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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey everyone how are you? I have been on here before but only for a short period, why do my messages keep getting deleted? I havent had one reply off anyone, what do you think the problem is? Any tips?

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By *edtothecore74Woman
over a year ago

Spalding

What sort of messages are you sending?

There's hundreds of horny guys out there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I always send nice polite messages

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By *edtothecore74Woman
over a year ago

Spalding


"I always send nice polite messages "

Such as?.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just asking how they are and wondered if they fancied a chat

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Generic messages will get deleted, I'm afraid. Given the number of guys here, you need to stand out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any tips?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generic messages will get deleted, I'm afraid. Given the number of guys here, you need to stand out. "

Imagination is key, how are you is never going to cut it, also helps (in my opinion) if you say something that shows you've read the person in questions profile

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By *oxtonMan
over a year ago

Some where in West Yorkshire

Don't eat yellow snow!!!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Read the profile, say what appeals to you (not just the pictures, hopefully), answer anything in there that really needs answering, respect their wishes. Be polite, respectful, but to the point (there's a difference between "I'm going to destroy your slutty arse" and "I see we both like anal, and I enjoy it quite hard if the lady I'm with is into it too").

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I see, well thank you for the tips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just asking how they are and wondered if they fancied a chat"

Ffs, that will explain it! Facebook might be a better option if that's all you've got in your locker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see, well thank you for the tips "

As an aside, why have you capitalised the first letter of every word in your profile text?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 28/11/18 21:21:11]

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I dunno why, i just did aha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 28/11/18 21:21:11]"

You're not doing it on posts here. It looks really weird on your profile fyi.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well i like it

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By *ade and VanessaCouple
over a year ago

Central Scotland

Agreeing with all above. Fix the type in your profile and think about your messages. Most single ladies have something in their blurb so read it and say something to show you have in your message. Or compliment something specific in a photo like the lingerie

V x

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By *oris and doris wolvesCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

If a couple don't want or are not looking for a single guys don't message them

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Well i like it "

Consider the people you're trying to attract rather than just yourself. It'd put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well i like it "

I think your missing the point of the point of profile text...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bloody hell its only abit of font aha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just asking how they are and wondered if they fancied a chat"

That's the problem lovely. So many write that. It's likely that the content doesn't hold the person's interest so they automatically delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bloody hell its only abit of font aha"

In order to get fun, you need to attract people to your profile and want to communicate though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit that was quick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You broke him!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the snowflake generation

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By *edtothecore74Woman
over a year ago

Spalding


"Bloody hell its only abit of font aha"

First impressions last.

I concur with most of the advice here. Showing you are interested in a person makes them feel comfortable and more likely to engage with you.

Women arent going to fall on their backs legs akimbo just because you messaged them. You need personality.

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