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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Is it clear? There seems to be some confusion or people seeing it as some sort of challenge. Just wondering if people could give some feedback, many thanks xxx

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Use your filters if you don't want people mailing QED.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it clear? There seems to be some confusion or people seeing it as some sort of challenge. Just wondering if people could give some feedback, many thanks xxx "

We hide our profile if we aren’t meeting, saves any confusion regarding meet requests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd see the first line and click the back button (maybe after a perv of the pics anyway), so I'd say it's clear enough for me.

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Thanks for feedback, if I hide or set filters I can't help newbies, also, I often play forum games. I was really asking if the text needs adjusting.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes, it's clear. Don't tell me you get mail from people who haven't read it, I find that very difficult to believe.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

All your profile is lacking is a traffic light -besides what's not to like -and that's saying something from a rusted old cynic like me!

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester


"Thanks for feedback, if I hide or set filters I can't help newbies, also, I often play forum games. I was really asking if the text needs adjusting. "

Unless you hide/block groups of people you will always have the chancers and the ones thinking no harm in asking who will mail you there is little you can do about it.

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

I think the only confusing part is the not meeting, but having a meeting request up. Personally it still seems clear to me, but then I'm smarter than the average bear

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Couldn’t resist sending a photo of my magnificent cock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its fine.

hope your nye party goes well.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

It's a great profile. I like your cat

Unfortunately you could have flashing lights and klaxons sounding, the idiots who don't read profiles, still won't read your profile All you can do is block them one by one - it's like King Canute trying to hold back the waves...

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

As clear as it can be.

When I'm not looking for meets I change my profile (and filters) to reflect that, and I always get someone who I've messaged at one point ages ago saying "I know your profile says you're not meeting, but if you don't try you don't get..." It's an instant block from me.

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Yes, it's clear. Don't tell me you get mail from people who haven't read it, I find that very difficult to believe. "

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I think the only confusing part is the not meeting, but having a meeting request up. Personally it still seems clear to me, but then I'm smarter than the average bear "

That's for my friends on nye x

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Couldn’t resist sending a photo of my magnificent cock! "

It's a lovely cock xx

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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

You say you're not meeting new people, but then a little further down the sentence beginning with "By the way" suggests that you might meet new people.

Some could be confused by this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it clear? There seems to be some confusion or people seeing it as some sort of challenge. Just wondering if people could give some feedback, many thanks xxx "

On mobile phones, which is about 70% of users, the profile is right at the bottom, so people do not read it. I have raised this several times to no avail. The first rule of web design is keep the important information above the fold, but then I have only been doing it for 26 years what do I know.

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By *ndyfrost1977Man
over a year ago

bedworth

Says it loud and clear

Just block um saves hassle simple x

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"Is it clear? There seems to be some confusion or people seeing it as some sort of challenge. Just wondering if people could give some feedback, many thanks xxx "

Very clear - but then I’m a woman so I actually read profiles

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By *enbobjimMan
over a year ago

Wallasey

Definitely clear, but you say ask to see my pics. With that amount of pvt pics I’m sure you getting loads of requests.

Thanks for the advice bit at the bottom x

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Definitely clear, but you say ask to see my pics. With that amount of pvt pics I’m sure you getting loads of requests.

Thanks for the advice bit at the bottom x"

The ask to see my pics is a Sydney University piss take!

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"You say you're not meeting new people, but then a little further down the sentence beginning with "By the way" suggests that you might meet new people.

Some could be confused by this. "

Removed that bit now, thanks x

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"All your profile is lacking is a traffic light -besides what's not to like -and that's saying something from a rusted old cynic like me!"

Thankyou x

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Is it clear? There seems to be some confusion or people seeing it as some sort of challenge. Just wondering if people could give some feedback, many thanks xxx

Very clear - but then I’m a woman so I actually read profiles "

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Says it loud and clear

Just block um saves hassle simple x"

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Is it clear? There seems to be some confusion or people seeing it as some sort of challenge. Just wondering if people could give some feedback, many thanks xxx

On mobile phones, which is about 70% of users, the profile is right at the bottom, so people do not read it. I have raised this several times to no avail. The first rule of web design is keep the important information above the fold, but then I have only been doing it for 26 years what do I know."

This is very true, some ate unlikely to bother scrolling down.

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"I'd see the first line and click the back button (maybe after a perv of the pics anyway), so I'd say it's clear enough for me."

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Yes, it's clear. Don't tell me you get mail from people who haven't read it, I find that very difficult to believe. "

I know, I'm totally gobsmacked.

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Thanks for all your helpful comments, ladies and gents, much appreciated! I've adjusted it, so hopefully a little clearer now. I don't want to hide or use filters as I do like to help our newer members. Xx

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

The last time I looked was the previous text, I think.

This version is extremely clear.

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"The last time I looked was the previous text, I think.

This version is extremely clear."

Thankyou xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bottom line is your a very attractive woman (concluded by the way you interact on the forum shows intelligence and a gorgeous body) I myself am out your distance range although only by a few miles, I have read and perved your profile a few times over the months and have had to tie myself up to stop myself from messaging you, so I can understand why the chancers are sending a message!

Same old story if you don’t try you won’t know.

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Bottom line is your a very attractive woman (concluded by the way you interact on the forum shows intelligence and a gorgeous body) I myself am out your distance range although only by a few miles, I have read and perved your profile a few times over the months and have had to tie myself up to stop myself from messaging you, so I can understand why the chancers are sending a message!

Same old story if you don’t try you won’t know."

Aww, thankyou. I don't mind messages just frustrated with the ones that ignore the fact I'm not meeting and expect me to because 'this is a sex site' and then they question why I'm on here if I'm not, despite it being clear lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think fab should have some sort of membership challenge, like a facebook quiz.

You have to correctly read several profiles before your email is activated.

Profile 1

Couple seeking couples - Men we will find you when we want you.

Do you:

a. Send a wink so they know I'm here.

b. Send a cock pic and promise to ruin her in front of cuck.

c. Move to the next profile.

Profile 2

Woman seeking Men - Only genuine single chaps, and please no cock pics.

Do you:

a. Pretend to be fab single, hide wedding band and send a cock shot as she'll be gagging for it.

b. Send a cock shot anyway.

c. Send a polite message complimenting the profile.

Profile 3

TS seeking Men - Be honest with your sexualitu and we can play.

Do uou:

a. Send a cock pic and explain although you are straight, you'll still give her a fuck but not a veri, as you don't want women to find out.

b. amend your profile to say bi then send a cock pic.

c. Decide if you are curious and send a polite message.

If you answer A or B, you send messages but they aren't delivered and Fab Bots generate convincing replies to stall them

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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.


"You say you're not meeting new people, but then a little further down the sentence beginning with "By the way" suggests that you might meet new people.

Some could be confused by this.

Removed that bit now, thanks

x"

Just checked again. Now there is nothing even remotely confusing

xx

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By *sGivesWood OP   Woman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"You say you're not meeting new people, but then a little further down the sentence beginning with "By the way" suggests that you might meet new people.

Some could be confused by this.

Removed that bit now, thanks

x

Just checked again. Now there is nothing even remotely confusing

xx"

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