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"Hi I posted something similar the other day but did not get much feedback Any advice to a newbie on this site I am friendly and polite and send a good first message normally to grab someone’s attention mentioning something on there profile, ( not hi how’s u crap lol) Yet I don’t seem to get messages back I have spoke to a few nice people but no meets. Any profile or general advice ? Thanks " Your profile is fine hun and you have some really nice pics, great ink btw. Just be patient im sure someone will come along. I would love to meet you if I was closer x | |||
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"Love the pic lexi. Looks you’ve blocked me though Shame woulda loved checking your profile out maybe chatting too " We chatted, I blocked you because you wouldn’t do your tasks when you were begging to be my sub, if your blocked it means I don’t wish to speak to you, this is the second time you’ve contacted me through the forums! | |||
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"The thing is unless someone has a meet posted or similar the chances are they are not looking. I get numerous mail a day. I'm sure it get on and fancy a lot of them but I'm not looking so I don't even read most. It's not what they are doing. A lot of people have lives and this comes down the list of things to do " That’s so true ..I get up with hubby at 445 every morning ...and we get people messagungbsaying “meet now” ...life, sadly, take precedence over fun | |||
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"You would do better on dating sites? I have no problem getting dates compared with getting meets on here. I've been on and off here a few years now and really can't be bothered anymore it's got that bad" So when will you be deleting your profile? Plenty of people do well on here. | |||
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"You would do better on dating sites? I have no problem getting dates compared with getting meets on here. I've been on and off here a few years now and really can't be bothered anymore it's got that bad So when will you be deleting your profile? Plenty of people do well on here. " Boom! | |||
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"Love the pic lexi. Looks you’ve blocked me though Shame woulda loved checking your profile out maybe chatting too " And therefore you shouldn't be using the forums to get round the block | |||
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"Ok erm spell check your profile, there's a few mistakes and some people can get so anal about it, personally I don't care if Tom Hardy knows the difference between their, there and they're but obviously alot of people do. The pics are spot on, some people may be put off by tattoos but you can't change that. Biggest tip is read profiles and concentrate mostly on people that you actually fit what they are looking for. Messaging someone who lives 4 hrs away would seem a big waste of time. I do wish you luck, you have obviously put a bit of effort in x " I’m with Pablo on the spellings and grammatical errors mate; they CAN make a difference to who you appeal to. I would also condense your profile text down to only a few main facts about yourself, most people only skim read profiles, and many won’t even bother if it looks like ‘War and Peace’. Your photos will pique interest (as this thread has already shown) Use your block button! Cut the wheat from the chaff; when doing your local searches (ie; the people you’re most likely to meet), block any profile either you don’t match, or they don’t match wheat you’re looking for. Whittle them down to a handful of potential meets, then message with an eye only on them, rather than one of 10 you’re messaging today, They can tell Don’t visit a club by yourself, it’s a tough gig being a single male in those places, certainly not for the faint hearted! Keep an eye out for the socials in the North East, they’re a lot easier and friendlier to attend as a single guy. Good luck fella! | |||
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"Hi I posted something similar the other day but did not get much feedback Any advice to a newbie on this site I am friendly and polite and send a good first message normally to grab someone’s attention mentioning something on there profile, ( not hi how’s u crap lol) Yet I don’t seem to get messages back I have spoke to a few nice people but no meets. Any profile or general advice ? Thanks " You have been here three weeks! | |||
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"Hi OP Your profile looks good to be honest, a lot better than mine. Hope it’s okay with everyone on here as it saves a new thread but could anyone recommend some advice for my profile as well? Thanks in advance" It's considered rude to hijack other peoples threads, start your own, really doesn't take much effort x | |||
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