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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So Leila and I are looking to explore with another woman.

We have had some great contacts but there has been a couple of women who for us would have been great and conversation has been flowing in both directions and all been positive.

But this is where it gets odd....

They just block us with no notice or reasoning for it?

Anyone else get this or done this and care to offer some kind of explanation as we are very confused.

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By *est Wales WifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Carmarthen

How do you know that there were women?

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By *LIRTWITHUSCouple
over a year ago

Chester


"So Leila and I are looking to explore with another woman.

We have had some great contacts but there has been a couple of women who for us would have been great and conversation has been flowing in both directions and all been positive.

But this is where it gets odd....

They just block us with no notice or reasoning for it?

Anyone else get this or done this and care to offer some kind of explanation as we are very confused. "

So many fakes on here unfortunately - clubs is where it's at for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So Leila and I are looking to explore with another woman.

We have had some great contacts but there has been a couple of women who for us would have been great and conversation has been flowing in both directions and all been positive.

But this is where it gets odd....

They just block us with no notice or reasoning for it?

Anyone else get this or done this and care to offer some kind of explanation as we are very confused. "

The only people who can offer an explanation are the women who blocked you and obviously they decided not to offer one before blocking.

Personally if I have been communicating back and forth with a guy and then I decide it is going no where I tell them so and then block so at least they know why. Only right when you have been messaging each other.

They probably just felt it was going no where or they just like to tease.....but only they know for sure. Were they photo verified so you know it was a female behind the profile. Did it look like a genuine profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

On all occasions conversation was leading somewhere though and photo verifications were present I think so makes it all very bizarre!

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By *agermeisterMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"How do you know that there were women? "

Exactly this. I try to establish identity if things look 'serious'

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"So Leila and I are looking to explore with another woman.

We have had some great contacts but there has been a couple of women who for us would have been great and conversation has been flowing in both directions and all been positive.

But this is where it gets odd....

They just block us with no notice or reasoning for it?

Anyone else get this or done this and care to offer some kind of explanation as we are very confused. "

There's always a reason, it could be something you're saying or they might not be who they claim to be.

If it's happening often you need to look at who you're talking to, how you're talking to them and try and verify that they're genuine early on.

If the talk is sexual early on or either party gets pushy it's usually a sign that things aren't going to go well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On all occasions conversation was leading somewhere though and photo verifications were present I think so makes it all very bizarre!"

Photo verified or verified? Easier to fake one than the other, but also easier to check with tineye etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re having the same problem with couples. Most just block or ignore you rather than say they aren’t interested.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We’re having the same problem with couples. Most just block or ignore you rather than say they aren’t interested."

Being new we’ve been telling people that message us that we’re not interested if we’re not but the people that have blocked us have been having really good chat with us. Neither getting pushy or anything like that and then all of a sudden.... blocked. Or at least that is what we assume as they’re messages and profile just disappears

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"We’re having the same problem with couples. Most just block or ignore you rather than say they aren’t interested.

Being new we’ve been telling people that message us that we’re not interested if we’re not but the people that have blocked us have been having really good chat with us. Neither getting pushy or anything like that and then all of a sudden.... blocked. Or at least that is what we assume as they’re messages and profile just disappears "

If messages and profile disappear it means they've left the site.

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By *launt Thy CurvesCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Pandora Club, Leeds, 15th Mar 25

A club may work better for you op? Harder for them to vanish!

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

We just go to clubs its easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sorry Op but it was a guy you were talking too...

Unless you spoke on the phone to the female, it was a man looking for sexy chat....

No worries, they will be back with a new profile and the same pics very soon....

So you can have closure....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So Leila and I are looking to explore with another woman.

We have had some great contacts but there has been a couple of women who for us would have been great and conversation has been flowing in both directions and all been positive.

But this is where it gets odd....

They just block us with no notice or reasoning for it?

Anyone else get this or done this and care to offer some kind of explanation as we are very confused. "

Sheet volumes of mails perhaps? Can’t keep track and adswered too many?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above, if the messages have disappeared too then they have left the site, in which case the issue is definitely with them rather than you. Tends to indicate someone who wouldn’t have followed through to a meet though so you probably dodged a long wait in a pub or a coffee shop. Or hotel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’re having the same problem with couples. Most just block or ignore you rather than say they aren’t interested.

Being new we’ve been telling people that message us that we’re not interested if we’re not but the people that have blocked us have been having really good chat with us. Neither getting pushy or anything like that and then all of a sudden.... blocked. Or at least that is what we assume as they’re messages and profile just disappears "

Do you mean the messages from them in your inbox disappear and the sent messages to them disappear from your outbox. If so then they were removed by admin or chose to delete their account.

Messages cannot go from your in/outbox unless you delete them.

Being blocked just stops you replying to messages it does not delete the received/sent messages already in your in/out box.

Probably really a man who got reported to admin.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We’re having the same problem with couples. Most just block or ignore you rather than say they aren’t interested.

Being new we’ve been telling people that message us that we’re not interested if we’re not but the people that have blocked us have been having really good chat with us. Neither getting pushy or anything like that and then all of a sudden.... blocked. Or at least that is what we assume as they’re messages and profile just disappears

Do you mean the messages from them in your inbox disappear and the sent messages to them disappear from your outbox. If so then they were removed by admin or chose to delete their account.

Messages cannot go from your in/outbox unless you delete them.

Being blocked just stops you replying to messages it does not delete the received/sent messages already in your in/out box.

Probably really a man who got reported to admin."

Great to know. Thanks for your input and thanks to everyone else.

Makes us feel a little better

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