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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A member has been messaging me for a while and we're getting on well, we arrange a meet at a hotel and he says he will book it. Then messages me to say he can't find the hotel (local travel lodge) online so I suggest another one. He comes back saying he can't book it could I pay for it and he will pay me back when we meet, I can't as I have a joint account and a payment to a hotel would end up in me being killed. This morning I get a message saying he isn't sure about tomorrow, he's still thinking of an excuse.

So, are you thinking what I'm thinking? What would you do? (before I do it myself LOL)

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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago

'tween PontyCarlo & CasVegas in West Yorks

Im thinking agree to do it, say youve booked it, and lol to yourself when he deletes his profile in a blind panic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im thinking agree to do it, say youve booked it, and lol to yourself when he deletes his profile in a blind panic "

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport


"Im thinking agree to do it, say youve booked it, and lol to yourself when he deletes his profile in a blind panic "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im thinking agree to do it, say youve booked it, and lol to yourself when he deletes his profile in a blind panic "

The perfect response

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port


"Im thinking agree to do it, say youve booked it, and lol to yourself when he deletes his profile in a blind panic "

No further advice needed..this is perfect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A member has been messaging me for a while and we're getting on well, we arrange a meet at a hotel and he says he will book it. Then messages me to say he can't find the hotel (local travel lodge) online so I suggest another one. He comes back saying he can't book it could I pay for it and he will pay me back when we meet, I can't as I have a joint account and a payment to a hotel would end up in me being killed. This morning I get a message saying he isn't sure about tomorrow, he's still thinking of an excuse.

So, are you thinking what I'm thinking? What would you do? (before I do it myself LOL) "
I'm thinking pigs fly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Shame on you all such an evil bunch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reserve it on line but pay at reception

Or

Send him the link to the invisible travelodge

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Reserve it on line but pay at reception

Or

Send him the link to the invisible travelodge "

I did send him the link An invisible Travel lodge to meet the invisible date

Jut waiting with interest to see how the day pans out now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck him off out of it, he's full of bullshit. No one needs that. Although what other fabbers have suggested is quite amusing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im thinking agree to do it, say youve booked it, and lol to yourself when he deletes his profile in a blind panic "
Definitely this, she nailed it ()

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

My thoughts are he won't turn up.

But....

If you book a room through one if the day use hotel sites, you don't need to pay up front and you can pay cash on arrival.

Also no penalty for cancelling.

Worth a thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My thoughts are he won't turn up.

But....

If you book a room through one if the day use hotel sites, you don't need to pay up front and you can pay cash on arrival.

Also no penalty for cancelling.

Worth a thought."

Wise words there

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By *harlotteHereWoman
over a year ago

wirral

I hovered round here for a bit after years off but chose club route (thank you Townhouse . ) defo better option x

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

It really isn’t going to happen. All the signs are there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think this is a non starter,(and trust me,we all do),why continue with the charade?

Delete block move on.

Job done.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you think this is a non starter,(and trust me,we all do),why continue with the charade?

Delete block move on.

Job done."

Yes my finger is hovering over the block button. A little reluctant as he seemed so nice, then if he is stringing me along the he clearly isn't!

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

No Op -I am thinking that you will end up in a fuckstorm with your wife somewhere down the road -joint account or no joint account!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is a risk a lot of us take hunni xx

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

They all seem so nice the time wasters. If you smell bu.. .... trust your intuition.

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside

Im thinking of booking a hotel, any fems or couples fancy joinging me ???

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He got back to me at least saying he can't make it but I really think he's a time waster so he's blocked and I have a free day now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you think this is a non starter,(and trust me,we all do),why continue with the charade?

Delete block move on.

Job done."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im thinking agree to do it, say youve booked it, and lol to yourself when he deletes his profile in a blind panic

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Yeah, book a hotel that you can cancel and get a refund.

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham


"A member has been messaging me for a while and we're getting on well, we arrange a meet at a hotel and he says he will book it. Then messages me to say he can't find the hotel (local travel lodge) online so I suggest another one. He comes back saying he can't book it could I pay for it and he will pay me back when we meet, I can't as I have a joint account and a payment to a hotel would end up in me being killed. This morning I get a message saying he isn't sure about tomorrow, he's still thinking of an excuse.

So, are you thinking what I'm thinking? What would you do? (before I do it myself LOL) "
I would have binned him after the first excuse . they only get the one chance with me .I just move on

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"A member has been messaging me for a while and we're getting on well, we arrange a meet at a hotel and he says he will book it. Then messages me to say he can't find the hotel (local travel lodge) online so I suggest another one. He comes back saying he can't book it could I pay for it and he will pay me back when we meet, I can't as I have a joint account and a payment to a hotel would end up in me being killed. This morning I get a message saying he isn't sure about tomorrow, he's still thinking of an excuse.

So, are you thinking what I'm thinking? What would you do? (before I do it myself LOL) "

Tell him to foxtrot oscar, block and delete.

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green


"He got back to me at least saying he can't make it but I really think he's a time waster so he's blocked and I have a free day now "

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If the original agreement was for him to book it, then he proffers a range of fairly poor excuses, leading him to load the op with an unrefundable payment for a room that he subsequently admits he may not even turn up for, then a number of things seem likely -

He's completely unreliable,

He would not be someone I'd continue to discuss a meet with,

He'd probably not make the meet but if by some magical chance he did -

He's potentially not going to pay for the room or anything towards it.

I'd block him after a quick, polite go forth message and report him to Admin, with an overview, as he sounds like a user who will happily mess others about.

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