FabSwingers.com forum: Cheating

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would you call it cheating if the other half knows you are on here and you have her full blessing as long as you let her know about meets?

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

No it's not cheating.

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By *aughty But Nice TwiceWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"Would you call it cheating if the other half knows you are on here and you have her full blessing as long as you let her know about meets?"

Why would you think it was ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, that’s consensual non-monogamy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would you call it cheating if the other half knows you are on here and you have her full blessing as long as you let her know about meets?

Why would you think it was ? "

I am honest when i message people as cant accomodate. Have been told its cheating no matter what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion it depends on your moral compass. If are married and have made vows in front of god and witnesses you are cheating on yourself.

If your partner knows and approves you are not cheating on them. You are cheating on yourself.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

"Would you call it cheating if the other half knows you are on here and you have her full blessing as long as you let her know about meets?"

No it is not cheating in our view anything which is done without your partners knowledge is cheating however.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Not if it's with your partners blessing then no, not cheating.

Cheating is something borne from lies/deceit/ which in the case you describe it doesn't.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

"In my opinion it depends on your moral compass. If are married and have made vows in front of god and witnesses you are cheating on yourself.

If your partner knows and approves you are not cheating on them. You are cheating on yourself. "

That's a great quote - care to explain what it actually means ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it’s not cheating. My wife knows all about my meets.

She sometimes wants a chat with the lady concerned as she like to hear them all excited about me. Lol also it’s her turn on. but is

She doesn’t chat, unless the other people want to if I go to a party etc.

It’s the transparency that makes it not cheating.

It’s only when you don’t tell them it’s cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you call it cheating if the other half knows you are on here and you have her full blessing as long as you let her know about meets?

Why would you think it was ?

I am honest when i message people as cant accomodate. Have been told its cheating no matter what "

Do you give them the opportunity to talk to your partner?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Would you call it cheating if the other half knows you are on here and you have her full blessing as long as you let her know about meets?

Why would you think it was ?

I am honest when i message people as cant accomodate. Have been told its cheating no matter what "

The only opinion that's important is your partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are married and you have made a promise to love, be faithful etc etc.

If your partner gives you permission you are breaking your promise which you made so you are breaking your promise and thereby cheating on yourself.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"If you are married and you have made a promise to love, be faithful etc etc.

If your partner gives you permission you are breaking your promise which you made so you are breaking your promise and thereby cheating on yourself. "

Not if you married in a registry office.

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By *maya1989Woman
over a year ago

Here and There

Cheating is going against whatever agreements you've made in your relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men can be our worst enemy..... I have constantly seen men post about being married on these forums....

Do you ever see women post this non sense?

Just keep quiet about your martial status and go have great sex.......

Op go to a club and have some fun..... no one is concerned about your martial status in a club , they just want you to be a gentleman....

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

If your wife knows and has given her blessing and everything is above board and open.

Who cares what anyone else thinks.

Failing that the easiest way for you to stop people in their tracks is to offer for them to speak to your wife before they ask or make accusations...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Point I am trying to make, badly it seems, it depends on your view.

Do you take promises seriously or is it just something to say?

Whether you get married in a church, pub, underwater it depends what your vows are. You vow so you promise.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"In my opinion it depends on your moral compass. If are married and have made vows in front of god and witnesses you are cheating on yourself.

If your partner knows and approves you are not cheating on them. You are cheating on yourself.

That's a great quote - care to explain what it actually means ???"

or more to the point what is mr shaw doing on FAB!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"In my opinion it depends on your moral compass. If are married and have made vows in front of god and witnesses you are cheating on yourself.

If your partner knows and approves you are not cheating on them. You are cheating on yourself.

That's a great quote - care to explain what it actually means ???

or more to the point what is mr shaw doing on FAB!!!!!!

I was going to say this as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you asking what my motivation is?

I was relying to a post about cheating.

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By *maya1989Woman
over a year ago

Here and There

Marriage is just a legal contract between two people and the vows can be whatever you want them to be. Mine say nothing about forsaking all others

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would you call it cheating if the other half knows you are on here and you have her full blessing as long as you let her know about meets?

Why would you think it was ?

I am honest when i message people as cant accomodate. Have been told its cheating no matter what

Do you give them the opportunity to talk to your partner?"

She does not want to get involved or know them. Only for me to let her know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which is exactly the point I was clumsily trying to make.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"The Point I am trying to make, badly it seems, it depends on your view.

Do you take promises seriously or is it just something to say?

Whether you get married in a church, pub, underwater it depends what your vows are. You vow so you promise. "

We promised to stick together through thick and thin. So far we've done that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The Point I am trying to make, badly it seems, it depends on your view.

Do you take promises seriously or is it just something to say?

Whether you get married in a church, pub, underwater it depends what your vows are. You vow so you promise.

We promised to stick together through thick and thin. So far we've done that."

So are we together as long as i am honest with her with my meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you call it cheating if the other half knows you are on here and you have her full blessing as long as you let her know about meets?

Why would you think it was ?

I am honest when i message people as cant accomodate. Have been told its cheating no matter what "

Are you messaging swingers?

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

If you’re doing it in secret, knowing the other half would be angry or upset, then it’s cheating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you call it cheating if the other half knows you are on here and you have her full blessing as long as you let her know about meets?"

Not at all, your cheating when they don’t know your on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it’s fine. Exciting too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No its not cheating, it's playing with permission

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By *uryWhipMan
over a year ago

Harringay

"Would you call it cheating if the other half knows you are on here and you have her full blessing as long as you let her know about meets?"

I dont tell her about meets, we have rules about that. She knows I'm on here in the same way I know shes with her sort of girlfriend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No, it’s fine. Exciting too."

Yeah it is exciting especially when you get back and partner asks how it went

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No deciet and lies involved then I would say no it's not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No deciet and lies involved then I would say no it's not "
deceit

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By *jtravellerWoman
over a year ago

surrey

"Would you call it cheating if the other half knows you are on here and you have her full blessing as long as you let her know about meets?"

No, if she’s fully aware you’re having sex with others it isn’t cheating. It’s ethical non monogamy.

Problem you’re likely running into, is many men, and some women, are lying about their partner knowing & consenting. It’s why some of us want at least a thumbs up from the wife .

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By *ngelina4uWoman
over a year ago

Camberley/Middleton

"Would you call it cheating if the other half knows you are on here and you have her full blessing as long as you let her know about meets?"

No unless the OH thinks on here is using the computer to look at bbc sport (the one with the football on)

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

"Would you call it cheating if the other half knows you are on here and you have her full blessing as long as you let her know about meets?

Why would you think it was ?

I am honest when i message people as cant accomodate. Have been told its cheating no matter what

Do you give them the opportunity to talk to your partner?

She does not want to get involved or know them. Only for me to let her know "

So with no proof from her that you aren't cheating, everything you're saying could be just another lie in the long list of lies that get told on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, it’s not cheating at all. I meet women alone and my man meets women alone(if i fuck them first hehe)

xXx

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By *ovingittwoCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"In my opinion it depends on your moral compass. If are married and have made vows in front of god and witnesses you are cheating on yourself.

If your partner knows and approves you are not cheating on them. You are cheating on yourself. "

Deep x

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I am honest when i message people as cant accomodate. Have been told its cheating no matter what "

Personally I don't think it's cheating but the only view that's important is the one of the people you're wanting to meet, if they regard you as a cheater then there's not a lot you can do about it.

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

OP why cannot you accomodate ? your consenting wife could meet your playmate before leaving to go off shopping or to see friends for the evening ? Would this not overcome the concerns of the people who contact you ?

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By *xtrafun4youMan
over a year ago

Dunstable

"Would you call it cheating if the other half knows you are on here and you have her full blessing as long as you let her know about meets?"
cheating is when she don’t know.

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Seems like a stint at I’m okay got the nod really, I’m sure it’s cock a hoop when sat messaging other women in her company or not. Find this nonsense hard to believe

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By *heshire CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

I don't see it as cheating if she knows, I was on here before I got with my other half and he knew all about me going to clubs before anything happened between us.

Yes I stopped going to clubs but he doesn't want to change me so allows me to go without any rules. He's just asked that at somepoint we find a female for nights of fun and laughter to join the two of us. Clubs just aren't his thing.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Only you (and maybe your wife) know whether you are cheat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing about cheating is it involves lots of lying and most if not all women don't like liars, so if the wife knows you're not cheating are you?

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We would say . If the person meeting gets to speak to the partner via phone and i don't mean the old text or what's app scam then all is ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my opinion it depends on your moral compass. If are married and have made vows in front of god and witnesses you are cheating on yourself.

If your partner knows and approves you are not cheating on them. You are cheating on yourself.

Deep x"

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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago

east Lancashire road

Hahaha this is funny

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By *elma and ShaggyCouple
over a year ago

Bedworth

"The Point I am trying to make, badly it seems, it depends on your view.

Do you take promises seriously or is it just something to say?

Whether you get married in a church, pub, underwater it depends what your vows are. You vow so you promise. "

I’m not sure that you actually understand what swinging is. Are you saying that it shouldn’t exist because married people have made vows?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you are married and you have made a promise to love, be faithful etc etc.

If your partner gives you permission you are breaking your promise which you made so you are breaking your promise and thereby cheating on yourself. "

I got married by Elvis in Las Vegas, he mentioned love but we didn’t have the rest of it. You can still love and have sex with others as long as all involved are open and honest.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"Would you call it cheating if the other half knows you are on here and you have her full blessing as long as you let her know about meets? cheating is when she don’t know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my opinion it depends on your moral compass. If are married and have made vows in front of god and witnesses you are cheating on yourself.

If your partner knows and approves you are not cheating on them. You are cheating on yourself. "

God? When I got married on family and friends were there

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