FabSwingers.com forum: Help a brother

By *enbobjim OP Man
over a year ago

Wallasey

I am trying, not desperately but trying to get together with some bi couples. Any advice or feedback about my profile would be greatly appreciated. Had great mmf veri but they left the site all my others from tvs or gb, that put couples off?

Ta x

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

You're a member at townhouse. Go there, get veri'd.

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By *esterLilacCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

"I am trying, not desperately but trying to get together with some bi couples. Any advice or feedback about my profile would be greatly appreciated. Had great mmf veri but they left the site all my others from tvs or gb, that put couples off?

Ta x"

Townhouse have a really popular bi night full of bi couples. They have plenty of bi couple members attending most nights too. Perfect place to meet people and like the other poster said, it’s also a great place to go and socialise and get some veris.

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By *enbobjim OP Man
over a year ago

Wallasey

Thanks guys, yes love it there. I’ll keep a look out for next one. Think the underwear kink puts people off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish people would not tell people to go to a swingers club to get verified..... people who frequent the clubs are not there to be used.

You should only go to a swingers club if your actually interested in being part of the club scene. Its not a quick way to get yourself verified so you can come back to fab and arrange private meets.

Anyone having sex with me at a club just to get a veri will be very disappointed afterwards as I don't give out veri's....and I will not tell them that in advance either!

Also not everyone at a club is a member on here so what you gonna do.....go round asking people "are you on fab" and move on to someone else if the answer is no.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

"I wish people would not tell people to go to a swingers club to get verified..... people who frequent the clubs are not there to be used.

You should only go to a swingers club if your actually interested in being part of the club scene. Its not a quick way to get yourself verified so you can come back to fab and arrange private meets.

Anyone having sex with me at a club just to get a veri will be very disappointed afterwards as I don't give out veri's....and I will not tell them that in advance either!

Also not everyone at a club is a member on here so what you gonna do.....go round asking people "are you on fab" and move on to someone else if the answer is no."

The owners are usually quite happy to verify people if that haven’t already been verified. People do need to start somewhere as some won’t meet unverified people or ask them to parties or socials. It’s a vicious circle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To add a counter arguement to above ^

It IS a quick way to get verified.. not as quick as web cam though

We have verified many people we have just chatted to in clubs.

Not met many people in clubs who are not on fab (about 2 or 3)..

so there you go. A vote here for going to clubs to get verified

good luck OP

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By *enbobjim OP Man
over a year ago

Wallasey

Ah thank you x

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"I wish people would not tell people to go to a swingers club to get verified..... people who frequent the clubs are not there to be used.

You should only go to a swingers club if your actually interested in being part of the club scene. Its not a quick way to get yourself verified so you can come back to fab and arrange private meets.

Anyone having sex with me at a club just to get a veri will be very disappointed afterwards as I don't give out veri's....and I will not tell them that in advance either!

Also not everyone at a club is a member on here so what you gonna do.....go round asking people "are you on fab" and move on to someone else if the answer is no."

I take your point, but in this case, OP already said he was a member, which suggests he's reasonably committed to this lifestyle.

And, in general, what *I* would mean is that one can be pretty confident that attending a club will almost always produce veris as a by-product, not as a goal of itself.

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By *icklesCouple
over a year ago

North wales

"Thanks guys, yes love it there. I’ll keep a look out for next one. Think the underwear kink puts people off? "

Next bi night at Townhouse is Friday 18th January xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks guys, yes love it there. I’ll keep a look out for next one. Think the underwear kink puts people off? "

Not at all .... I have plenty of social veris from the club I regularly attend... and the little kink is often a subject people ask about.

Just go out and be yourself... don’t change for anyone just to please them... if you have a kink, then embrace it!

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By *enbobjim OP Man
over a year ago

Wallasey

Thanks mate that’s very reassuring

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Ta x"

I don’t think veri’s are that important.

There are some fake veri’s on this site.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"To add a counter arguement to above ^

It IS a quick way to get verified.. not as quick as web cam though

We have verified many people we have just chatted to in clubs.

Not met many people in clubs who are not on fab (about 2 or 3)..

so there you go. A vote here for going to clubs to get verified

good luck OP"

Agreed

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By *esterLilacCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

"I wish people would not tell people to go to a swingers club to get verified..... people who frequent the clubs are not there to be used.

You should only go to a swingers club if your actually interested in being part of the club scene. Its not a quick way to get yourself verified so you can come back to fab and arrange private meets.

Anyone having sex with me at a club just to get a veri will be very disappointed afterwards as I don't give out veri's....and I will not tell them that in advance either!

Also not everyone at a club is a member on here so what you gonna do.....go round asking people "are you on fab" and move on to someone else if the answer is no."

A veri doesn’t have to be about play at all. Lots of people give social veris. To be honest, I’d rather read a social veri saying someone was lovely, could hold a decent conversation.

Going to a swingers club to get a veri is an easier option for some people.

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By *allSteveMan
over a year ago

Poole

What is everyone's big deal with verifications. Just because you are verified as a genuine person it doesn't automatically make you the safest person in the world to meet. You could still be an absolute headcase!!!

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By *enbobjim OP Man
over a year ago

Wallasey

Well I have started a mass debate haven’t I, my main concern was I am just verified by TVs would that put a couple off? Should I have more body less cock pics?

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