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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi I'm new to fab I've tried messaging people where i do add my real face pics in the messages but don't get a reply/ignored. Can someone give me any good tips or show me if there's something wrong with my profile. Thank you

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

What exactly are soft meets -social only?

Surely you are a voyeur at the very least -otherwise no one in their right mind would just join fab for coffee and dirty talk?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well i ment as a social meet first before a play. Maybe i worded that wrong. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I'm new to fab I've tried messaging people where i do add my real face pics in the messages but don't get a reply/ignored. Can someone give me any good tips or show me if there's something wrong with my profile. Thank you"

Don’t expect a reply on every message you send.

They are people on here that get a large amount of messages and just wouldn’t have the time to reply to them all, even to say no thanks.

Also 1 public pic isn’t going to make you stand out from the 100’s of guys on here.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Having a status saying " bored now" is offputting

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By *ifuwMan
over a year ago

Hull

I don't use the site to message people. Their is loads of guys on here. Sonic cut them out by going to the club's. Which can be daunting to some single guys. I just use the site to keep in contact with my meets and the people I meet at the club

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thing is im very new tk swinging so going to a club is gonna be a bit different from me because i won't know what to expect

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By *emel9Man
over a year ago

West Midlands

Firstly I#d never have the type of profile pic you have, it often puts people off. If you don't want to show your face then maybe a clothed, full length pic, cut off before your face.

Then I'd get yourself to an organised group social near you. They are still a nervous thing to do but as a no play environment they are easier than a club.

You will meet alsorts of people and you can be verified as genuine and meeting in person. That way people get more of a sense that you'll turn up for meets.

Try to also make sure you have a put some effort in to your profile. Be clear about who you are and what you are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback mate

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Set a profile picture. Some people won't respond without one.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

People will read your profile and if they feel drawn to you they may reply,

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Public pic of your pants and no bio to speak of. Beef up your bio with what you can offer and put some more public pics on. Lots of existing threads on profile advice, perhaps check them out as well. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi I'm new to fab I've tried messaging people where i do add my real face pics in the messages but don't get a reply/ignored. Can someone give me any good tips or show me if there's something wrong with my profile. Thank you"

You don't really have a profile. Just look at some others. You would be better starting again.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

It’s pretty crap tbh . Would you reply to it ? And not sure what confidentiality you need to not put face photos up but most will think you are embarrassed of what you do or your in a relationship .

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Patience is the key here, because it might take you several years to be accepted into the fold and possibly even longer to get a meet.

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By *irky_coupleCouple
over a year ago

kirky

Confidentiality reasons? What a load of rubbish seeing as you are happy to send them on request.

TBH the whole profile sounds off.

Can't meet at night because of nightshift? I work nights but not 7 nights a week.

Can't accommodate? As a single guy You're chances just nosedived to less than 1%.

Most will think you're a guy playing away from home. Just the way it is im afraid

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