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"Hey guys not sure this is for me mrs here it’s putting me off wanting to even have normal vanilla sex... but mr still wants to do it not sure what to do.... " just say ' no ' end of, never go into something you don't really want to do because of someone else | |||
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"Well look at our status mr put that up yesterday say it all really how he feels about it ....." Oh dear. Assume he’s not happy? X | |||
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"If he put that up in response to how you feel then my first thought I’d “what an utter cunt” but that’s not helpful or constructive. That response just looks like he is emotionally bl*ckmailing you and that sucks. Number 1... if this isn’t making you happy then you must stop Number 2... you both need to find a place of agreement that is good for each of you (and our opinions don’t count in that) Your profile reads like it was your idea by the way, but perhaps if it’s his bisexuality that he’s interested in pursuing you might be happy to allow him to indulge. I had a bi boyfriend for many years and I loved his stories from his fabguys meetings, obviously I wasn’t involved in them. That might not be for you of course, but it might not be as clear cut as “do it” or “don’t do it” V x " | |||
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"If he put that up in response to how you feel then my first thought I’d “what an utter cunt” but that’s not helpful or constructive. That response just looks like he is emotionally bl*ckmailing you and that sucks. Number 1... if this isn’t making you happy then you must stop Number 2... you both need to find a place of agreement that is good for each of you (and our opinions don’t count in that) Your profile reads like it was your idea by the way, but perhaps if it’s his bisexuality that he’s interested in pursuing you might be happy to allow him to indulge. I had a bi boyfriend for many years and I loved his stories from his fabguys meetings, obviously I wasn’t involved in them. That might not be for you of course, but it might not be as clear cut as “do it” or “don’t do it” V x " . I agree with the first bit to this completely, he's acting like a spoilt brat. Tbh I would be more than a bit angry and disappointed with his behaviour. No one has the right to pressurise you to do something that you have doubts about. | |||
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"Well look at our status mr put that up yesterday say it all really how he feels about it ....." Talk! He really needs to listen to how you’re feeling. Putting up status like that is childish and selfish. | |||
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"Can you ask him to read this thread without him flipping?" I do hope so. OP, I really think you both need to sit down and talk things through. Maybe hide your profile for a bit while you get things sorted. Re: his status, not a nice thing to do. Good luck hun. Xx | |||
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"Hey guys not sure this is for me mrs here it’s putting me off wanting to even have normal vanilla sex... but mr still wants to do it not sure what to do.... " Tell him how you feel and you want to stop tell him it may drive you a part so for the good of your relationship you need to rethink things. | |||
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"Hey guys not sure this is for me mrs here it’s putting me off wanting to even have normal vanilla sex... but mr still wants to do it not sure what to do.... " Your status and this thread says it all: I fear you'll be bullied into something you don't want to do. Good luck. | |||
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"Well look at our status mr put that up yesterday say it all really how he feels about it ....." Your partner is a twat and a thoughtless cunt. He has no right to pressure you and to make a statement like that public!!! | |||
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"Well look at our status mr put that up yesterday say it all really how he feels about it ....." You need to take a step back from it and have a good heart to heart ,if he thinks it will help you marriage he is totally wrong . | |||
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