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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can anyone tell me why I’m struggling to get meets. I know I’m no oil painting but fuck me this is hard.

Any advice welcome

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Way more men here than any other demographic. You have to really sell yourself, and even then I gather there's a high rejection rate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone tell me why I’m struggling to get meets. I know I’m no oil painting but fuck me this is hard.

Any advice welcome "

Would you get your cock out in the pub and expect to get a woman interested?

Would you expect a one liner to work?

That's your profile.

How about putting some information about yourself on your profile for a start.

Mind you, I have loads on my profile and still can't get a meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who knows could be your username, could be your pics and it could be your lack of info about you or it could be how you message people you're interested in, it's not a sex site it seems, so leading with sex for many is off putting, so you'll have to give us a clue

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

You look great in your pictures. Considering that women have a lot of choice its a good idea to make your profile and user name as attractive as possible. Think about putting a little more information in the text

Good luck.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

What's "easure", being the thing you're here for?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"What's "easure", being the thing you're here for?"

Does he represent the insurance company ?

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

The reason could be anyone of millions but the most likely reason is pure and simply numbers. For example a simple click on whose near revealed the following:

Female - 1

TV/TS - 1

Couples - 9

Males - 39

I imagine the percentages will be similar where you are therefore you are going to have to work at standing out from the crowd if you want to get noticed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's "easure", being the thing you're here for?

Does he represent the insurance company ?"

Took the words from my mouth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Way more men here than any other demographic. You have to really sell yourself, and even then I gather there's a high rejection rate. "

Yep, far too many single guys, whatvu need is a machine gun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're chances will go up if you put n a dress

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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago

Bury/Bolton

We post meets regularly on here and whilst we get some replys, rarely is it from anyone of interest and only twice ever have we arranged a meet off here.

Our advice, get used to it or go to clubs and parties, ditch the idea that cyberspace is easier it isn't it's much harder.

Yes you could make your profile more appealing and think a bit more about the first impression you make with it and your pics, ultimately there's no substitute to getting out and going where the real people are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a big cock. I don't understand why you are struggling to get meets. My cock is average and I manage to get at least a social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

men on here have let me down to meet another man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone tell me why I’m struggling to get meets. I know I’m no oil painting but fuck me this is hard.

Any advice welcome "

I have the same problem OP and if you’re not an oil painting then I’m certainly not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many cock pics, add normal ones and a profile pic

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By *heshire CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

This is just my thoughts if i came acrios your profile outside of the fourm... the minute it says big cock in the profile I walk by and you have no profile picture at all sounds mad but they grab my attention.

However looking at your pics great tatts!! Xx

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

My opinion is that the OP is a man who thinks cock + cock username = women queueing up.

We want men who just happen to have cocks, not cocks who just happen to be men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My opinion is that the OP is a man who thinks cock + cock username = women queueing up.

We want men who just happen to have cocks, not cocks who just happen to be men "

Cocky lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For user username instant delete. If we read your profile there is nothing there. And all the cock pics delete and block. Even if we were who you were seeking

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Fab is generally very hard work for single men, especially until they are established and know others. There are ways of optimising your chances and there are a lot of forum threads on how this can be done, such as for profile improvement.

Generally people will want to know best why you are a better match for them than any of the other guys who may be contacting them too. Whilst people may search you out and make contact, it's generally safe to assume that you will need to make contact with others that you view as compatible.

Meeting others in person is ideal, via socials and clubs - then you're a real physical guy, rather than a username on the internet. Look out for them and get yourself known. Good luck!

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By *ereforthafunMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Fab is generally very hard work for single men, especially until they are established and know others. There are ways of optimising your chances and there are a lot of forum threads on how this can be done, such as for profile improvement.

Generally people will want to know best why you are a better match for them than any of the other guys who may be contacting them too. Whilst people may search you out and make contact, it's generally safe to assume that you will need to make contact with others that you view as compatible.

Meeting others in person is ideal, via socials and clubs - then you're a real physical guy, rather than a username on the internet. Look out for them and get yourself known. Good luck!"

Can’t agree with this enough, if there are any socials in your area go to them and going to clubs is a great way to meet people too. Good luck.

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