FabSwingers.com forum: Straight single guy want to improve my profile?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m a bit lost, made this account a while ago but only just started using it recently, any pointers of how I can improve it as it’s lacking, any do’s/donts?

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's quite lacking, I'm afraid.

Profile picture is nice, more like that would be good (risqué rather than explicit).

Cock shot, I'm not keen but some are, but in the bathroom isn't the best.

Sell yourself on your profile. What kind of person are you, what are you looking for, what do you have to offer? Put yourself in the shoes of the women you're messaging: if you've got 20+ messages from other guys to go through, why would you reply to someone with this profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks a lot I appreciate that, needed the perspective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be honest and try to show your natural personality

I did and got a lot of compliments for it especially if you are quite new like me not enough newbies make the effort I have been told

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’d put more photos up.

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

A dick in a sink ? Do you expect people to find that sexy ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice everyone and also thanks, the dick sink pic was defianatly not the brightest idea pahah note to self think with the big head not the little head..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Advising some members to "move the fuck on" doesn't seem very respectful.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Thanks for the advice everyone and also thanks, the dick sink pic was defianatly not the brightest idea pahah note to self think with the big head not the little head.."

Could be worse. Some, it's over a dirty toilet. (in general, the question "is any visible background in this photo attractive?" is a good one)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saying you’re not sociable would put me off. You also ask for someone on your wavelength but don’t say what that is, we’re not mind readers. If I was to guess I’d presume it means someone who just wants to fuck and go without the social aspect of a meet. This would also put me off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a bit lost, made this account a while ago but only just started using it recently, any pointers of how I can improve it as it’s lacking, any do’s/donts?"

Try pof or match.com you will get a lot more action I promise you

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I’m a bit lost, made this account a while ago but only just started using it recently, any pointers of how I can improve it as it’s lacking, any do’s/donts?

Try pof or match.com you will get a lot more action I promise you"

This site works wonders - you just have to use the tools the site provides you with. Anyone who moans and blames the site can always leave.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I’m a bit lost, made this account a while ago but only just started using it recently, any pointers of how I can improve it as it’s lacking, any do’s/donts?

Try pof or match.com you will get a lot more action I promise you

This site works wonders - you just have to use the tools the site provides you with. Anyone who moans and blames the site can always leave. "

Honestly. At the moment, over half of my deletes are such because the messages are three words or under and/or make me dry heave.

On the other hand, I'd seriously struggle with my messages if most people did make something of an effort.

But, those who try are way more likely to get somewhere.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Looks like I missed the cock shots thankfully

OP it's a dull profile and looks like you think women will come running because you have a 6 pack.

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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

"Looks like I missed the cock shots thankfully

OP it's a dull profile and looks like you think women will come running because you have a 6 pack.

Yes - also say that you have wine and small nibbles available too - ladies love a healthy snack btw

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Doh..a dick in a sink and I missed it...my favourite, can you pm me with it please, help me sleep tonight!!

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

The fact that you are happy to meet people up to the age of 99 is either a bit weird, or you were too lazy to bother changing your age preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's brilliant to learn what puts you off single guys profiles.

Great thread!

We need more ladies to get involved and give us men few tips

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By *hite1100Man
over a year ago

Hither Green

"I’m a bit lost, made this account a while ago but only just started using it recently, any pointers of how I can improve it as it’s lacking, any do’s/donts?

Try pof or match.com you will get a lot more action I promise you"

Sadly I would agree with this.

On here the imbalance in numbers between men and women makes it heavy going for single guys. Those sites are a lot more balanced in terms of numbers - the downside is that *most* women on those sites are looking for conventional relationships.

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