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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do people look at the profile to which the message has come from or is it just an instant delete??.

Just wondered as i put thought into my messages ?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It varies, everyone is different on here as well as RL

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

I always read them and if not enough on j delete can't stand single words like hi!

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I often look at a profile before I read a message. Unless its a one worded message or full of text speak. I always reply to well thought out ones x

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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago

Chester/Wirral


"Do people look at the profile to which the message has come from or is it just an instant delete??.

Just wondered as i put thought into my messages ?"
mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always view the profile before the message, if the profile is the exact opposite of what we are looking for it doesn’t then matter what the message does or doesn’t say as we assume our profile hasnt been read, we look for bi curious men as we know there comfortable in close proximity to another naked man but 95% of our messages are from straight profiles so we don’t even open them

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I do, unless I can see that the message doesn't match what I'm looking for before I open the message. (and yes, I view in stealth mode)

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By *asterBunny38Woman
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

If someone appears to have put some thought and effort into putting together a message, I'll read the profile. That way, I'll know for sure if they're not what I'm looking for.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

I read the message, then look at the profile ( in stealth mode).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do people look at the profile to which the message has come from or is it just an instant delete??.

Just wondered as i put thought into my messages ?"

As long as a message did not piss me off for some reason I look at the profile before deleting the message. Usually it does not alter the decision to delete though because the profile is usually shite with no detail, or no decent pictures or there appears to be no evidence of being a member of chams or xtasia and it clearly states on my profile I will only meet at one of those two clubs so if they are not a member what's the point contacting me. The message usually makes no reference to the clubs despite being well written and the claim that they have read my profile.

So many people try to sidestep peoples preferences with a well written polite message.....it does not work.

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By *MNJCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

We're not into single guys and clearly say so in our profile so never view the profile, weather to delete or troll depends on my mood, E normally just ignores or if they keep messaging tells them to piss off.

Anyone else we look at their profile and reply even if they're not what we're looking for, this probably isn't as easy for single women, super hot couples or people who actually are looking for single guys though as they'll get 100's of messages daily so would have to be brutal.

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By *lsieWoman
over a year ago

where ever

I always look at profile before reading message . If profile is crap and a sentence then I send send a no thank you reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll read the message first, and then compare it to the profile. Sometime you find the profile is Ghostwritten by someone far more literate than the profile owner.

Then I delete it. Then cry wank myself over another lost opportunity.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

We always check the profile first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on what am looking for.

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By *UNANDNICEMan
over a year ago

Basildon

Lady's and what does one say.hi ,HIYA, hello.and a bit about myself.and they all ask for a face picture of you and don't reply back??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Profile text first, photos next & then the message & always in mode.

If the profile is minimalistic, then the message would need to make up for that or I'll reply & say that I'm looking for something they can't give me.

Of course all of that is in my profile, which they would know, if they read it.

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