FabSwingers.com forum: Is there anything wrong with my profile

By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

Hi all been on here a little while been verified by a female and now all the messages I send are constantly getting deleted I'm just wondering if my profile is boring are my pictures are naff or if I'm just not what ladies are looking for I know this site us over run with single men which could be why but sadly some guys don't struggle at all lol all help appreciated I do travel I do accomadate so who know haha

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

I get plenty of messages from men and tv/ts/cd just not women and there not even on my looking for list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 weeks on here and you have a veri already. Believe it or not, that's good going, given the m to f ratio on here. I'm sure you'll be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the vest

Only joking

Maybe lower expectations

People have lives

The guy in my avatar and I were speaking for a year (not constantly) before we eventually met

(not saying that's standard but most actually into the life style don't see the rush)

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

Yeah that was 1st lass I messaged must of just been lucky day lol if send like 200 messages since then and all I see when I go through them is delete delete delete lol no worries cheers m8 il keep on trying thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

Haha probably is the vest pmsl wow a year I maybe a silver fox then haha that might helpful but yes everyone is busy and not exactly best time of the year Xmas coming up people busy shopping il just keep trying lol thanks love

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Can't see anything wrong with your profile. Good luck x

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

The Carter's it was a message to a man love his profile says man in sheffield I checked first x

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

Msgiveswood thank you very much appreciated x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah that was 1st lass I messaged must of just been lucky day lol if send like 200 messages since then and all I see when I go through them is delete delete delete lol no worries cheers m8 il keep on trying thanks"

Yeh that's really quite normal. It's best to go into it with no expectations.

I hardly bother sending messages apart from to ones whos photos warrant credit. If anyone's interested in me they can message me. Better things to do. Lol.

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

Sounds like a plan cheers I'm starting to get interested in going to the attic in derby and la chambre in sheffield so maybe better there lol thanks alot for feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Carter's it was a message to a man love his profile says man in sheffield I checked first x"

Yeah that’s why I deleted lol x

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

Oh right you did make me double check though lol I'm not saying love or m8 to you because I don't know which of the couple you are haha

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

Stunning pics though the carters

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

People might wonder why the woman who has verified you has hidden her profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh right you did make me double check though lol I'm not saying love or m8 to you because I don't know which of the couple you are haha "

Press reply and quote lol

Well it says it’s deleted. And I’m a love haha it’s the female here. And thanks for your compliments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't see anything wrong with your profile, but nothing outstanding either. It's like most of the male profiles on here.

As others said, a veri already, with just being here for 3 weeks, is good. Repeat what you did then?

Going back to your profile - have a think of what you can offer to your prospective meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People might wonder why the woman who has verified you has hidden her profile. "

Yeah I can see that actually.

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

Sallyslinky iv never noticed to be honest but yeah possibly love

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

The Carter's ok love and your welcome x

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

Develinangelsbody thanks for your comment love il take it on board and have a think thank you x

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman
over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

OP...

There's nothing 'wrong' with your profile, but it's very bland.

You're basically selling yourself, when people shop they tend to go for something that catches their eye.

Add a few more pics, one you've taken especially for her, not some generic ones saved on your phone (cock pics are not essential

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One thing though... You say you're looking for a regular fuck buddy, and there is nothing wrong with that, I agree sex is better, the more you get to know someone.

But a lot of ladies may see that as you're looking for something exclusive, expect them to just see you.

Not what most people on here are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op! Reply and quote button

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

Pheonixadastra thanks love il try and improve it and yes by regular fuck buddy I can see what you mean il have to get rid of that my cock pics I keep in friends only and I take pics myself so may have to try timer on camera instead of selfie thanks for your help x

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Op! Reply and quote button

Sorry first time on the forums didn't know haha dumb me you know pmsl x

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Good luck with having sex with the same person often in the club scene is all I can say,

Oh and that bit about being a genuine male -do you have proof -we don't like no catfishes round these parts ya know!

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Good luck with having sex with the same person often in the club scene is all I can say,

Oh and that bit about being a genuine male -do you have proof -we don't like no catfishes round these parts ya know!"

Alot of people attend the club scene regular mate iv got friends who do aswel and my pic is verified lmao if I was a catfish ild use a better looking guy haha cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good luck with having sex with the same person often in the club scene is all I can say,

Oh and that bit about being a genuine male -do you have proof -we don't like no catfishes round these parts ya know!

Alot of people attend the club scene regular mate iv got friends who do aswel and my pic is verified lmao if I was a catfish ild use a better looking guy haha cheers"

Haha! Brilliant reply

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Good luck with having sex with the same person often in the club scene is all I can say,

Oh and that bit about being a genuine male -do you have proof -we don't like no catfishes round these parts ya know!

Alot of people attend the club scene regular mate iv got friends who do aswel and my pic is verified lmao if I was a catfish ild use a better looking guy haha cheers

Haha! Brilliant reply "

Haha they say truth hurts I feel iv just kicked myself in teeth it really does hurt x

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"Good luck with having sex with the same person often in the club scene is all I can say,

Oh and that bit about being a genuine male -do you have proof -we don't like no catfishes round these parts ya know!

Alot of people attend the club scene regular mate iv got friends who do aswel and my pic is verified lmao if I was a catfish ild use a better looking guy haha cheers"

You really should know better than to take my reoplies at face value -dig a little deeper and you may discover a nugget or two.

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Good luck with having sex with the same person often in the club scene is all I can say,

Oh and that bit about being a genuine male -do you have proof -we don't like no catfishes round these parts ya know!

Alot of people attend the club scene regular mate iv got friends who do aswel and my pic is verified lmao if I was a catfish ild use a better looking guy haha cheers

You really should know better than to take my reoplies at face value -dig a little deeper and you may discover a nugget or two."

I dont know you m8 so I wouldn't know how to take you bud but anyway nice chat lmao

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

Well new pic uploaded hopefully that will help thanks again every one take care and happy fabbing x

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"Good luck with having sex with the same person often in the club scene is all I can say,

Oh and that bit about being a genuine male -do you have proof -we don't like no catfishes round these parts ya know!

Alot of people attend the club scene regular mate iv got friends who do aswel and my pic is verified lmao if I was a catfish ild use a better looking guy haha cheers

You really should know better than to take my reoplies at face value -dig a little deeper and you may discover a nugget or two.

I dont know you m8 so I wouldn't know how to take you bud but anyway nice chat lmao"

Top tip -use a posters green arrow -the tone of their other posts is often a clue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nowt wrong with it mate I only get messages mostly men TV also

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

We like tall guys and you look in reasonable shape and you don't seem an arse. It follows we'd do you

Let us know if you're ever in London...

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Just throwing it out there....might have nothing to do with your profile and everything to do with your selection proccess and content of your messages ...200 messages in a few weeks all deleted tells a story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love feedback to

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

"I would love feedback to "

In summary. No words, loads of cocks pics. Neither good.

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By *orthcoupleXXXCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"I would love feedback to "

Too many cock pics and not much written on your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would love feedback to "
would you really meet a 99 year old ?

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By *orthcoupleXXXCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"I would love feedback to would you really meet a 99 year old ? "

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Nowt wrong with it mate I only get messages mostly men TV also "

Where's all the women at lmao tv tv tv all the time lmao cheers pal

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"We like tall guys and you look in reasonable shape and you don't seem an arse. It follows we'd do you

Let us know if you're ever in London... "
Aww I'm 6"2 love and no I'm never an ass always like to have a laugh and love your pics I'm in London next year so hopefully see you then x

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

It does in deed pal my messages are quite similar to

Hi love you pics would love to chat sometime with possibility of meeting hope to hear from you soon take care happy fabbing or something like that lol and I think I was exaggerating when I said 200 lol more like 50 m8

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"I would love feedback to

Too many cock pics and not much written on your profile "
my cock pics are in friends only love none in my profile

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"I would love feedback to

Too many cock pics and not much written on your profile "

Oh sorry just realised you was on about the other guy my apologise x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The vest lol

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"The vest lol"

Nooooo not the vest again lol I think I'm going to lose that pic soon lol cheers

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By *orthcoupleXXXCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"The vest lol

Nooooo not the vest again lol I think I'm going to lose that pic soon lol cheers"

Wasn’t on about you lol

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"The vest lol

Nooooo not the vest again lol I think I'm going to lose that pic soon lol cheers

Wasn’t on about you lol "

I realised after I sent reply love and follow it with an apology I missed the message inbetween your picture distracted me lol sorry

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By *orthcoupleXXXCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"The vest lol

Nooooo not the vest again lol I think I'm going to lose that pic soon lol cheers

Wasn’t on about you lol

I realised after I sent reply love and follow it with an apology I missed the message inbetween your picture distracted me lol sorry"

No problem. Can’t see anything wrong with your profile to be fair

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"The vest lol

Nooooo not the vest again lol I think I'm going to lose that pic soon lol cheers

Wasn’t on about you lol

I realised after I sent reply love and follow it with an apology I missed the message inbetween your picture distracted me lol sorry

No problem. Can’t see anything wrong with your profile to be fair "

Great thanks alot love very much appreciated x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id do a close up face pic as profile pic

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Id do a close up face pic as profile pic"

Woooooow don't want to scare people off m8 iv kept it at distance so they maybe more interested haha in watch it looks like close lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can't see your face on profile pic its just a small pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See told you it's the vest

Makes you look like you would knock doors asking if I need a tree cutting down or want to buy any washable rugs iykwim

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"See told you it's the vest

Makes you look like you would knock doors asking if I need a tree cutting down or want to buy any washable rugs iykwim

I'm going to delete it now lmao thanks love and great pics by the way x

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"See told you it's the vest

Makes you look like you would knock doors asking if I need a tree cutting down or want to buy any washable rugs iykwim

It's finally gone lol I may get a message or 2 now lmao thanks for the input greatly appreciated x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"See told you it's the vest

Makes you look like you would knock doors asking if I need a tree cutting down or want to buy any washable rugs iykwim

I'm going to delete it now lmao thanks love and great pics by the way x"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your interests you have ticked do you do all of them?

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By *rchitectMan
over a year ago

Dorchester

Your profile is fine. I am like you a bit fed up with it, the feedback I got was that women get 100+ messages a day.

It’s more by luck if you get messaged back.The problem is if you are one of the nice ones it makes no difference at all.

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Your interests you have ticked do you do all of them?"

Yes I either do all of them or happy to do all of them pal

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Your profile is fine. I am like you a bit fed up with it, the feedback I got was that women get 100+ messages a day.

It’s more by luck if you get messaged back.The problem is if you are one of the nice ones it makes no difference at all."

Very true m8 did you meet the same woman as me (bubblebutt) her husband came home while I was there I had to go out back door while she went to let him in lol her husband looks like Arnold Schwarzenegger pmsl

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By *orthcoupleXXXCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Your interests you have ticked do you do all of them?

Yes I either do all of them or happy to do all of them pal"

Noticed you just tweeked them lol

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Your interests you have ticked do you do all of them?

Yes I either do all of them or happy to do all of them pal

Noticed you just tweeked them lol "

Yes there was one on there I wasn't comfortable with I didn't know was ticked lol soon disappeared when I saw it haha BUSTED x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need a good profile pic to entice the women. Remember most women get 100s messages an hour lol

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"You need a good profile pic to entice the women. Remember most women get 100s messages an hour lol"

No worries thanks for the help

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"You need a good profile pic to entice the women. Remember most women get 100s messages an hour lol"

That better lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes now post in forums to get noticed

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By *ppo Barnsley OP Man
over a year ago

barnsley

"Yes now post in forums to get noticed"

Cheers for help pal greatly appreciated happy fabbing

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