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How was your first time?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have our first planned play meet later today.

I was wondering, if there are any Fabsters that have recently had their own first time meets, how did it go?

Feel free to direct message if you would rather do that than put it on the forum.

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

Was good meet at a club for our first full swap so relaxed no pressure , have had a few ffm before which where soft swap

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Mine was ages ago, but it was lovely. Only marred by my nerves!

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By *hocksandmissusCouple
over a year ago

Chester-ish

Our first meet was many years ago now but i can still remember every second of it. It was truly an amazing experience with all the nerves and excitement that we hadn't really felt since we first got together ourselves.

After we left and came home we also had some amazing sex too so most deferentially a win win here xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have our first planned play meet later today.

I was wondering, if there are any Fabsters that have recently had their own first time meets, how did it go?

Feel free to direct message if you would rather do that than put it on the forum.

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First planned meet I was (accidentally) stood up, second planned meet was cancelled very last minute and third planned meet went really well but it later turned out he neglected to mention his girlfriend who I'm not entirely convinced was aware of his side adventures

Please don't let me put you off though! There's strength in playing as a couple vs. as a single woman, I feel.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I had to cancel my first meet because I landed my stupid arse in hospital the day before!

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By *rtraymondo76Man
over a year ago

Cheltenham

My first "meet" was sort of accidental. Months of chat lead to a lunch (definitely lunch only, cos I was MUCH too old), but a long pub lunch and afternoon/evening turned into an overnight, followed by three further weekends. So, who knows how things will turn out. By the way, she was 31 years younger.

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By *iglad500 XXXMan
over a year ago

mountain ash

I was nervous and excited my first time but the lady i met knew this and she was brilliant there are nice people on here and they will put to ease x

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By *ily Con CarneTV/TS
over a year ago

Cornwall


"I had to cancel my first meet because I landed my stupid arse in hospital the day before! "
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...'bloody time water lol... .....runs off laffin'

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Our first play meet did not go well. We built it up in our heads, had these grand plans of what the perfect meet should be but unfortunately our inexperience meant we went along with things. The female half of the other couple got blind d*unk and havjng been asked to go to theirs for the whole evening the guy said when we got there that he was going to work in an hour or so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our very first meet wasn't great, looking back we didn't explain very well what we was looking for so the scenario we had in our heads was nothing like what happened.

Years on and some experience under our belts we have learnt to talk a lot to the other party and find out exactly what we're all looking for in the meet.

Good luck with your first meet and hopefully it's everything you hoped for. Xx

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By *orthcoupleXXXCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Our first meet went really well, we met with a couple who took us for our first visit to a club, wished we had done it sooner

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By *edoCoolMan
over a year ago

london

Good luck for your first meet!

Had my first time meet a couple of weeks ago. Had a social meet first, agreed to a proper meet the following week, then postponed cos she got sick. Finally met up week after after a steady build up of friendly and sexy texts and we were noth raring to go! Spent the night together and I must say it was a joy - everything I joped it'd be.

I think the build-up helped but it's great when you click with like-minded people.

I'm hoping to do the same with a nice couple in the near future, drop me a line if you'd like to know more...

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