FabSwingers.com forum: Advice

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey guys, we have been on the site for quite a while now and have tried various different approaches when it comes to finding meets ect, managed to speak to some amazing people but never seem to be able to finalise and see through a meet with people we really like.

Is it us? Something on our profile that could be off putting?

We just seem to get ghosted after a productive conversation, more often than not.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You say you can accommodate after 10im guessing that means there would be kids up stairs.That would probably put a few people off.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I like to see a pic of a couple together.

The fact you want a webcam chat before arranging a meet would be offputting to some. Also that you are 420 friendly. What is sesh?

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Your druggie line would put us off straight away but each to their own.

Good luck in your search and happy fabbing.

Mr2

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your druggie line would put us off straight away but each to their own.

Good luck in your search and happy fabbing.

Mr2"

We respect everyone's opinions and choices, that's why it's on the bio.

Thanks for your comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your druggie line would put us off straight away but each to their own.

Good luck in your search and happy fabbing.

Mr2

We respect everyone's opinions and choices, that's why it's on the bio.

Thanks for your comment.

Nothing off putting I can see

Sometimes there's just no chemistry when you get into messaging someone

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I would, at this point, like to add, it says 420 & sesh FRIENDLY, that neither says we do or don't partake, we just don't judge others by their choices and will meet those who do choose to partake.

We class ourselves as open-minded, that's across the board and we also respect opposing opinions.

Thanks for your comments so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You demand this, that and the other from people you want to meet, we're not here to jump through hoops for a meet. Yes, i appreciate you have to vet any possible meets, but expecting people to webcam is a bit much. Believe it or not, we dont have a webcam!! Im sure others dont too.

Unless i misread it, you're looking to meet couples for soft swing, because female doesn't want full sex, but the male half is allowed full sex. Not much in it for the possible couple you'd meet. Theres a chance you might find that, but its asking alot. Thats probably why you're struggling. Oh, and the accommodate after 10pm(kids in bed i take it

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Poppy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You demand this, that and the other from people you want to meet, we're not here to jump through hoops for a meet. Yes, i appreciate you have to vet any possible meets, but expecting people to webcam is a bit much. Believe it or not, we dont have a webcam!! Im sure others dont too.

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Poppy"

Profile updated, thanks for your input.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see an issue with any of it.

Yes a couple photo would be ideal even if it didn't include your faces, totally understand why some don't have a face photo on display.

I'd not be put off with the 420 friendly line. I don't partake but doesn't mean I have an issue with those that do, like you say shows you are open minded.

10pm might be too late for some maybe?

Listing what you are looking for probably narrows the field a bit but if that's your preference persevere and hopefully it will come along soon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 10/11/18 12:16:25]"

Thanks for your input, will look at getting a pic together later on.

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

There is nothing wrong with your profile as such. There will always be things that put people off so all you can do is look for like minded people and be patient.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There is nothing wrong with your profile as such. There will always be things that put people off so all you can do is look for like minded people and be patient.

Thanks for your input. Appreciate it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People in general are self serving and selfish. You have to fight fire with fire and do what suits you.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Your updated profile looks good to us, like your pics and the openness of your profile.

The only thing that might prevent us meeting you is that we're too old for you, but that's our problem.

Hope things go well for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not you, virtually everyone has the same experience fab has gone right downhill the last couple of years? Too much publicity in the national press and the site is over run with idiots. Single people join pof or match.com, couples should try clubs, social events or house parties. Half the threads on here are people asking how to get a meet? That's a pretty big clue your wasting your time.

I go to the attic some Saturday nights and always get to play and get plenty of offers from so called vanilla dating sites, here I may as well be banging my head against a brick wall

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Drug references makes me think “losers”. Maybe other people think that too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Drug references makes me think “losers”. Maybe other people think that too. "

Totally disagree with you, why are you calling people you don't know loser's??? You might have noticed is getting legalized all over the world? Canada being the latest coutry? No doubt we will be one of the last because of this kind of opinion

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Drug references makes me think “losers”. Maybe other people think that too.

Read what I said. I didn’t call anyone a loser. Why are you making patently false allegations against a guy you don’t know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've not actually read the profile but if I'm reading this thread right you're looking to meet at home, with kids in bed, possibly get stoned, quite late at night... Not a combination I;d imagine many would go for

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Will fab pull your profile and this forum as discussing drugs and fabs inability to take a profile off for asking for 420 meets got me a 24 hour ban. Loose the 420 bit as this will put some off . Ask when you chat via messages

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