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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi I've been on here nearly a month now but been thinking about taking the jump and going to a local club but keep on deciding last minute not to go cause of nerves

Anyone got any advice on what to do

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Research local clubs (including, maybe especially, on here). Read around the forum about things like etiquette. Find a newbie night or a party that would suit you.

If you go, don't expect to get laid. It's a night out in a new environment. Don't drink much, d*unk in a swingers club is bad news. Ask the staff for a tour and tips on etiquette. Be polite and respectful if watching or chatting. If you're nervous, be around the bar area and make small talk like you might in a pub. Unless you're being a wanker (unless wanking is welcome) then you'll be OK.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would it be worth trying to go with someone who's been before

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Would it be worth trying to go with someone who's been before "

If you know someone who's willing to take you, yes. If you're planning on asking women on Fab you don't know... no.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok thank you

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

You won't be the first newbie, so don't be shy about telling the staff. They will look after you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for the advice

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