FabSwingers.com forum: FACE

By *akequeen90 OP Couple
over a year ago

Sydney

Does a face matter when all you want is nsa fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, for me absolutely. I love kissing and for me need to be handsome enough for me to want to kiss. I'm funny like that!

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

I would say yes, unless you're after something very dispassionate

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By *akequeen90 OP Couple
over a year ago

Sydney

"I would say yes, unless you're after something very dispassionate"

Its just that everytime someone takes a liking to us, they want to see a face picture. Unfortunately, we're not gonna submit that so easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say yes, unless you're after something very dispassionate

Its just that everytime someone takes a liking to us, they want to see a face picture. Unfortunately, we're not gonna submit that so easily"

We absolutely insist on seeing a face picture before meeting...if you don't want to send them for whatever reason, you'll have to accept that this will reduce your chances of meeting considerably

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

Yes for me face is a big deal.

It's not necessarily about how handsome it is, but I like a mysterious twinkle in the eye, and the smile rather than somebody looking very serious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes for me too i like to see who im banging x I suppose that there is a lot of ugly people who don't care as they are happy just to get laid x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does for me.

Even if I were with my man in a club, looking for another man to join us, I would still need facial attraction.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I would say yes, unless you're after something very dispassionate

Its just that everytime someone takes a liking to us, they want to see a face picture. Unfortunately, we're not gonna submit that so easily"

That's fine, never do more than you're happy with.

A lot of people won't go too far into conversations about meeting unless they've seen faces though.

Never compromise on what you're happy to do on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely it’s the most important thing for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does a face matter when all you want is nsa fun?"
of course you have to look at it and kiss it oh and even talk to it, don't you Op?

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

No strings doesn't = no attraction needed.

For us anyway. Whatever works for each individual though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all about the face.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

Are we are taking a wide angle view here and not just viewing the experience through a gloryhole?

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

"Does a face matter when all you want is nsa fun?"

Totally!!!

I always get asked “wot u want face pic 4 u not going to fuck my face lol”. But I need to be attracted to the person in every aspect. I have to like the way they look. The way they speak. The way they touch... absolutely everything.

Sometimes I see a lovely face but with a body I’m not attracted to. So that is a no go for me too I’m afraid.

Having said all this, I’ve met people who aren’t exactly my type, or in the age bracket I go for, but with chatting and then socialising, I find them very attractive and sex has been amazing. This is why I always insist on chatting for a while and/or a social. Many see it/me as a timewaster. I don’t.

It’s only nsa fun, but to me it is a hobby. A delicious hobby I indulge in and I only indulge when the treat is just too decadent. No point in doing it otherwise...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does a face matter when all you want is nsa fun?"

Good grief yes!

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By *akequeen90 OP Couple
over a year ago

Sydney

Thank you everyone for your comments

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

"Yes for me face is a big deal.

It's not necessarily about how handsome it is, but I like a mysterious twinkle in the eye, and the smile rather than somebody looking very serious. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would say yes, unless you're after something very dispassionate

Its just that everytime someone takes a liking to us, they want to see a face picture. Unfortunately, we're not gonna submit that so easily"

Id never meet anyone without seeing a facepic sorry for me this isnt blind date, if a guy refused to send one then id move on

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By *lim Jim 68Man
over a year ago

Guernsey

"Yes for me face is a big deal.

It's not necessarily about how handsome it is, but I like a mysterious twinkle in the eye, and the smile rather than somebody looking very serious. "

Perfectly put

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By *edtothecore74Woman
over a year ago

Spalding

"I would say yes, unless you're after something very dispassionate

Its just that everytime someone takes a liking to us, they want to see a face picture. Unfortunately, we're not gonna submit that so easily"

Unless tou intend to walk into a meeting place fully naked then how will they recognise you.

Its really not that big of a deal surely... face shows eyes, eyes convey a lot. Face makes you human and less of an object...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, there's only so long you can look at the back of someone's head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does a face matter when all you want is nsa fun?"
yes absolouetly. Would you honestly have sex with anyone who looked like Shane McGowan from the Pouges! Don't care if I never had sex again. I just couldn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, for me absolutely. I love kissing and for me need to be handsome enough for me to want to kiss. I'm funny like that! "

I couldn’t agree more

A x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does a face matter when all you want is nsa fun?"

I have to fancy the person. The face is imperative. If I don't find them facially attractive, there will be no fun to be had.

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By *etite HandfulWoman
over a year ago

Chester

"Does a face matter when all you want is nsa fun?"

It does to me but it seems to some on here they would shag anyone even if they had a bucket on their head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does a face matter when all you want is nsa fun?

It does to me but it seems to some on here they would shag anyone even if they had a bucket on their head.

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How do you get turned on if you don't fancy or like the person

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Maybe we’re shallow but we want to see a face pic to see if we’re attracted to someone. We also understand that it works both ways though and that our ugly mugs could put people off.

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

It matters!

I have to be attracted! (Doesn't everyone?)

I am not partial to shagging someone with a bag on their head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it matters ...more than a cock pic!

I’d rather have sex with (what I consider) a facial more attractive guy with a smaller package than a bigger package on a guy I wasn’t attracted to

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By *itvclaireTV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Most definitely, couldn't meet if there wasn't an attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No face...no case

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

"Does a face matter when all you want is nsa fun?"
Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% face I'm and hands have to be looking good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does a face matter when all you want is nsa fun?"

Absolutely! There's got to be an attraction.

Mrs Spader x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it bizarre that people don't want to see faces before they meet someone they're going to fuck

Surely if you just want to rub body parts together without any sort of connection then you might as well go to a glory hole or fuck a watermelon

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By *heGentleman2024Man
over a year ago

North West

Absolutely..the phrase “body of baywatch face of crimewatch” comes to mind? Haha

But in all seriousness...yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Outside of Fab, I'm forever being told I'm a good lookin fella.

I guess it just doesn't come across too well in a fab photo.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Does a face matter when all you want is nsa fun?"

Yes a face pic matters to us. We have to see if we like the look of the potential meet just as they need to see us.

I mean it's not like they'd know who you are if you arrange to meet without seeing face photos first.

Can just imagine you walking into the pub for social with nothing on and bag on your head as not showing your face.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

This isn’t blind date OP

I’ve had public face pics for about 10vyears nothing bad as ever come of it there’s no reason not to exchange a pic privately especially when you can set the image to be automatically deleted after they’ve read the message

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

I won't meet without seeing a face pic, and recently passed on a meet for exactly that reason...

....there has to be an attraction - how many times have you stood behind or followed someone, and thought "Mmmmm, nice", and then they've turned around and you've then thought "Oh, perhaps not!"?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Outside of Fab, I'm forever being told I'm a good lookin fella.

I guess it just doesn't come across too well in a fab photo.

Snap

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Yes, I don't do blind date lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does a face matter when all you want is nsa fun?"

Yes!! It is the physical attribute that matters the most to me! NSA or not, I cannot fuck someone if I don't find their face attractive

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

"Yes, I don't do blind date lol. "

This

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By *akequeen90 OP Couple
over a year ago

Sydney

"This isn’t blind date OP

I like this. We live in a still very conservative society. A picture in the wrong hands and you would be forever shamed. The whole reason for our post.

Thanks everyone for your responses. We have a good idea now

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

"I would say yes, unless you're after something very dispassionate

Its just that everytime someone takes a liking to us, they want to see a face picture. Unfortunately, we're not gonna submit that so easily"

I don’t send them either, doesn’t affect me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can read a lot about someone by looking at their face so it's important for me that way. I can usually (not always) get a sense of what kind of person they might be. Also I need to find them attractive and the face is part of that.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Yep,if someone wouldn't swap a face pic i wouldnt carry on chatting ...

Not when there are many who will,it would make me suspicious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It matters!

I have to be attracted! (Doesn't everyone?)

I am not partial to shagging someone with a bag on their head.

Omg a guy actually said that to me after i politely refused him he said hed wear a paper bag over his head

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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago

In a sleepy little village

"It matters!

I have to be attracted! (Doesn't everyone?)

I am not partial to shagging someone with a bag on their head.

Omg a guy actually said that to me after i politely refused him he said hed wear a paper bag over his head

Don't forget to put one over yours too .... just in case his comes off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t meet if I wasn’t attracted to someone and the only way I know if I am or not is to see what they look like, it’s not all about the sex there has to be a spark too, even if it is just for NSA fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it matters ...more than a cock pic!

I’d rather have sex with (what I consider) a facial more attractive guy with a smaller package than a bigger package on a guy I wasn’t attracted to"

Definitely agree...although wouldn’t complain if both nice packages were handed to me!

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By *ilkenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

Just to point out OP nsa isn't an anachronism for will shag ugly people for a start it doesn't fit and respectfully most people on here have standards and likes and have to have an attraction to someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the most important thing to me. I have to fancy someone I'm plannig on shagging and would hope the ones I meet would feel the same. NSA isn't about sticking it or taking it in anyones hole, just because you want sex.... well not for some it isn't, anyway.

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By *nSeeNMan
over a year ago

Z'ha'dum

Yes as thats what im attracted to the most.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

"I would say yes, unless you're after something very dispassionate

Its just that everytime someone takes a liking to us, they want to see a face picture. Unfortunately, we're not gonna submit that so easily

We absolutely insist on seeing a face picture before meeting...if you don't want to send them for whatever reason, you'll have to accept that this will reduce your chances of meeting considerably "

Exactly this. I’d not meet anyone if I didn’t know what they look like.

V x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know how people have sex with people they're not attracted to. X

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

Is this some sort of university survey?

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By *bwlookingforfunWoman
over a year ago

crawley

Is that even a question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Face is important to me too even if you have the nicest knees I havr never seen, the face needs to seal the deal of me doing my deed.

#rhymefail

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

"Does a face matter when all you want is nsa fun?"

Absobloodylutely !!!! You ever tried snogging a bin liner?

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By *tingly ByronMan
over a year ago

In a town Fab forgot

"Does a face matter when all you want is nsa fun?

Absobloodylutely !!!! You ever tried snogging a bin liner?

Listen, I'd been drinking and taking way too many drugs, OK!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean the face wouldn't matter if it was being grinded by a women's vagina although I suppose they wouldn't want to grind a ugly face ??

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

"Does a face matter when all you want is nsa fun?

Absobloodylutely !!!! You ever tried snogging a bin liner?

Listen, I'd been drinking and taking way too many drugs, OK!!!!!!!"

Never done the drug fuelled but I can relate to the beer goggles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't matter buried between them beutys and between your legs although I I guess it matters for first impressions ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me it doesn't, but then I started on this journey when the only real way was contact magazines or the like. It was more about getting a feel for the person from a letter, meeting for a social perhaps. There were the odd photo, usually black and white and very grainy! Luckily for me! It was more about the person/people, how they came across.

I do think swinging has now become more about how you look, rather than who you are. But that just reflects society on a whole, people seem more obsessed with looks, especially on social media, which in its own way fab is for many.

As an aside, my uncle always said you never look at the mantle piece when you poke the fire. Perhaps a little harsh and a different era. Personally it would be more about personality than looks or face pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most important to me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course it matters.

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