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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To harsh?

We’ve been back and fourth for 7 years so I guess we just want to be as transparent as possible as to how we approach things and give our perspective? We’ve never asked for advice, just curious as to how our profile is perceived??

We’re open to constructive criticism and advice, but please be gentle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only skimmed it as it is really long but seems like a good honest profile to me

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Clear and concise, you explain what will happen if your profile hasn’t been read, or if there isn’t any attraction..

10 out of 10 for effort

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Its informative but quite long. I did get to the end of it but found it a hard slog.

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By *offee with MilkCouple
over a year ago

Over the roundabout and then turn right.

It's a good profile with a no nonsense approach.

Curvy Girl does have a gorgeous arse, but I wouldn't die for it. Kill for it perhaps...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to look twice as I was interrupted but it looks ok and it’s honest and clear

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K


"Its informative but quite long. I did get to the end of it but found it a hard slog.

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I personally gave up after reading 2/3rds I’m afraid. However, it certainly wasn’t too harsh, just a bit too much to read.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your feedback, we really do appreciate it x

I think we agree it’s maybe a tad too long so the decision is to ditch the two long self descriptions of each other as we show enough in our pics, not to mention the titles we’ve given ourselves are pretty much self explanatory

Again thankyou xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks fine to me.

I think the first half, which mentions about non-responses to winks / messages may seem negative to some, it is, to be fair, up front and honest and makes your position very clear.

I would say that many of us probably manage our fab account in a similar manner, but just haven't gone to the extent of spelling it out on our profiles.

I haven't found your profile in the slightest bit off-putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your first line is a negative, that to me is off putting. Otherwise it's a great profile, descriptive and clear about what you want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks fine.clear as to what you both are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To harsh?

We’ve been back and fourth for 7 years so I guess we just want to be as transparent as possible as to how we approach things and give our perspective? We’ve never asked for advice, just curious as to how our profile is perceived??

We’re open to constructive criticism and advice, but please be gentle "
I didn't think it was harsh at all, good luck

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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

. advice to whomever is applicable to all genders, there are loads of threads in the archives.

My own perspective

I couldn't see anything that gave me any idea of what you were offering, I've no idea of a what a meet with you would be like what you enjoy.

I suggest the same to all.

Profiles should inform the reader of your wants and desires, attract and entice others with the words and pictures, give folk a flavour of what they can expect.

If you're having fun and it's working change nothing if it's not working change something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with that. I am sure get a good number of interested people. Whilst on subject whats mine like? So hard writing about yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi profile looks good. My only suggestion would be move the 1st 2 paragraphs further down, that would soften it. So it opens with a friendly who you are, not a negative we don't do this etc. (don't get rid of them altogether, I completely understand why it's needed)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's interesting the comments it was too long. I guess you have now shortened it, so I can't comment. It's now a lot shorter than mine certainly.

I think it's more an indication of people's attention span, these days. Personally I would always read a profile to get an indication of the person/couple before looking at the photos.

Yours seems much like others I read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hijack but could people rate us too please , we thougt we had a good profile but 6/7 views a day obviosuly we havent haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to hijack but could people rate us too please , we thougt we had a good profile but 6/7 views a day obviosuly we havent haha x"

Your profile is good. Some great pics and friendly. Spotted you both on a forum comment earlier so must stand a little. Maybe that's all you need - a little but more exposure on the forums? And your filters are set well or you'd be inundated with single guy requests!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry to hijack but could people rate us too please , we thougt we had a good profile but 6/7 views a day obviosuly we havent haha x"

Have pm’d x

Well thankyou for the comments, we did change it yesterday as we received messages saying it was mostly “too long”.

We’ve come to the conclusion that you just can’t please everyone here as there is such a vast assortment of personalities and preferences. But make no mistake, we have took everything each and everyone of you have said on board, especially the “negative” points as that is definitely giving a false impression of our personalities!

Thankyou guys, very much appreciated xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to hijack but could people rate us too please , we thougt we had a good profile but 6/7 views a day obviosuly we havent haha x"
zelda very sexy were you in pirates of the Caribbean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry to hijack but could people rate us too please , we thougt we had a good profile but 6/7 views a day obviosuly we havent haha xzelda very sexy were you in pirates of the Caribbean? "

Yeah she did a cameo appearence x

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Both profiles look fine to us, wouldn't worry too much about number of views tbh, many of us are in stealth mode and won't show up in the list, generally to avoid the single guys that message saying 'you looked at my profile so surely you want to fuck me?'

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By *andS33Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Totally off topic but Zelda has a lovely peachy bum too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally off topic but Zelda has a lovely peachy bum too! "

So is yours, wow x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Totally off topic but Zelda has a lovely peachy bum too!

So is yours, wow x"

Oh, we concur for the both of you xx

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Looks fine to me

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Well you know I like your profile OP, or at least I hope you do

Know you've changed it a little but have never thought of it as either negative or too long - it does what it's supposed to, and that is give people an idea of who you are and what you are looking for as well as can bring to the table - all backed up with some very appealing pics.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well you know I like your profile OP, or at least I hope you do

Know you've changed it a little but have never thought of it as either negative or too long - it does what it's supposed to, and that is give people an idea of who you are and what you are looking for as well as can bring to the table - all backed up with some very appealing pics."

Well the feeling is mutual as your in our hotlist!

Thankyou for your feedback, we have changed it, shortened it a little because even we got a little bored reading through it which is not good! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To harsh?

We’ve been back and fourth for 7 years so I guess we just want to be as transparent as possible as to how we approach things and give our perspective? We’ve never asked for advice, just curious as to how our profile is perceived??

We’re open to constructive criticism and advice, but please be gentle "

Harsh? Not at all.

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By *rimson_RoseWoman
over a year ago

Tamworth

I think it's a great profile, if you messaged I'd definitely reply on the back of that.

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple
over a year ago

Planet Ork

Great photos, love seeing something out of the ordinary but sexy on here. Profile text tells us what we need to know, if people think your profile is too long then we’ve got no chance!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To harsh?

We’ve been back and fourth for 7 years so I guess we just want to be as transparent as possible as to how we approach things and give our perspective? We’ve never asked for advice, just curious as to how our profile is perceived??

We’re open to constructive criticism and advice, but please be gentle

Harsh? Not at all. "

Thankyou, we did have all the generic “do’s & dont’s, will’s & wont’s” originally, but in reading back we both said that if it were another couples profile we would (and have been) slightly put off by the rules and regulations bit xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it's a great profile, if you messaged I'd definitely reply on the back of that. "

Thankyou very much x

And after reading your profile and looking at your pics (several times) we take that as a very welcomed compliment xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Great photos, love seeing something out of the ordinary but sexy on here. Profile text tells us what we need to know, if people think your profile is too long then we’ve got no chance! "

Oh it was a bit of a novel before we “adjusted” it! We do enjoy our little photo shoots those pics are a week old now so we’re thinking another pic taking session is due very soon!

Thankyou for your kind words xx

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