FabSwingers.com forum: New to all this

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey i am new to this scene i have people viewing but no messages or if i message i get blanked i am freindly guy and i am genuine i speak or message woman with respect. But still nothing i do have pictures but due to the nature of my job i cannot have a picture i am willing to send if asked not an issues just could do with some advise and tips please and thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey i am new to this scene i have people viewing but no messages or if i message i get blanked i am freindly guy and i am genuine i speak or message woman with respect. But still nothing i do have pictures but due to the nature of my job i cannot have a picture i am willing to send if asked not an issues just could do with some advise and tips please and thanks "

Welcome to the world of single males my friend. At a quick glance you have no pics for people to view. It's gonna take time singles males are 10 a penny here. Use the forums get to know people. Clubs and socials are a good place to meet people aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even if you do have photos and verfication, half of the women still will not chat with you via here, then you get some that will add you as a friend and still not chat....

I have had discussion with some women on here and they seem to think some of the women on here are fakes......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't have to have a face pic on your profile, you can have a body pic, like your chest or back

You also say you want chat & cuddles, you might lose some women at that point.

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By *edtothecore74Woman
over a year ago

Spalding

Your profile is just like hundreds of others out there. So you need to focus on your approach or get to know people in the forums.

In this instance, you get out what you put in im afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the views are probably from curious males too, either hoping you don’t have filters on your messages so they can offer to suck you off or by others looking at the competition in their area so to speak

As said though add some pictures even if you have to blur your face or like me add an emoji, then put in your profile that you have a facepic and will send it if required.

Women don’t have to do much leg work on here to get a message sometimes so if they look at your profile and have nothing to see they won’t go out of their way to ask to see what you look like when so many others already have pictures etc.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Most of us have jobs, friends and families OP. Doesn't stop you from putting a hand or a finger pic up for example.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I respect what you guys are saying and take it on board i do have photos i didnt realise u can put a hand on it but its a fair point thanks guys and ladies appreciate it clubs n stuff prob wont feel confident enough for that just yet but thank you all

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By *entenTeaCouple
over a year ago

Buckley North Wales

A few public pics in your profile would help. Maybe say a bit more about your self. Then all we can suggest is visit the clubs. Town House is an easy run from Rhyl. Also the Chester Socials are nice events.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lententea reason i dnt have pics openly is the job i do and not just that i aint confident to have body pics on i hate photos as it is but i have offered on profile if they chat then i will show pictures i do apprecaite what you are saying i have to do things the way i feel comfortable maybe intime i will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could put pics up without people recognising you surely . I have lots of pics up and I have never been recognised on here

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By *abulously curiousCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Agree people can c my pics without seeing my face x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to understand that being a nice guy, polite and respectful, blah, blah, doesn't mean women have to fancy you or that you're entitled to sex because you are nice.

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By *mber DextrousWoman
over a year ago

Devon

"Lententea reason i dnt have pics openly is the job i do and not just that i aint confident to have body pics on i hate photos as it is but i have offered on profile if they chat then i will show pictures i do apprecaite what you are saying i have to do things the way i feel comfortable maybe intime i will "

Lots of us have jobs where we wouldn't want colleagues or customers to find out about us being on here, but unless you're often naked around them and have loads of identifying features I don't see why that's an excuse for no pics. They don't have to be face pics or even undressed but I want an idea of body type.

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