and even children's lives)??? Couldn't you just say no more and thank you very much????

A woman scorned. She felt betrayed. I think its a common occurance and consequencejust not on fab. Would probably say its to stop him doing his thing to others.

Yes but two wrongs don’t make it right......

Someone should be the adult in this situation..."

It wasn't the fact he was married that upset me the most, although it broke my heart... Its the fact he lied SO much. Obviously his real life is so sad and boring he invented a fantasy one to run alongside it. He deserves everything he gets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes. With a guy off here. Who told me he was single. Met up with him about 10 times over 4 months before discovering he was married, had been for 32 years and all the stuff he told me was lies.

I told his wife about his shenanigans. I wouldn't have if he'd been honest with me, but he doesn't even know how to spell the word.

Why would you do something so horrible to a person and ruin his life by telling his wife (and worse, ruin his wife's and even children's lives)??? Couldn't you just say no more and thank you very much????"

What about the horrible stuff he did to me??? You don't know the whole story so don't judge thank you

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