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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Went to our famous dogging site around here and didn't have a clue what was going on. I know the theory ok (I think) but how do I know if its ok to approach and if it's someone of the sexuality I am looking for? There were some flashing hazards and headlamps but I didn't risk getting it wrong and drove away. Any one clued up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Went to our famous dogging site around here and didn't have a clue what was going on. I know the theory ok (I think) but how do I know if its ok to approach and if it's someone of the sexuality I am looking for? There were some flashing hazards and headlamps but I didn't risk getting it wrong and drove away. Any one clued up?"

Do the helicopter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

googling that didn't help

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"googling that didn't help"

No -he meant shaft the police helicopter when it arrives to show you mean business

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By *orkspoonMan
over a year ago

nearby

I've read all kinds of "rules" in the forums, but I think there is no single set

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By *ogging coupleCouple
over a year ago

Derby

Politeness first and foremost, best not approach unless the interior light is at least flicked on and off

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"Politeness first and foremost, best not approach unless the interior light is at least flicked on and off"

How do you know it's not a faulty bulb?

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By *hamboy69Man
over a year ago

huddersfield

The most important thing is dress code for the men definitely tracky bottoms

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By *rumkidTV/TS
over a year ago

birmingham

Take a dog

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Go once again with the intention of not doing anything except to observe. Your local spot will have most things the same as others but you can see how your locals do it. This includes whether they plan in situ, move to an alternative spot etc. You'll soon see how the single men get active. Learn what seems poor too.

One of my first trips was me and 2 girls in the car - some lads came around and cocks pulled out - 1 shot his load over the window/door. That sort of pushiness puts people off.

Go and observe others strategies. Get out too, viewing from a distance, chat if appropriate

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London


"The most important thing is dress code for the men definitely tracky bottoms "

That's about right -but you have to wear them supa gangsta like -arse crack showing -the lower the better and preferably hanging around your ankles

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to all who gave constructive advice. I will post how I got on .

xxx

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By *arnsley guy100Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

There's generally plenty sat in cars waiting for something to happen..... Not much by sitting thrre

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Why not post a meet with exactly what you are looking for, including sexuality, then you know the rules because you get to decide them.

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By *ORDERMANMan
over a year ago

wrexham


"Go once again with the intention of not doing anything except to observe. Your local spot will have most things the same as others but you can see how your locals do it. This includes whether they plan in situ, move to an alternative spot etc. You'll soon see how the single men get active. Learn what seems poor too.

One of my first trips was me and 2 girls in the car - some lads came around and cocks pulled out - 1 shot his load over the window/door. That sort of pushiness puts people off.

Go and observe others strategies. Get out too, viewing from a distance, chat if appropriate

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Fully endorse above...

Patience is key in dogging.... Not only when dogging but starting out... You need to go 2 or 3 times to understand the flow...

Where did you go... Was it across the water at the site associated with guy fawkes...

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford


"Politeness first and foremost, best not approach unless the interior light is at least flicked on and off"

Love your pictures inspiration for the newbie

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By *annybi54Man
over a year ago

ayr

Best advice i got when starting out is dont be afraid to talk to people .most guys will have their window down and will be happy to talk about their fun times this will give you a lot of info of who are regulars and who puts on a show or participates with others. As others have said politeness goes a very long way . Good luck .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dogging can s bloke just turn up or does he need to sting a lady with him

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